At what point does it make SENSE to get married?

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It makes sense to get married in your mid 20s with a similarly aged or slightly younger wife.

You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them.

You will save precious time circling the wagons at bars, clubs, and other places where the odds of finding a potential future wife are very slim. You will be sacrificing your health, wallet, and time going to these places often.

You will also waste time on online dating which has a very poor return on investment.

You will be able to establish roots earlier, build equity earlier, and most importantly, enjoy your precious youth with a person you love.
 

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When you're 45-50
 

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It makes sense to get married in your mid 20s with a similarly aged or slightly younger wife.

You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them.

You will save precious time circling the wagons at bars, clubs, and other places where the odds of finding a potential future wife are very slim. You will be sacrificing your health, wallet, and time going to these places often.

You will also waste time on online dating which has a very poor return on investment.

You will be able to establish roots earlier, build equity earlier, and most importantly, enjoy your precious youth with a person you love.
Why are you assuming that if you get married you will have children right away?

Wrong assumption. People are waiting longer and longer to have kids these days, not having them immediately after getting married.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Marriage is a trick, a device designed by society to make trouble between two people who would otherwise get on very well
I sort of suspected this. Some couples can date for decades but as soon as they get married they dont last 5 yrs. There is something suffocating about marriage.
 

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Its makes no sense unless you want to have kids. Its all downsides exempt tax advantages. Once you have had a couple married women in your bed you will never want to get married.
 
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