Asking about a girl's history? (how many guys she went out with or had sex with)

[Last Man Standing]

Why is it not your business if this woman is going to be with you for the rest of your life?

Not holding true to your gut instincts as a man is being AFC. if she told you she was with over 90+ men .. I'm sure you would get sick and puke. I know I would. I wouldn't go near that wh0re.



Well there are several wh0res that like me, but I don't like them enough for a relationship and I don't have to.



No.. these kinds of women weed out the chumps and find the men for sex. They use the chumps for emotional tampons. then..... they become 30+ and go into panic mode . It isn't long after and they get married to the first AFC they can find. Later on they get divorced because they never really liked the guy in the first place.

Don't marry or get into a LTR with a hor!!! Check out this thread on a woman's sexual past - it's a good read! ... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=46439

 

[hamelech]

Here's a good rule of thumb

If she says she's a virgin there's a 50/50 chance that she is or she's only been with one or two guys.

If she says she's been with one or two guys (usually they'll say my first and my ex) she's probably been with 2-15

If she tells you 10 she's been completly ran through for years.

If she tells you more than 10 she's a straight slut. You're probably looking at 70-150 guys

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

My gf asked me first, or else i wouldnt have asked. She told me 7 guys including me. That's not alot is it? She's 23. I'd assume thats the avg for someone her age. She said they were all bf's and no one night stands, so i have no fears of her being a ho. While she's no virgin mary, 7 guys is prob far from a ho am i right?

That's quite high. I think anything above 5 is high at that age. Two girls I know who are really good girls and definetely not slutty are my measure. I got to know them well and would like a girl with their mentality sexually. One has been with 3, the other has been with 4. I'm speaking about partners and they didn't have sex with all of them either.

I find on this forum that Americans seem sex crazed compared to the average Canada. For most americans on this forum, they are blown out of their seats if someone is a virgin at the age of 20+. That is not uncommon at all where I am from. So many American doom-sayers on this forum claiming a girl has had sex with so many guys by such and such age. Simply not true from my experiences. It is true that it is somewhat hard to find a virgin older than 20, but they are definetely not all slutty. I don't get this obsession with sex.

 

[WaterTiger]

You have every right to know how many lovers/casual sex partners a girl (or guy) that you're considering for a LTR has had. But there is more than just that you should be finding out:

1-Do you now, or have you ever had an STD?
2-Are you, or have any of your past lovers been a habitual drug/alcohol user?
3-Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
4-Have you ever been arrested? (If so, for what?)
5-Do you have children? (Partial or full custody? Other parent involved?)
6-How much money do you owe on your credit cards?
7-What are your goals for the next 5 years?

These may sound like weird questions, but you're thinking about entwining your life with this person for a long time, perhaps marrying them. You don't want to spend your honeymoon in jail because they had an outstanding arrest warrent for writing bad checks. Nor do you want your family or kids exposed to junkies. If you ask question number 7 and they reply "What do you mean?" rest assured that sucking the life out of you is their sole motive in life.

 

[Rex Man]

TRUTH- You have every right to ask for the #

TRUTH- She will most likely (90%) lie.

TRUTH- Most of you guys thinking you're dating a virgin or a 'very good' girl, are in fact, not.

How do you think guys get their number so high? the 90/10 rule is BS because girls tastes vary too greatly for that to even be sensical.

The TRUTH is about 10-15 of the girls I've hit personally have had BF's, maybe even one of you guys . Remember that girls lie just as much as guys so like many have said, judge the girls characther over what comes out of her mouth.

 

[DJinTraining06]

That's quite high. I think anything above 5 is high at that age. Two girls I know who are really good girls and definetely not slutty are my measure. I got to know them well and would like a girl with their mentality sexually. One has been with 3, the other has been with 4. I'm speaking about partners and they didn't have sex with all of them either.

I find on this forum that Americans seem sex crazed compared to the average Canada. For most americans on this forum, they are blown out of their seats if someone is a virgin at the age of 20+. That is not uncommon at all where I am from. So many American doom-sayers on this forum claiming a girl has had sex with so many guys by such and such age. Simply not true from my experiences. It is true that it is somewhat hard to find a virgin older than 20, but they are definetely not all slutty. I don't get this obsession with sex.

its higher than i would like, but it doesnt bother me. Makes me feel a lil less important being that she gave it up to 6 guys in 6 yrs. But i guess its really not alot. She is a career oriented girl, smart, doesnt dress like a slut, speaks well, classy. does it really matter?

 

[Raikojo17]

Why is it not your business if this woman is going to be with you for the rest of your life?

if you just met the girl 2 days ago, than no, it's not ur business. any girl you get with, there is a slim chance that they will be with u the rest of ur life, so it's not safe to assume that. it only becomes ur business if things get serious with her, or ur having sex with her. i personally look for more than jus sex when i go sarging, so i dont make it my business how many guys she's been with, but if i banged her, i wouldnt hesitate to ask.

Not holding true to your gut instincts as a man is being AFC. if she told you she was with over 90+ men .. I'm sure you would get sick and puke. I know I would. I wouldn't go near that wh0re.

i have my instincts, but i dont make it a point upon meeting a chick to go probing through her past to fins something wrong with her. u learn this stuff as u go on.

and 90+ men is alot. i wouldnt date a girl who's been with that many men. she's probably a walking STD. but, if she was clean and we liked each other alot, then i would date her.

Well there are several wh0res that like me, but I don't like them enough for a relationship and I don't have to.

well that's ur decision. if they liked me though, i would atleast give them a chance if i found them mildly attractive.

No.. these kinds of women weed out the chumps and find the men for sex. They use the chumps for emotional tampons. then..... they become 30+ and go into panic mode . It isn't long after and they get married to the first AFC they can find. Later on they get divorced because they never really liked the guy in the first place.

sex doesnt determine the man. even chumps get sex. the girls bang them, find out they're chumps, then use them for emotional tampons. some girls are attracted to a guy who is a chump, not all of them are attracted to the "DJ" or the "Jerk".
just because a girl was a slut doesnt mean she wouldnt have a chance in a marriage. maybe she would have a slimmer chance than a good girl, but he still has one. i know alot of guys on her used to be players and then found a girl that they really liked and stuck with her.

 

[sparky0000]

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I find on this forum that Americans seem sex crazed compared to the average Canada. For most americans on this forum, they are blown out of their seats if someone is a virgin at the age of 20+. That is not uncommon at all where I am from. So many American doom-sayers on this forum claiming a girl has had sex with so many guys by such and such age. Simply not true from my experiences. It is true that it is somewhat hard to find a virgin older than 20, but they are definetely not all slutty. I don't get this obsession with sex.

never a more honest post on here. americans are sex crazed (closely followed by the brits). might have to do with the stunningly low caliber of girls available. i don't know. i partly blame college life in america. in most cultures, college aged females are already part of the social scene. in america their social scene is a pimply faced boy's bed. disturbing to know that parents send their daughters to what usually amounts to a sex farm with booze.

i find it very disturbing how openly american girls talk about sex. talk about a major turnoff. i don't know...flip-flops, no makeup, chunky legs and butt, stringy hair, shorts, vulgar jokes...mmm...no wonder guys on here have such issues with girls.