Nice posts, guys. Yeah, I guess if one has a history of attracting or staying with BPD women, you should look a little further into why that is. I'm not sure of the prevalence of BPD among males but I'm pretty sure I have a bit of it. It runs in my family, having lost a grandmother and sister to it and having an aunt who acknowledges her problems with it.
Maybe it is ironic or makes perfect sense, but last year when my sister died, I was dating a girl who (i realize now) was exactly like her. This girl dumped me like it was nothing when I got too AFC after the funeral. I went from bad boy to sad boy and despite the circumstances she lost interest, blamed it all on me and was remorseless. It sucked big time and I could never figure out her motives, but it kind of makes sense now.
Anyways, I probably should have seen the warning signs and avoided her type, as I will next time. Big thanks to everyone esp. KontrollerX and jophil28 for your info.
Maybe it is ironic or makes perfect sense, but last year when my sister died, I was dating a girl who (i realize now) was exactly like her. This girl dumped me like it was nothing when I got too AFC after the funeral. I went from bad boy to sad boy and despite the circumstances she lost interest, blamed it all on me and was remorseless. It sucked big time and I could never figure out her motives, but it kind of makes sense now.
Anyways, I probably should have seen the warning signs and avoided her type, as I will next time. Big thanks to everyone esp. KontrollerX and jophil28 for your info.