Attention *****s are confusing!

[ChalengeGuyFan]

If I didn't know better, I'd get oneitis. I am probably on the verge right now...

This girl is hot, hot, hot and has a personality to match.
However, she's such a great attention *****! She wants every guy to pine over her, therefore has run game on almost everyone (minus the losers). Withdraw the attention and she runs some more game!

And she knows how to do it! She shows interest, she's a fukking PRO at kino, she throws sexual innuendos, she uses her wit, etc. Fukking pro, I tell you!
If she were a guy, she'd ride along the best DJs.

I was fooled more than once into thinking that she'd want something more between the two of us. But she behaved the same with every other guy.
Well... I guess I have to use her to sharpen my skills.
But damn I'd lay her!

 

[Renegade357]

If you're gonna get the ole oneitis at least do it with a chick you've banged or dated. It's less sad that way. You should know better dude. Go find some plates.

 

[Mike32ct]

This chick is evil - a wolf in sheep's clothing. Move on.

But if you must...

The next time she talks blatantly sexual with you or hints at having sex...

AW: Blah blah blah F F F, c&ck p@ss, etc.

You: I know your type <smirk>

AW: What type?

You: <with deep eye contact> All talk... and no action

 

[st_99]

And she knows how to do it! She shows interest, she's a fukking PRO at kino, she throws sexual innuendos, she uses her wit, etc. Fukking pro, I tell you!
If she were a guy, she'd ride along the best DJs.

yes, that is because this is a womens natural instincts. They've been honing in their skills since they were 5. Girls will always be far more advanced at running game then men. Just the way it is.

the hot ones are really good simply because its reinforced every day as they grow up. We created this monster! LOL.

 

[VladPatton]

I dealt with one of these in my 20's. Bad, bad, news. They are ringleaders looking for an endless supply of clowns to have fun with, do activities with, and take advantage of. The guys who bang em you don't even see or hear about. Unless they get hurt by them, then you are her bestie because she needs a shoulder to cry on. But so is her other guy friend. And the other one. Oh yeah, him too! All you guys are her little crutch now, until she begins to write the next chapter of fun which may or may not include you.

Be careful, go cold, say hi once in a while, but stay away. This girl is bad news. Don't fall for how fun she is 'today'. She is most likely damaged goods trying to put a band aid on a sinking Titanic-sized ship of insecurities.

Case in point: That girl I once knew is now married, has a kid. You don't even wanna know how even more phucked up she became and how she treats that dumb, hapless bastard. Let's just say they don't share a bedroom and he loves the couch.

Good luck.

 

[PDubb75]

I'll share my AW story (sorry if it's a bit long):

My ex (the ex who's pics I used in the fake POF profile, if you saw that thread) is the biggest attention wh0re I have ever seen. We dated in the summer of 2004 and then I broke up with her for the girl I got into a LTR with. For 6 months after I broke up with her, she would call me, begging for me back. If I showed any sign that I kinda missed her... she would go silent for a couple days.

Fast forward to May 2011, and we started talking again. She saw I was single on Facebook and added me as a friend and starts asking crazy questions about it. Tells me this guy she just broke up with was all wrong for her and that her and I need to grab a drink. I said "I'm free this Thursday".... crickets.

I didn't really care because I wasn't trying for anything at all since she was so crazy last I talked to her. So, seeing her Facebook, and random chats the next few months, she seemed to be a completely different girl I figured, I shouldn't be judging her at age 27 based on how she acted at 19. I started getting interested again. She would IM me twice a day. I never initiated. She randomly called me (still had my number from 8 years ago). Yet every time hanging out was brought up, she would act so excited and it would never happen.

Then almost a year ago to the day, she gets engaged to the guy she was complaining to me about. All of the sudden, shes IMing me even more often, flirting more than ever. I start dating this other girl and she bumps up the contact even more. Keeps telling me how gorgeous my g/f is, and we should double-date, blah blah blah. Never happened. G/f breaks up with me. This AW calls me as soon as she finds out and is saying we need to hang out, and how sorry she is, and if we are both single at 30 we are getting married. I asked her to grab a drink with me. She says "ugh! I have plans that day! You know what, I feel like such a b!tch that every time we try to see each other, the plans fall through. I'm gonna cancel my plans with my friend. We can do that day, sweetie!" Guess what never happens.

I go NC. Sick of it. I was noticing that I was caring about this too much, and it was time to cut it off.

She ends her engagement. IMs me to tell me. I don't respond. She sends like 15 IMs asking where I am. Then she calls me. So I picked up, she tells me what happened. Then tells me she broke up with him 3 days ago, and shes been on 2 dates already. I said "tell me why this matters to me". She got pissed and hung up.

Fast forward about 5-6 weeks to two weekends ago. IMs me... this is the convo:

Her: Hey can we talk?
Her: Sweetie, are you there?
Her: Umm, hello?
Her: where are you I need to talk...
Me: bout what
Her: Kinda in a funk. I'm meeting up with this guy I dated for like 2 years, and I'm really nervous that this is a really bad idea. Do you think I should cancel? Ugh this could end bad. I'm getting too emotional about it.
Me: Yeah... I'm not doing this.
Her: ??
Me: I'm not sitting here on Facebook and talking you through your guy issues, or any issues for that matter, when you can't find any time to talk to me outside of this chat box. Not happening.
Her: Are you coming to the city tonight????
Her: Well??
Me: Yeah, what's it matter?
Her: Let's meet up!! Where are you going???
Me: Starting out at _____ in _____.
Her: Sounds fun! I'll meet you there, hun! And I'm buying us shots

Never showed up.

I finally unfriended her on Facebook. And I have ignored her calls since (I'm assuming) she noticed.

Yet I still wanna fvck her brains out.

 

[blind_one]

I'll share my AW story (sorry if it's a bit long):

My ex (the ex who's pics I used in the fake POF profile, if you saw that thread) is the biggest attention wh0re I have ever seen. We dated in the summer of 2004 and then I broke up with her for the girl I got into a LTR with. For 6 months after I broke up with her, she would call me, begging for me back. If I showed any sign that I kinda missed her... she would go silent for a couple days.

Fast forward to May 2011, and we started talking again. She saw I was single on Facebook and added me as a friend and starts asking crazy questions about it. Tells me this guy she just broke up with was all wrong for her and that her and I need to grab a drink. I said "I'm free this Thursday".... crickets.

I didn't really care because I wasn't trying for anything at all since she was so crazy last I talked to her. So, seeing her Facebook, and random chats the next few months, she seemed to be a completely different girl I figured, I shouldn't be judging her at age 27 based on how she acted at 19. I started getting interested again. She would IM me twice a day. I never initiated. She randomly called me (still had my number from 8 years ago). Yet every time hanging out was brought up, she would act so excited and it would never happen.

Then almost a year ago to the day, she gets engaged to the guy she was complaining to me about. All of the sudden, shes IMing me even more often, flirting more than ever. I start dating this other girl and she bumps up the contact even more. Keeps telling me how gorgeous my g/f is, and we should double-date, blah blah blah. Never happened. G/f breaks up with me. This AW calls me as soon as she finds out and is saying we need to hang out, and how sorry she is, and if we are both single at 30 we are getting married. I asked her to grab a drink with me. She says "ugh! I have plans that day! You know what, I feel like such a b!tch that every time we try to see each other, the plans fall through. I'm gonna cancel my plans with my friend. We can do that day, sweetie!" Guess what never happens.

I go NC. Sick of it. I was noticing that I was caring about this too much, and it was time to cut it off.

She ends her engagement. IMs me to tell me. I don't respond. She sends like 15 IMs asking where I am. Then she calls me. So I picked up, she tells me what happened. Then tells me she broke up with him 3 days ago, and shes been on 2 dates already. I said "tell me why this matters to me". She got pissed and hung up.

Fast forward about 5-6 weeks to two weekends ago. IMs me... this is the convo:

Her: Hey can we talk?
Her: Sweetie, are you there?
Her: Umm, hello?
Her: where are you I need to talk...
Me: bout what
Her: Kinda in a funk. I'm meeting up with this guy I dated for like 2 years, and I'm really nervous that this is a really bad idea. Do you think I should cancel? Ugh this could end bad. I'm getting too emotional about it.
Me: Yeah... I'm not doing this.
Her: ??
Me: I'm not sitting here on Facebook and talking you through your guy issues, or any issues for that matter, when you can't find any time to talk to me outside of this chat box. Not happening.
Her: Are you coming to the city tonight????
Her: Well??
Me: Yeah, what's it matter?
Her: Let's meet up!! Where are you going???
Me: Starting out at _____ in _____.
Her: Sounds fun! I'll meet you there, hun! And I'm buying us shots

Never showed up.

I finally unfriended her on Facebook. And I have ignored her calls since (I'm assuming) she noticed.

Yet I still wanna fvck her brains out.

This brings a new dimension to AWh*ring

 

[flashpoint]

Yet I still wanna fvck her brains out.

what brains?

 

[PDubb75]

what brains?

Ha.... I stand corrected.

 

[nismo-4]

Attention Wh0res are just not that into you should be the title. They've been pedestalized so much that they think their world revolves around them. I've dealt with a woman like this who felt she was very entitled. Know what Judge nismo told her?

Shut the f**k up!

She says "Put your money where your mouth is." I say "Put your mouth where my dik is." She walks off. I woulda f**ked, but I had to destroy that pedestal. Or at least a piece of it. :yes:

Princesses like these are usually in another castle.

Case closed.

 

[georgie24]

the beta males paradise

 

[youngmack]

Pdubb's story is hilarious !...But yeah stay away from these types man. My current oneitis is an ex who was also an attention *****. STAY away unless your game is in tip top shape

 

[Mike32ct]

AWs have an important purpose: they keep 90% of the dudes (my competition) occupied.

Be glad she's doing a fake lesbian dance with her gf in the club and 100 guys are watching and drooling. It's your chance to pull a normal girl while the enemy is distracted :cheer:

 

[youngmack]

Hmm so i am wondering...How does one out-game an attention wh0re to turn the tables around and have her showing you attention and drooling all over you?

 

[PDubb75]

Hmm so i am wondering...How does one out-game an attention wh0re to turn the tables around and have her showing you attention and drooling all over you?

Don't give her attention. This works on two levels. 1) You shouldn't waste your time on them anyway, and 2) It may intrigue her and then some nice pvssy will fall in your lap for an easy lay.

At the same time you are getting over her, you may be "gaming" her in her head.

There is no other way to play it.

 

[pdx1138]

DAAAAAMN Pdubb!

I would have thought after a flake or two she would have shown up.

A BPD ex of mine is the same way, but she doesn't flake.

 

[PDubb75]

DAAAAAMN Pdubb!

I would have thought after a flake or two she would have shown up.

A BPD ex of mine is the same way, but she doesn't flake.

You would think so, huh? It's crazy. On the rare occasion that I commented on her Facebook stuff, she would ALWAYS respond to my comment, even if it was the 25th one there. Even if I was trolling like crazy and my comment had NOTHING to do with her post (usually when she would post pics). She would consistently "like" and comment on my stuff.

The only reason this means anything, is this got to the point where multiple friends would ask me if something was going on with her and I. My ex told me she didn't like her because she "could tell" she had a thing for me. Some acquaintances will come to me looking for me to put in a good word about them to her cause they liked her. All because people got the impression we were so close because of how she would act.

I just don't get it. She's crazy... that's all I got...

 

[Kbomb]

you should have taken her way less seriously. i would have given her bad advice until she left me alone or got a clue.

 

[sodbuster]

The only time I take ANY woman seriously is after sex. Before that, they have more promises than politicians

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

This thread is on my personal DJ Bible. There's so much gold here!

A friend of ours did what PDubb75 said below, from day one. This chick is dying to get into his pants and has tried so several times. It's funny to see how this guy ignores her and she comes back for more

Don't give her attention. This works on two levels. 1) You shouldn't waste your time on them anyway, and 2) It may intrigue her and then some nice pvssy will fall in your lap for an easy lay.

At the same time you are getting over her, you may be "gaming" her in her head.

There is no other way to play it.