To JUSTCHILL:
Yeah I think talking to girls a day or two before the party helps. Ask them about themselves, with hints of sexuality in it. Then, when the party comes, you can ask them all about the things they mentioned going on in their lives, you'll have sexual jokes to recall to, and you'll still have high value stories ready to tell that you didn't waste by telling over facebook. Hope that made sense.
To DJGHOST:
I think with day game, not much kino is necessary. You can touch her arm or closer shoulder, but don't be excessive.
At parties with people who all know each other (whether you are part of the group or not), you can get into moderate kino. Touch girls' lower backs, put your arms around them, hold hands, have them lay on you or rest their head on you.
In clubs, you can come with a lot of kino and not much else. It's been a while since I went to one of these teen raves around my city, but basically you just hop up and grind on a girl for a minute, then make out with her.