Over the years I have realized that the playboy lifestyle of sleeping around with a ton of different women, partying, and bragging about that sort of stuff only becomes acceptable in big cities after the age of say 25. It seems like while so many people are completely fine with a high school or college kid sleeping around, having a lot of sex, and being a manwh0re; there comes an age where that sort of behavior is looked down upon.
I have found that unless you move to a major city like NYC, LA, or Chicago; so many people see it as a norm to get into LTRs when you are in your late 20s and start considering things like marriage and kids.
For a lot of us DJs on here, we would like to keep the party going well past the age of 30 and so suave legend @bigneil serves as a role model for some of us who want to live this lifestyle as we get older.
Then there is an issue as well, NYC and LA are unbelievably expensive unless you want to live in the sketchy parts of those cities. You are paying a ton of money for a high cost of living so you can enjoy the playboy lifestyle while in some cheap no good backwater town, you would have the religious nut jobs coming after you for not being married with kids after the age of 25.
You will be a huge social misfit if you are still chasing women, partying, and sleeping around after the age of 30 in even a small sized city as opposed to a major city like NYC where you will have company.
What is your take on it?
I am sure the Europeans are more laid back about this sort of stuff but most of the USA cannot seem to run from its puritan roots.
I have found that unless you move to a major city like NYC, LA, or Chicago; so many people see it as a norm to get into LTRs when you are in your late 20s and start considering things like marriage and kids.
For a lot of us DJs on here, we would like to keep the party going well past the age of 30 and so suave legend @bigneil serves as a role model for some of us who want to live this lifestyle as we get older.
Then there is an issue as well, NYC and LA are unbelievably expensive unless you want to live in the sketchy parts of those cities. You are paying a ton of money for a high cost of living so you can enjoy the playboy lifestyle while in some cheap no good backwater town, you would have the religious nut jobs coming after you for not being married with kids after the age of 25.
You will be a huge social misfit if you are still chasing women, partying, and sleeping around after the age of 30 in even a small sized city as opposed to a major city like NYC where you will have company.
What is your take on it?
I am sure the Europeans are more laid back about this sort of stuff but most of the USA cannot seem to run from its puritan roots.