Asian guys doing better in conservative areas than liberal ones.

[Good Gao]

I've noticed that as an Asian guy, I tend to do a lot better with women in places like Nashville, Arizona, Texas cities, Florida cities, and places that would generally go more for the right wing during presidential elections. On the other hand, I noticed that me being Asian was a HUGE deal in the mid-Atlantic northeast (NY, NJ, PA, etc.) and a lot of Canada (especially Toronto and Vancouver). I have spoofed my tinder locations to try things out and I noticed a huge difference in matches.

The only minority group that seemed to do well in these areas were black guys, all other guys were screwed. A lot of what I said can also be applied to Arab and south Asian guys as well, they seemed to have it worse than us.

Even having lived up there (New Jersey), I noticed how not only was an Asian (or any kind of ethnic) guy with white girl couple very rare and unheard of, but lots of Asian girls were self-hating and went hard for white guys. This left Asian guys in a very tough situation.

Then when I moved to some of the more conservative areas, I noticed how things were different. Asian guys with their **** together were dating cute girls of all races, even cute white girls. I was having a lot more success as well.

It makes me wonder, could it be something bigger? Could it be that girls who have left wing political views and live in heavily liberal areas are the types that will put on an act of "not being racist" but are actually the type to see guys as a race rather than individuals?

 

[Tictac]

Could it be that girls who have left wing political views and live in heavily liberal areas are the types that will put on an act of "not being racist" but are actually the type to see guys as a race rather than individuals?

Welcome to the progressive movement.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I've noticed that as an Asian guy, I tend to do a lot better with women in places like Nashville, Arizona, Texas cities, Florida cities, and places that would generally go more for the right wing during presidential elections. On the other hand, I noticed that me being Asian was a HUGE deal in the mid-Atlantic northeast (NY, NJ, PA, etc.) and a lot of Canada (especially Toronto and Vancouver). I have spoofed my tinder locations to try things out and I noticed a huge difference in matches.

The only minority group that seemed to do well in these areas were black guys, all other guys were screwed. A lot of what I said can also be applied to Arab and south Asian guys as well, they seemed to have it worse than us.

While I don't know your personal experience, the online dating data says that both black and asian men are found least desirable by number of message responses. White men are the most desirable for women of all races.

It makes me wonder, could it be something bigger? Could it be that girls who have left wing political views and live in heavily liberal areas are the types that will put on an act of "not being racist" but are actually the type to see guys as a race rather than individuals?

It has nothing to do with politics. It is about economics. The "liberal" areas are wealthier cities. This leads to higher income inequality. Racial segregation in this areas is more of a product of economics than overt racism itself. The affluent areas are typically almost exclusively white.

Race is a factor in dating is what the data shows. But it's more of a class thing in the Northeast. Income inequality is lower in the conservative areas of the country, so race is less tied to economics. That's why you are more likely to see interracial couples of similar economic background, and more often in conservative areas of the country. (It is extremely rare to see wealthy white women with non-white men.)

 

[EyeBRollin]

In lamen's terms, women try to "date up." They will usually end up with someone of similar or greater economic background. Since white people are statistically the wealthiest (although Asians are closing the gap rapidly), it is rare you will find wealthy white women dating outside of their race, where as middle-class and poor white women are more likely to end up in interracial relationships. Since race is more synonymous with class in the "liberal" areas of the country (Northeast / West coast / Upper Midwest), that is where the discrepancy comes from. Does that make sense?

 

[Tictac]

In lamen's terms, women try to "date up." They will usually end up with someone of similar or greater economic background. Since white people are statistically the wealthiest (although Asians are closing the gap rapidly), it is rare you will find wealthy white women dating outside of their race, where as middle-class and poor white women are more likely to end up in interracial relationships. Does that make sense?

Whether it makes sense or not, OP isn't asking about it. He is asking about his observation of how women react to him in what he sees as more conservative and more liberal parts of the country.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Because there's no stigma amongst Asians in the south. Generally, they are affluent and well established here. The black guys you see with girls are literally getting the trash of every other race. Don't assume just because she's attractive doesn't mean she's not trash.

 

[Good Gao]

In lamen's terms, women try to "date up." They will usually end up with someone of similar or greater economic background. Since white people are statistically the wealthiest (although Asians are closing the gap rapidly), it is rare you will find wealthy white women dating outside of their race, where as middle-class and poor white women are more likely to end up in interracial relationships. Since race is more synonymous with class in the "liberal" areas of the country (Northeast / West coast / Upper Midwest), that is where the discrepancy comes from. Does that make sense?

I doubt it, there are a lot of Asians in the Ivy Leagues and lots of Asian guys on Wall Street. I think it is something much deeper, more like a societal pressure to "keep it pure" up north. You will be shocked as to the kinds of guys women can be peer pressured into dating and marrying. Often times, you will have situation where a Seth Rogen is being picked over a Lee Byung-Hun despite all else being equal. IMO, these same women will pick a homely poor white guy over a handsome rich Asian man because the homely poor white guy is a "starving artist" while the rich handsome Asian man is "just not her type".

I have no issue with white women having a preference at all, I just wish that these same ****s would stop playing the social justice and "I care about minorities" card to up their social status, truly nasty women.

All in all, I believe that white liberals are phonies who cannot see people past their race. To them, everyone who is a minority is their race, NOT an individual. To conservatives, they hate other races but they love quality individuals of those races.

 

[Good Gao]

Because there's no stigma amongst Asians in the south. Generally, they are affluent and well established here. The black guys you see with girls are literally getting the trash of every other race. Don't assume just because she's attractive doesn't mean she's not trash.

More like a pick your side deal right?

Hot girls in the northeast will date a black guy because it makes them "so not racist!" while Asians are "so not the important minority to pander to".

Hot girls down south will pick Asians because we're the "good minority" while black men might not have the same successes.

All that said, Atlanta is the exception to the rule mainly because it has been infested by yankee trash that bring their racism and progressive bull**** with them.

 

[skinnyguy]

Excellent post. Being Indian and in California I have firsthand knowledge of this. I get close to nothing out here but I do quite well in places like Austin and Orlando

Out here there is a stigma against Asian guys. Most Asian girls in SF will ONLY date white guys are are quite open about it. In fact it's hard to find a couple that isn't Asian girl - white guy when you go to SF. That's why I was telling white afcs on this site to pack up and move to the bay.

I can't wait to move to TX. I'll actually have savings and I actually have a chance of getting decent women.

 

[Good Gao]

Excellent post. Being Indian and in California I have firsthand knowledge of this. I get close to nothing out here but I do quite well in places like Austin and Orlando

Out here there is a stigma against Asian guys. Most Asian girls in SF will ONLY date white guys are are quite open about it. In fact it's hard to find a couple that isn't Asian girl - white guy when you go to SF. That's why I was telling white afcs on this site to pack up and move to the bay.

I can't wait to move to TX. I'll actually have savings and I actually have a chance of getting decent women.

We really need to talk about how much location matters.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Whether it makes sense or not, OP isn't asking about it. He is asking about his observation of how women react to him in what he sees as more conservative and more liberal parts of the country.

Sounds like an excuse.

More like a pick your side deal right?

Hot girls in the northeast will date a black guy because it makes them "so not racist!" while Asians are "so not the important minority to pander to".

Hasn't been the experience of me or my friends. It's strictly a class thing. Hot girls in the northeast are usually affluent. Affluence in the Northeast looks like tall, handsome, rich, white men. Better work on your game or you get left behind.

Hot girls down south will pick Asians because we're the "good minority" while black men might not have the same successes.

It's a lot easier as black man to score non-black women in the South than the Northeast, trust me.

All that said, Atlanta is the exception to the rule mainly because it has been infested by yankee trash that bring their racism and progressive bull**** with them.

....and their wealth too.

I have no issue with white women having a preference at all, I just wish that these same ****s would stop playing the social justice and "I care about minorities" card to up their social status, truly nasty women.

All in all, I believe that white liberals are phonies who cannot see people past their race. To them, everyone who is a minority is their race, NOT an individual. To conservatives, they hate other races but they love quality individuals of those races.

Well isn't this a gross generalization? Reread your own post a few times and see how convoluted it sounds. Racism is everywhere, it just takes different forms. Racism is more subtle in the North, but it's definitely there and in some ways worse than the South.

We really need to talk about how much location matters.

It always did. Your sexual market value is definitely a function of location. New York, LA, Miami, and California have some of the most beautiful women in the world. If your game isn't on point, you don't stand a chance.

 

[Good Gao]

You're bringing up wealth but the truth is, on average, Asians and Indians make a lot more money than whites do in the USA. What I am saying is that it has almost nothing to do with wealth but more so with societal pressures. White males in the northeast are very devious and sociopathic, if they see a hot blonde with an Asian guy then they will set out to ruin her life because she belongs to them and not that damn foreigner. Most of them are hardly quality guys themselves, sorry but Trump's kids are an anomaly and not the norm in a place like NYC.

The fact is, hot girls in the northeast have been strongly brainwashed to hate and avoid certain races. The liberals up there are very sneaky and manipulative people who love to **** on other races when given the chance. Even if the Asian guy is tall, handsome, and rich they can always pull the "oh but he is asian and they are all this way" type of card.

Compare that to white conservatives who will best you by being better than you. The D1 athlete playing sports at a southern school beats you because he is objectively better than you. The liberal trash in NYC only bests you because he is a sociopath that is trying to rig the game to where he blackmails women into picking a Seth Rogen lookalike over a Zayn Malik.

 

[Tictac]

Sounds like an excuse.

You are a pitiful narcissist. Get the pole out of your ass and just let it go.

And try to respond to what people ask instead of whatever random sh*t pops into your head.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You're bringing up wealth but the truth is, on average, Asians and Indians make a lot more money than whites do in the USA. What I am saying is that it has almost nothing to do with wealth but more so with societal pressures. White males in the northeast are very devious and sociopathic, if they see a hot blonde with an Asian guy then they will set out to ruin her life because she belongs to them and not that damn foreigner. Most of them are hardly quality guys themselves, sorry but Trump's kids are an anomaly and not the norm in a place like NYC.

The fact is, hot girls in the northeast have been strongly brainwashed to hate and avoid certain races. The liberals up there are very sneaky and manipulative people who love to **** on other races when given the chance. Even if the Asian guy is tall, handsome, and rich they can always pull the "oh but he is asian and they are all this way" type of card.

Wealth and income are not the same, which is probably why the social stigma remains. The face of wealth in the Northeast is the tall, rich, handsome, Ivy-leage educated white male. That won't change as long as legacy is there. Polish your game and make yourself the most attractive man you can be. Society doesn't change in a hurry.

Compare that to white conservatives who will best you by being better than you. The D1 athlete playing sports at a southern school beats you because he is objectively better than you. The liberal trash in NYC only bests you because he is a sociopath that is trying to rig the game to where he blackmails women into picking a Seth Rogen lookalike over a Zayn Malik.

Sounds like something internalized....? I don't know what to tell you. Politics aren't the reason you're having trouble pulling white women.

You are a pitiful narcissist. Get the pole out of your ass and just let it go.

And try to respond to what people ask instead of whatever random sh*t pops into your head.

Nothing is more pitiful than Ali fighting past his prime.

 

[Tictac]

Nothing is more pitiful than Ali fighting past his prime.

Or a wannabe pretending and flailing about as desperately as you do.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

You're bringing up wealth but the truth is, on average, Asians and Indians make a lot more money than whites do in the USA. What I am saying is that it has almost nothing to do with wealth but more so with societal pressures. White males in the northeast are very devious and sociopathic, if they see a hot blonde with an Asian guy then they will set out to ruin her life because she belongs to them and not that damn foreigner. Most of them are hardly quality guys themselves, sorry but Trump's kids are an anomaly and not the norm in a place like NYC.

The fact is, hot girls in the northeast have been strongly brainwashed to hate and avoid certain races. The liberals up there are very sneaky and manipulative people who love to **** on other races when given the chance. Even if the Asian guy is tall, handsome, and rich they can always pull the "oh but he is asian and they are all this way" type of card.

Compare that to white conservatives who will best you by being better than you. The D1 athlete playing sports at a southern school beats you because he is objectively better than you. The liberal trash in NYC only bests you because he is a sociopath that is trying to rig the game to where he blackmails women into picking a Seth Rogen lookalike over a Zayn Malik.

White guys do the same **** towards black guys in the south. If a girl dates a black guy then she is pretty much ruled tainted even if the guy was an image of barack obama himself. They aren't scared of Asians down here. I think it is because they don't see them as threatening.

 

[Tictac]

White guys do the same **** towards black guys in the south. If a girl dates a black guy then she is pretty much ruled tainted even if the guy was an image of barack obama himself. They aren't scared of Asians down here. I think it is because they don't see them as threatening.

If you couldn't think in stereotypes and pre-judged racist gibberish, you couldn't think at all.

This is pitiful.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

If you couldn't think in stereotypes and pre-judged racist gibberish, you couldn't think at all.

This is pitiful.

Then I might as well erase my memories because there's no way I can deny this.

 

[Tictac]

Then I might as well erase my memories because there's no way I can deny this.

Whites, Blacks, Asians - not people, racial/ethnic groups. No people at all, only your racism. You are a pure mouth breather.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Whites, Blacks, Asians - not people, racial/ethnic groups. No people at all, only your racism. You are a pure mouth breather.

Monks need time to vent lol.