Attention *****s are confusing!

[Naughty Ninja]

Damn this thread is painful to read...

Chicks who play those types of games on posters who should "hopefully" know better from posting/reading on here should have long ago realized to have dropped their own ego and need for validation from some "hawt" chick and learn to look at scenarios like those mentioned as nothing more than some chick who gets off on the attention but doesn't want it to ever go further than that with certain dudes.


You simply have to look at the scenario honestly as it unwinds almost in a third party viewing and remain indifferent to the nonsense but like Mike32ct said: Call their bluff immediately. All talk no action.

Now most on here would simply rather be strung along and try to "game" these chicks because well....the truth that she didn't really like them is too much to bear so posters would rather throw out some BPD or some other label as a band aid for having their feelings hurt when they SHOULD have stepped up with a sh1t or get off the pot ultimatum to the chick and then moved on.

But I'd say it's "safer" for most guys to keep the chick around as some sort of ego boost that's all an illusion.

Drop chicks like these immediately after an ultimatum; (sh1t or get off the pot toots) or you are just as big as an attention wh0re as she is if you know deep down inside nothing is going to come of it in the end.

 

[GADavid]

I dealt with one of these in my 20's. Bad, bad, news. They are ringleaders looking for an endless supply of clowns to have fun with, do activities with, and take advantage of. The guys who bang em you don't even see or hear about. Unless they get hurt by them, then you are her bestie because she needs a shoulder to cry on. But so is her other guy friend. And the other one. Oh yeah, him too! All you guys are her little crutch now, until she begins to write the next chapter of fun which may or may not include you.

Be careful, go cold, say hi once in a while, but stay away. This girl is bad news. Don't fall for how fun she is 'today'. She is most likely damaged goods trying to put a band aid on a sinking Titanic-sized ship of insecurities.

Case in point: That girl I once knew is now married, has a kid. You don't even wanna know how even more phucked up she became and how she treats that dumb, hapless bastard. Let's just say they don't share a bedroom and he loves the couch.

Good luck.

F-me. I banged that chick. Ripped my heart out too. At least I could see she's not LTR material thanks to this forum. The fun side is enough to make a man crazy, but she's is so full of issues it would never work

 

[rgeere]

If I didn't know better, I'd get oneitis. I am probably on the verge right now...

This girl is hot, hot, hot and has a personality to match.
However, she's such a great attention *****! She wants every guy to pine over her, therefore has run game on almost everyone (minus the losers). Withdraw the attention and she runs some more game!

And she knows how to do it! She shows interest, she's a fukking PRO at kino, she throws sexual innuendos, she uses her wit, etc. Fukking pro, I tell you!
If she were a guy, she'd ride along the best DJs.

I was fooled more than once into thinking that she'd want something more between the two of us. But she behaved the same with every other guy.
Well... I guess I have to use her to sharpen my skills.
But damn I'd lay her!

She could be poly-amorous and just flirts with everyone. Just remember that every attention wh0re out there has good traits and bad traits. In this instance, you have to telegraph your expectations through making fun of things you don't like about her.

If you know anything about the mystery method, he calls it negging. The reason this works is because you'll know then whether or not she is truly interested in you because she would attempt to fit the profile of what you expect by telling her indirectly what you don't want to see from her.

I don't know if that fits your situation or not specifically, but this technique does to work to help you see whether or not a poly-amorous attention wh0re is really interested in you or not or just fooling around. That is actually one of the key reasons to use negs in the mystery method.