OK. So when you say "acting/modeling pursuits", the game changes . You are not normal looks, you are very good looking. You did say it in OP but when you talk about acting and modeling, its a different ballgame. Plus, you are 6'0. That changes the game alot too.
I agree, but that's why I made sure to state that I never got any actual work from it. Just as somebody can say they're a "musician", but it carries a very different meaning if they're performing at dive bars vs actually having ticketed shows.
I think I'm quite good-looking, but I wouldn't say I'm a special case.
Come on bro, don't try to say girls fall in love with you because you "honest" and "don't manipulate". The average guy doesn't lie or manipulate, he's not a jerk, but gets nowhere with the hot girls because of his physical attributes. You are trying to downplay your physical attributes and up play the virtuous stuff. That works with older women, but with younger women, they could care less.
I'm not saying my personality does the heavy lifting when it comes to initial attraction, but what I am saying is that I don't try to put on a facade to bed a girl; I don't lie, even if it would be something small that would benefit me, such as lying about my age, and I'm upfront about what I want. Because of this, I'm genuinely me all the time and I think a lot of women find that refreshing, which is why most of my plates are content with the position they're in when they're sleeping with me.
That is not an average guy. That is a lunatic.
Average guy is under 6'0, normal job, normal looks, regular clothes, regular home.
This kind of behavior is normal, the kind of behavior that I put out is not.
A normal guy doesn't get laid much, puts women on a pedestal, tries to buy her attention, isn't comfortable with walking away and giving up sex, and is insecure about who else she might be talking to. I cannot tell you how many stories women will tell me about guys they're talking to/have been talking to being extremely weird.
For example, one weekend I was visiting my ex and it was early in the morning after a night of boozed-up sex. There was a guy who was trying to court her. While in bed on this Friday morning at about 7 AM, there was repeated loud knocking on her bedroom door. Thankfully I had locked it, but this isn't too unusual - my ex is the primary breadwinner of her family and has her brother living in the basement of her home and often lets her sister and her kids stay over in the guest room because that woman and her baby daddy are deadbeats.
Anyway, my ex gets out of bed to check on it, assuming the same things I had mentioned, but thought it was weird how aggressive the banging was...turns out this guy had "let himself in" and decided to show up unannounced to bring her a coffee...he had texted her but she hadn't checked her phone because she was with me, and I forget whether the front door was unlocked or whether he climbed in her open window, but he came all the way upstairs to her bedroom door to try to make this delivery because he thought it would be "cute".
She nipped that in the bud real quick, but this behavior is more common than you'd think.
On Valentine's Day, while we were still dating, this other guy that liked her sent her multiple gifts in the mail, including an all-expenses paid one-week trip to Cancun and put her up in a hotel...obviously she declined, but the lengths the "average man" will go to are crazy.
The fact that I'm generally unbothered, can say no, don't lie, avoid drama, etc are all things that are NOT normal, and for that reason, I think that's what helps me maintain women that on paper would be "out of my league", given my financial situation. The fact that OnlyFan is a career path should be evidence of how much the average man sucks.
You are poor, do not have a place of your own, and a hot girl is crying because she is mistreating you, and you are the only guy who has broken up with her?
OK, so either you are giving her the best sex in the Western World, or the girl is really really young. And she can't be that young because she has a place of her own. It's illogical to think a 25+ year old woman with her own job and own place would be crying that a guy with no job, no money, and no place of his own broke up with her. What would she be missing? You cant' buy her anything, you can't drive her anywhere, you can't go anywhere with her. So its got to be the sex. Which, if it is, its strange in itself, because any hot girl under 30 could get any guy she wants if she snaps her fingers.
You gotta remember that this wasn't just a plate or a one-night stand. This was a relationship where we both loved each other.
This requires a lot of background, but this woman is heavily damaged and has gone through a lot. I can dive deeper if you're curious, there are a few threads I made about her while we were dating, but I don't say that lightly - she has gone through a LOT...She managed to get to a point in her life where she makes very good money, but has a lot of people who are beholden to her and use her; her ex whom she dated on and off before me asked her for a loan to start a construction company (something like $60,000) and never paid her back, her brother and sister quite literally live off her paying their bills, her "friends" went out and partied with her on her own dime, etc.
So I was unique because I didn't care about the money. When we would go out I would try to treat her, even though she made substantially more than me. I never asked her for money or gifts, and I truly loved her - still do, just not in the same way. She never had that, and because she's very attractive and very financially independent she's never really had anybody say "no" to her, until me. I walked away from the relationship because there was too much fighting, which was a first for her. She attended therapy since the breakup, still does, and has grown and matured a lot and realized where her animosity and anger came from, and why she took it out on me. She realizes that, and I wouldn't say she's "crying over me", she acknowledges her role in what pushed me away and apologizes for it.
That said, I will say the sex is amazing, on both ends. So I'm sure that plays a role as well. If you read my reply about fingering, it shouldn't come as a surprise that I know what I'm doing - hell, after 93 women I would EXPECT to be good at this by now...being a good kisser, knowing how to finger, properly eating pu***, different sex positions, etc. I love sex...I get around as much as I do not because I have something to prove, but because I like having sex with a variety of hot women. If I'm fu**ing her I KNOW I'll get off, so I make it my job to get her first.
I'm not here to brag, but I also won't discount that my level of experience likely plays a decent role in retaining these women.
You may be telling truth. It's just a little hard to take when you are 30, have no place of your own and no money. Girls start to wake up around 25-26 ish.
That's understandable. This is the internet, where everybody makes themselves out to be better than they really are.
I'm not out here saying I consistently bang hard 10s, without spending a penny, as an average guy living at home with his parents.
I'm good-looking, I'm muscular, I'm self-confident, and I'm good in bed. But I didn't start out as any of those things, so I'm just here to help those people who have that goal.
I have nothing to gain by lying; I don't give a sh** about my reaction score or messages, I'm not selling coaching, I don't have a course, I'm simply here offering to help people who will actually act on the advice I give.
It's like with the gym; I'll have friends and family come up to me asking what I eat or what my routine is because they want to look like me. I can tell them exactly what I do, but I know what I do is difficult and that 99% of these people won't do what's required. So I'm just putting this all out there for the 1% who might.
