Asian guys doing better in conservative areas than liberal ones.

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I've noticed that as an Asian guy, I tend to do a lot better with women in places like Nashville, Arizona, Texas cities, Florida cities, and places that would generally go more for the right wing during presidential elections. On the other hand, I noticed that me being Asian was a HUGE deal in the mid-Atlantic northeast (NY, NJ, PA, etc.) and a lot of Canada (especially Toronto and Vancouver). I have spoofed my tinder locations to try things out and I noticed a huge difference in matches.

The only minority group that seemed to do well in these areas were black guys, all other guys were screwed. A lot of what I said can also be applied to Arab and south Asian guys as well, they seemed to have it worse than us.

Even having lived up there (New Jersey), I noticed how not only was an Asian (or any kind of ethnic) guy with white girl couple very rare and unheard of, but lots of Asian girls were self-hating and went hard for white guys. This left Asian guys in a very tough situation.

Then when I moved to some of the more conservative areas, I noticed how things were different. Asian guys with their **** together were dating cute girls of all races, even cute white girls. I was having a lot more success as well.

It makes me wonder, could it be something bigger? Could it be that girls who have left wing political views and live in heavily liberal areas are the types that will put on an act of "not being racist" but are actually the type to see guys as a race rather than individuals?

Bro in Right-Wing conservative area.... Asian are ****ing exotic.... we all know women love exotism.
 

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Wealth and income are not the same, which is probably why the social stigma remains. The face of wealth in the Northeast is the tall, rich, handsome, Ivy-leage educated white male. That won't change as long as legacy is there. Polish your game and make yourself the most attractive man you can be. Society doesn't change in a hurry.
Point is, what's the point?

Game and looks don't matter when the hot blonde is brainwashed into dating objectively uglier white guys.
 

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The pedastalizing is real. Everytime a post like this pops up its always the minority mad that the white bombshell blonde is choosing white guys over them. There are many factors that play a part into why this happens, @EyeBRollin was spot on with the class seperation. There are also societal and cultural pressures.

The real thing is, white women are typically going to choose white men. I say this as a minority myself. This isn't going to change anytime soon, so you got to live with it.
 

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The pedastalizing is real. Everytime a post like this pops up its always the minority mad that the white bombshell blonde is choosing white guys over them. There are many factors that play a part into why this happens, @EyeBRollin was spot on with the class seperation. There are also societal and cultural pressures.

The real thing is, white women are typically going to choose white men. I say this as a minority myself. This isn't going to change anytime soon, so you got to live with it.
As an Asian guy who has been with the hot blonde types, I accept that white women will choose white men and am perfectly okay with it. The point I am trying to make is that a high value Asian dude with his **** together can get the hot blonde type in Nashville without much issues, he will have NO SHOT of getting her in NYC and will lose out to the poorer and uglier white guy every time.
 

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As an Asian guy who has been with the hot blonde types, I accept that white women will choose white men and am perfectly okay with it. The point I am trying to make is that a high value Asian dude with his **** together can get the hot blonde type in Nashville without much issues, he will have NO SHOT of getting her in NYC and will lose out to the poorer and uglier white guy every time.
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As an Asian guy who has been with the hot blonde types, I accept that white women will choose white men and am perfectly okay with it. The point I am trying to make is that a high value Asian dude with his **** together can get the hot blonde type in Nashville without much issues, he will have NO SHOT of getting her in NYC and will lose out to the poorer and uglier white guy every time.

I know you point dude. However, this a huge generalization on your part and even if your sentiments are true, (they may very well be, sounds about right) reasons for why this happens were given. Economics, societal, and cultural pressures influence preferences. I don't quite know what your getting at.
 

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Good Gao - It's not just you. I've noticed the same phenomenon. It seems in general that conservatives care more about people as individuals vs. groups - get into a conversation with one and drop the hints that you're not a liberal, and you can see people visibly relax and open up. Politics trumps ethnicity by far as a factor for conservatives in my mind. Similarly, you need a "huge edge" for women to think of you "in that way" in the coasts, while women elsewhere are more open to start with. I've encountered far more overt racism in the coasts than elsewhere.
 

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I know you point dude. However, this a huge generalization on your part and even if your sentiments are true, (they may very well be, sounds about right) reasons for why this happens were given. Economics, societal, and cultural pressures influence preferences. I don't quite know what your getting at.
God, give me the **** you are smoking to make me as delusional as you please!?
 

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Good Gao - It's not just you. I've noticed the same phenomenon. It seems in general that conservatives care more about people as individuals vs. groups - get into a conversation with one and drop the hints that you're not a liberal, and you can see people visibly relax and open up. Politics trumps ethnicity by far as a factor for conservatives in my mind. Similarly, you need a "huge edge" for women to think of you "in that way" in the coasts, while women elsewhere are more open to start with. I've encountered far more overt racism in the coasts than elsewhere.
I got the perception after reading some forums as well, most of the Asian and Indian men complaining about race were from places such as: San Francisco, Toronto, Vancouver, and to a smaller extent the northeast.

Can you give me examples of racism you've encountered on the coasts?
 

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Asian girls were self-hating and went hard for white guys. This left Asian guys in a very tough situation.
Dude, I know you guys like to rag on your girls for not dating you, its not about self-hate. I go to Asia to meet Asian girls, if I went to India, it would be for Indian girls or Thailand for Thais... for some reason lonely white fempats seem to think they are entitled to a date with me simply because I am white, but I have no interest in travelling to Thailand for a date with a white woman but they think they 'own' white men. On the flip side, another thread pointed out that white women often travel to the islands to get black guys. Its no different in America (a predominately white country), the young IMMIGRANT women go there to seek out a date with a white guy under the guise of 'attending school'. If you want a particular kind of girl, go to that country and date them. There are over 800 million Chinese girls that do not practice 'self hate' who live in China and are married to Chinese men. Its a matter of racial preference based on geographic location, you don't go to a shoe store to buy diamonds.
White males in the northeast are very devious and sociopathic, if they see a hot blonde with an Asian guy then they will set out to ruin her life because she belongs to them and not that damn foreigner. Most of them are hardly quality guys themselves, sorry but Trump's kids are an anomaly and not the norm in a place like NYC.
All men participate in this (from every country), you should see what goes on in China when I'm out with my wife, its like a tiger among monkeys, they go crazy when they find out I'm married to a Chinese girl. You are guilty of it right now, you are calling out white guys for dating 'your' women and attributing it to 'self-hate'. My wife is a staunch Chinese nationalist and makes no bones about it, I guarantee she is more loyal to the mainland than you'll ever be. Instead of bitching about people's racial preferences, why not travel to the country where you want to date the women and concentrate on the race that comes from there. I did, I lived in China for 6 years, I'm tied to the place forever and I went because I wanted to marry a local girl.

Personally, I'd be happier if Chinese men dated more white girls. I know of a White Fem/Chinese Male couple in Toronto, friend of my father's who has been for 20 years. They were married in the 70's and said it was crazy the amount of stuff they had to put up with but he said he was specifically attracted to white girls so he came to Canada. When I tried to date an Indian girl in my college, all the Indian guys came after me telling me to stay away from her. She ended up going out with another white guy in the end who told them to piss off. I have another 'friend' who is a white nationalist and believes that he owns the rights to all white women and that they are being 'brainwashed' into dating exclusively outside their race. He has 0 game and 0 ability with 0 results and often forgets that there are tons of white women dating their own race but everywhere he looks he sees 'dirty immigrants' with poor white girls.

San Francisco (WHITE), Toronto (WHITE), Vancouver (USED TO BE WHITE)

Maybe you've forgotten, these were OUR white cities up until 30 years ago.

Bottom Line: If you want to date an Asian GO BACK TO ASIA.
 
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I had an example just a few days ago. Just sitting at a place in SF with others; punks behind started shouting "xiao (small in Chinese) PENIS" in a new variation on the penis game. Was the only Asian close enough to hear, so it was pretty clear who it was directed at. In other cases, it's the disgusting entitled looks that scream "as if! You think I want to go out with YOU?" body language when just talking, flakes, etc. What I find is that Europeans (both Western and Eastern) are much more open minded. That said; status makes a difference. Wearing a suit makes a huge difference in perception, for example. By contrast, in the interiors, people are more "curious" and ask about you, but for the most part don't have hostility.
 

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I've been thinking more about it and as much as we rally against feminism and liberalism on so many PUA forums and places like them, I realized something.

American Liberals and just left wing culture in America is responsible for hot white girls developing a "thing" for black men while having animosity, pity, and hatred towards all other minority groups. Now I tend to make friends easily with most black guys but sometimes, the game does get rigged heavily in their favor in most liberal parts of the USA. Just be black and act a stereotype, you're guaranteed a white 7.

Now think about Asians and other minority groups, one of the main reasons that white women hate those minority groups is because of how media portrays them. White women who are slaves to mainstream media will tend to hate Asian and Indian men, why? Because mainstream media portrays those guys in the most unflattering kinds of ways.

In the end, the dating struggles of Asian and Indian alphas (notice, I said alphas not some FOBs and nerds) can mainly be attributed to how white liberals portray them in media and many other ways. Asian and Indian men can NEVER be shown to be the studs that get the hot blondes, because of that, a hot blonde who is so loyal to mainstream media and growing up in liberal hellholes is not going to for an Asian or Indian dude regardless of how alpha or top tier he is while her conservative sister might give it a chance.

It's irony at its finest, liberals cannot see past a person's race.
 

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I'm half Asian and I feel like I automatically attract liberal women even though my view in politics lean heavily toward conservative. I also find the more liberal the girl leans the more crazy they are, regardless of color or race.

But then again conservative females can be huge narcissists.
 

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I got the perception after reading some forums as well, most of the Asian and Indian men complaining about race were from places such as: San Francisco, Toronto, Vancouver, and to a smaller extent the northeast.

Can you give me examples of racism you've encountered on the coasts?
Lol sure- in their online dating profiles they write "no Indian guys please"
 

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There are about 700 million indian guys who managed to meet women in India and get married, same with Chinese guys in China.... and just about every other country outside the 1st world. The only place on Earth that men are actually having trouble courting women are the 1st world countries (and the surplus 30 million dudes in China)...
 

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I've been thinking more about it and as much as we rally against feminism and liberalism on so many PUA forums and places like them, I realized something.

American Liberals and just left wing culture in America is responsible for hot white girls developing a "thing" for black men while having animosity, pity, and hatred towards all other minority groups. Now I tend to make friends easily with most black guys but sometimes, the game does get rigged heavily in their favor in most liberal parts of the USA. Just be black and act a stereotype, you're guaranteed a white 7.

Now think about Asians and other minority groups, one of the main reasons that white women hate those minority groups is because of how media portrays them. White women who are slaves to mainstream media will tend to hate Asian and Indian men, why? Because mainstream media portrays those guys in the most unflattering kinds of ways.

In the end, the dating struggles of Asian and Indian alphas (notice, I said alphas not some FOBs and nerds) can mainly be attributed to how white liberals portray them in media and many other ways. Asian and Indian men can NEVER be shown to be the studs that get the hot blondes, because of that, a hot blonde who is so loyal to mainstream media and growing up in liberal hellholes is not going to for an Asian or Indian dude regardless of how alpha or top tier he is while her conservative sister might give it a chance.

It's irony at its finest, liberals cannot see past a person's race.
Yes these stereotypical black guys are getting white girls, but these girls are literally from the bottle of the barrel that even white men don't want. These women either have parental issues or have been rejected by white society in some way and they feel like whoring around black men is the best way to give them a middle finger. These girls are just using black men as sexual objects and a passive aggressive tactic against white society. Your Asian guy might not be able to compete quantity wise, but if he pulls a white girl she won't be screwed up in the head like the white girls going for black guys. On the other hand, most white women are going to always prefer their own over other races because that's how it is. If an Asian guy takes care of himself and blends in then he's going to destroy black guys quality and quantity. The only race above them are european looking hispanics and the more caucasian asian variants such as northern indians, central asians, turks, and you get what I'm saying.
 

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Yes these stereotypical black guys are getting white girls, but these girls are literally from the bottle of the barrel that even white men don't want. These women either have parental issues or have been rejected by white society in some way and they feel like whoring around black men is the best way to give them a middle finger. These girls are just using black men as sexual objects and a passive aggressive tactic against white society. Your Asian guy might not be able to compete quantity wise, but if he pulls a white girl she won't be screwed up in the head like the white girls going for black guys. On the other hand, most white women are going to always prefer their own over other races because that's how it is. If an Asian guy takes care of himself and blends in then he's going to destroy black guys quality and quantity. The only race above them are european looking hispanics and the more caucasian asian variants such as northern indians, central asians, turks, and you get what I'm saying.
I think you just described the majority of white girls in the USA under the age of 25. The YOLO life and all of that included, that is most white girls under 25, especially the good looking ones. All of the ones who chase the validation lifestyle, what is "cool", and are social media queens.

What I have found is that in white liberal dominated areas like Los Angeles for example, minorities with hot white girl is largely forbidden. The white guys in the area will go bat **** crazy over it, aggressively **** block an Asian or Indian dude going for hot white girls, and harass the couple without mercy. Black guys get a pass from the white guilt liberals who are racist as hell towards all non-black minorities.

I mean there is a reason why brown Hispanic guy with blonde girl couples are almost unheard of in Los Angeles while it is very common the other way around.
 

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I think you just described the majority of white girls in the USA under the age of 25. The YOLO life and all of that included, that is most white girls under 25, especially the good looking ones. All of the ones who chase the validation lifestyle, what is "cool", and are social media queens.

What I have found is that in white liberal dominated areas like Los Angeles for example, minorities with hot white girl is largely forbidden. The white guys in the area will go bat **** crazy over it, aggressively **** block an Asian or Indian dude going for hot white girls, and harass the couple without mercy. Black guys get a pass from the white guilt liberals who are racist as hell towards all non-black minorities.

I mean there is a reason why brown Hispanic guy with blonde girl couples are almost unheard of in Los Angeles while it is very common the other way around.
Yep, pretty much reverse here in the Southeast. Asians and Hispanics can kill it here if they americanize and take care of themselves. Black men are pretty much left with the unwanted white women. Even if you are Tiger Woods, the girls here still have a stigma against black men because the deeprooted racist history in the East in general. When I was looking at fraternities, the racist af ones that refused to let a black guy in would let an Asian or hispanic in. In addition, I wore vineyard vines, southern proper, brooks brothers, and the non urban style variants of ralph lauren so it didn't matter rather you were Carlton Banks or not. When I went to Los Angeles, California, some rich blonde girl got me drunk at a bar and I slept with her that night all because she was flattered by the fact I let her get her drink ahead of me because I had no idea what I wanted haha. That **** would have never happened any where on the east coast lolz. I live in North Dakota now and the girls I have met up are definitely better looking than the girls I could only get in Tn. However, these girls here are crazier and have an unhealthy obsession with black men. These girls would sleep with a black senator and then go and screw some thug with a grill the next day.
 

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