Ask me Questions

[BPH]

Alright, so after reading Alex's post and having grown as much as I did in the past year I believe I am qualified to answer most of the questions some of the other high schoolers on here may have.

So tomorrow I will create another thread listing what I've learned about women and this "game" over the past year. But for now, ask me anything and I will answer as soon as I am able to.

I do not have time to update my journal right now so I'll check and answer anything you guys leave me in the morning or whenever I get wi-fi on my current travels back home.

Goodnight and ask away.

 

[AlexLefty]

What are some good conversation starters? Like, what do girls like to talk about?

Btw looking forward to ur post

 

[BPH]

What are some good conversation starters? Like, what do girls like to talk about?

Btw looking forward to ur post

It really doesn't matter what you say when you start a conversation so much as HOW you say it. The crappiest pick-up line in the world can work if you make it intentionally corny and deliver it with confidence.

Real world example: 2 years ago when I was first getting into and understanding pickup I was walking along the boardwalk with my cousin and found this really fine girl walking by herself. I will always remember the line I used on her; "Excuse me, I'm with the FBI, I'm gonna need your name, number, and measurements". That night ended in a makeout.

What I find myself doing is I often comment on the girl's appearance for a little bit before transitioning into conversation to get to know her. But everything is situational...I would never try something like this in the club, only at malls and during the day.

Also I am quite disappointed that this is the first and only question I have. AlexLefty has much less room to improve when compared to some of you other guys I know that are lurking on this forum or asking an AFC question here and there.

So ask it here.

 

[Bgarrido]

What's up guys, I've been spinning a couple of plates but to be perfectly honest there's only one that I actually care about and I was wondering if someone could give me some tips about the situation.

Basically I went to SAT prep with this girl all summer and we talked a lot, after the class was over didn't really talk much but bumped into her last night at a party and she was really happy to see me. After the party hit her up on fb, I rebuilt that rapport and number closed. Now she's really nerdy so I told her we should hang out but she said she couldn't till after AP tests are over with, that's like a month from now and since we go to different high schools i don't know how to keep the interest level up without face to face contact and without texting/fbing her often so much as to seem annoying or clingy. Thoughts??

 

[BPH]

What's up guys, I've been spinning a couple of plates but to be perfectly honest there's only one that I actually care about and I was wondering if someone could give me some tips about the situation.

Basically I went to SAT prep with this girl all summer and we talked a lot, after the class was over didn't really talk much but bumped into her last night at a party and she was really happy to see me. After the party hit her up on fb, I rebuilt that rapport and number closed. Now she's really nerdy so I told her we should hang out but she said she couldn't till after AP tests are over with, that's like a month from now and since we go to different high schools i don't know how to keep the interest level up without face to face contact and without texting/fbing her often so much as to seem annoying or clingy. Thoughts??

Give her a chance to hang out with you. If she flakes or uses the AP tests as an excuse, then drop her.

Meet some other girls, f*** some other girls, and after AP testing, if her interest is as high as you think, she will hit you up.

 

[AlexLefty]

What's up guys, I've been spinning a couple of plates but to be perfectly honest there's only one that I actually care about and I was wondering if someone could give me some tips about the situation.

Basically I went to SAT prep with this girl all summer and we talked a lot, after the class was over didn't really talk much but bumped into her last night at a party and she was really happy to see me. After the party hit her up on fb, I rebuilt that rapport and number closed. Now she's really nerdy so I told her we should hang out but she said she couldn't till after AP tests are over with, that's like a month from now and since we go to different high schools i don't know how to keep the interest level up without face to face contact and without texting/fbing her often so much as to seem annoying or clingy. Thoughts??

Don't try so hard. Time is always against you on this one. Here's what I would do: On a weekend night, text her (i don't have texting but yeah..) and say you're driving right next to her house because you're coming back from doing something interesting, tell her to get ready real quick and that you guys are going to go get some ice cream or that you're going to the store and that you need her to help you pick out something or whatever the **** you want. This is a spur of the moment thing, so it will either be a sharp yes or a sharp no. If she declines, then you say, o well, and break off contact. You might hear from her again, or you might not. Basically, you're not going to hang out with her anyways, but this way you can be the one who breaks off contact. If she accepts, you have to kiss close, no doubt.

Meh.

BPH. I got another question. What's your view on kino? Talking day game here (mall etc.) Like how would you initiate it/when/how much/what EXACTLY would you do etc.?

 

[BPH]

Don't try so hard. Time is always against you on this one. Here's what I would do: On a weekend night, text her (i don't have texting but yeah..) and say you're driving right next to her house because you're coming back from doing something interesting, tell her to get ready real quick and that you guys are going to go get some ice cream or that you're going to the store and that you need her to help you pick out something or whatever the **** you want. This is a spur of the moment thing, so it will either be a sharp yes or a sharp no. If she declines, then you say, o well, and break off contact. You might hear from her again, or you might not. Basically, you're not going to hang out with her anyways, but this way you can be the one who breaks off contact. If she accepts, you have to kiss close, no doubt.

Meh.

BPH. I got another question. What's your view on kino? Talking day game here (mall etc.) Like how would you initiate it/when/how much/what EXACTLY would you do etc.?

Kino is a great thing that I don't use nearly as much as I should. When I use kino on a girl in a group in the mall it generally doesn't work well...why?

Usually I size the girl up as I walk towards them, and I decide if I want to hit on them, and if I do it involves me turning around and catching up to get their attention. For example, today I came up to a 2-set and gently grabbed the upper arm of the hot girl that I want and she was actually FRIGHTENED by this, as she moved onto the other side of her friend away from me.

Kino is ideal when the girl is alone, groups suck in general. But I am not the model of a kino expert, whereas I see myself as the model of raw sexuality when it comes to women.

Sorry if that isn't as deep as the answer you were looking for.

 

[AlexLefty]

But I am not the model of a kino expert, whereas I see myself as the model of raw sexuality when it comes to women.

What do you mean by raw sexuality? Explanation?

 

[BPH]

What do you mean by raw sexuality? Explanation?

When I have a woman alone I'm very good at escalating. I'm good at getting action because it doesn't require me to think about anything, and to act instead.

It's easy for me to kiss close, I can usually get more than that. And out of the past 3 girls I've hung out with 2 of them ended in sex. So I guess what I mean by raw sexuality is anything to do with physical attraction. I am rather emotionless and drop disrespectful women at the drop of a hat, but considering how new I am to this kind of success, I am getting good at being consistently successful.

 

[AlexLefty]

When I have a woman alone I'm very good at escalating. I'm good at getting action because it doesn't require me to think about anything, and to act instead.

It's easy for me to kiss close, I can usually get more than that. And out of the past 3 girls I've hung out with 2 of them ended in sex. So I guess what I mean by raw sexuality is anything to do with physical attraction. I am rather emotionless and drop disrespectful women at the drop of a hat, but considering how new I am to this kind of success, I am getting good at being consistently successful.

Respectable

 

[BPH]

Respectable

Thank you. I'm disappointed that the only real questions are from you, seeing as you don't really have too many issues that need ironing out. Yet the new guys and AFCs still make their own threads...tisk tisk tisk.

 

[Soccer4Life]

Hey guys, new to this forum. I'm 16 years old and in need of some help. I wanna ask this girl to prom but I don't know how. Shes in one of my classes and we talk and stuff but sometimes i don't even have the confidence to text her because i think it could ruin our friendship and make it awkward, but i wanna take it to the next step. Its hard to take it to the next step though because i see her talking to this guy in the mornings and hes a grade higher than me so idk what to do. What do you guys think i should do, im head over heels for this girl.

Copied and pasted from my thread. Can you give me some tips. I'm just trying to go to prom with her right now

 

[BPH]

Hey guys, new to this forum. I'm 16 years old and in need of some help. I wanna ask this girl to prom but I don't know how. Shes in one of my classes and we talk and stuff but sometimes i don't even have the confidence to text her because i think it could ruin our friendship and make it awkward, but i wanna take it to the next step. Its hard to take it to the next step though because i see her talking to this guy in the mornings and hes a grade higher than me so idk what to do. What do you guys think i should do, im head over heels for this girl.

Copied and pasted from my thread. Can you give me some tips. I'm just trying to go to prom with her right now

What's killing you right now is your mindset. You have this girl on a pedestal and think that she is somehow better than you. First you need to take her off and realize she's just a hot girl and that there are a LOT more than her.

But as for prom you just have to ask her. It's as easy and as difficult as that. Ideally you should hang out with her outside of school and least try to kiss her. If all goes well then I would ask her right then and there. If she rejects it won't be the end of the world.

In the end do you want a prom date or a friend? You have a lot more to gain by going after the former. But you will miss all of the shots you don't take.

 

[Soccer4Life]

What's killing you right now is your mindset. You have this girl on a pedestal and think that she is somehow better than you. First you need to take her off and realize she's just a hot girl and that there are a LOT more than her.

But as for prom you just have to ask her. It's as easy and as difficult as that. Ideally you should hang out with her outside of school and least try to kiss her. If all goes well then I would ask her right then and there. If she rejects it won't be the end of the world.

In the end do you want a prom date or a friend? You have a lot more to gain by going after the former. But you will miss all of the shots you don't take.

Agh man you make the decision sound tough. I've flirted with her before but I can't find time to hang out with her because she always has sports. If I was to I would take her to the movies. Is it weird for me to text her first?

 

[BPH]

Agh man you make the decision sound tough. I've flirted with her before but I can't find time to hang out with her because she always has sports. If I was to I would take her to the movies. Is it weird for me to text her first?

I wouldn't take her to the movies, it's just not something I do. I would take her to a quiet park or play some kind of game just you and her. I've always been against spending money on a girl that isn't a sure thing.

But you should text first.

 

[DJ Bax]

Hey guys Im not sure if this is an appropriate question or not for the highschool thread but recently, about a month ago I got into a relationship with a girl at my school. I would prefer not to have a relationship and to spin as many plates as possible but because of the circumstances I decided I would just go for it and anyways we have been dating for a month now.

On to the point we tried to have sex about a week and a half ago, It wasn't successful though because she was extremely tight and I couldn't get completely hard for some reason, the first time I couldn't fit inside her (she's very small, like 5'4") and the second time I couldn't get completely hard.

Anyways over the past week we went to prom and I feel like her intrest level is starting to dwindle a little bit, she doesn't kino me as often as she did I guess. Anyways how could I fix my previous screw up? Ive been going almost no contact because I dont have a phone. My other question is how can I make sure the next time I am completely hard? I have completely quit masturbating and smoking marijuana because I thought that those could be part of the problem

 

[ANihilistWithFriends]

Facebook messaging sometimes works for me, but I'd like some concrete advice.

How do I make a girl hot for me by using (of course not only that) IM's too? I read something about every message being hot/cold and constantly trying to escalate the conversation into something sexually, but I'd like some advice from you too.

 

[BPH]

Hey guys Im not sure if this is an appropriate question or not for the highschool thread but recently, about a month ago I got into a relationship with a girl at my school. I would prefer not to have a relationship and to spin as many plates as possible but because of the circumstances I decided I would just go for it and anyways we have been dating for a month now.

On to the point we tried to have sex about a week and a half ago, It wasn't successful though because she was extremely tight and I couldn't get completely hard for some reason, the first time I couldn't fit inside her (she's very small, like 5'4") and the second time I couldn't get completely hard.

Anyways over the past week we went to prom and I feel like her intrest level is starting to dwindle a little bit, she doesn't kino me as often as she did I guess. Anyways how could I fix my previous screw up? Ive been going almost no contact because I dont have a phone. My other question is how can I make sure the next time I am completely hard? I have completely quit masturbating and smoking marijuana because I thought that those could be part of the problem

That sounds like a personal problem. Visit a doctor so you can rule out erectile dysfunction, and if you have it get some Viagra.

My question to you is do you genuinely want to f*** this girl? If you do you should have no problem getting hard, you should be excited about the possibility of sex and THAT should be able to get you hard.

I don't know what the problem is there, but the reason she won't kino you at school much is because she feels like she's not attractive because she couldn't get you hard - she feels like it's her fault. The fact that you guys are going no contact probably makes things a little worse too.

So reassure her, visit a doctor, try to have sex again - in that order.

 

[BPH]

Facebook messaging sometimes works for me, but I'd like some concrete advice.

How do I make a girl hot for me by using (of course not only that) IM's too? I read something about every message being hot/cold and constantly trying to escalate the conversation into something sexually, but I'd like some advice from you too.

I'm not sure what you want here. Do you want to talk dirty to a girl, or do you want to infer the possibility of you two actually f***ing?

My text game isn't all that great and I've never hung out with a girl I met through a website. Texting is something I do to set up meetings with girls. If you want to get a girl hot for you, all you should have to do is make her imagine spending time with you. Tell her what you're going to do, how you're going to make you feel, stuff like that, and give it all a sexual undertone.

I'm not the expert on this kinda stuff though, I would direct this question to JackWealthy, he's pretty good at texting.

 

[DanZy]

Facebook messaging sometimes works for me, but I'd like some concrete advice.

How do I make a girl hot for me by using (of course not only that) IM's too? I read something about every message being hot/cold and constantly trying to escalate the conversation into something sexually, but I'd like some advice from you too.

Sexual innuendo works like a charm. Organize something between you two as soon as possible though.