In regards to what another commenter said about getting married because of what the "bible" says about getting "married" because of "fornication." Like you, and probably tens of millions of people even as of now in 2013 in various religions, that is the main belief system that I too was taught (brainwashed) by going to "churches." The belief that "intimate relations" is for in marriage ONLY because the bible/religions say that fornication will prevent you from going to heaven after death is falsely brainwashed into millions of people. I did not internally agree with this belief, but I went along with it because of the weekly brainwashing of these churches to have power/control over millions of people (as they also constanly request money to be handed over by these same people as they sang religious songs and the people got the money out and put the money in the basket that was then taken up to the alter). These religious "authorities" would then spend the money mostly on themselves. It is the constant brainwashing of this incorrect belief that "intimate relations is ONLY to be done in marriage" that I heard preached as I went to churches every week that also demasculinizes men, and as I went to chastity seminars with religious groups preaching for us to become priests and to "never self-stimulate" and to "never touch or even look at girls in THAT way" (as a normal hetero guy would). This "so-called fornication" brainwashed belief system totally MESSED UP my youth and is the VERY belief that caused me through high school to do NOTHING with girls at all (I would not even allow myself to date girls).
Then, this "fornication" belief system began to crumble into a pile of lies and I resented and regreted what these "religious authorities/churches" did to me and continues to preach to millions of people. The priests who were telling me/us to not do "intimate things" were themselves exposed doing disgusting/harmful things to mostly little boys. Religious figures were caught stealing much money. My friends I went to church/religious meetings/chastity seminars with told me AFTER high school (when I still had my v-card) that they had during high school been doing "intimate relations/fornication." (I type this way because SS blockes out letters of some words). I stopped going to churches. I would never give my time or money or my mind to any church or religion ever again. I stopped seeking the approval/disapproval of "religious people" who were in fact (even if well-meaning) delusional frauds. I stopped doing things for the expectations of others, especially churches. I thought for myself again. No other religion, cult, or other person is ever going to tell me what to think and do, in their attempt to have power over and control me.
The number one piece of information I learned on my own that set me free on my journey of freedom from this "fornication" made-up religion belief system was that the word in the "bible" for "fornication" was changed "by so-called religious authority who altered the word in the "bible" to reflect their made-up beliefs (possibly around the year 1400) from the ORIGINAL word in Greek (and that original Greek word was NOT even about "pre-marital relations") TO the word "fornication." "Fornication" was NOT even the original Greek word. Thus, "fornication" was not the correct original translation. Most people around 2000 years ago in "biblical days" got married (and had "relations") as teenagers. Thus, the original Greek word was about religious idolitry in the temple there back then. Thus, saying the BELIEF that ALL people "HAVE TO" get married to "be ALLOWED by controlling religious authority figures" to ONLY then "have intimate relations," is INCORRECT and is not "reality."
Also, before say 2000 years ago, and before say a few hundred years ago when this so-called "fornication" belief system was made-up by a few "religious priests changing the original Greek word TO this different word of so-called fornication," people had been naturally/normally/humanly having "pre-marital relations for at least "tens of thousands of years or MORE" right here on planet earth. Those people "did it" without the "approval/blessing" of "religious authority figures." For probably over a few hundred thousand years people "did it" without being "married by a religion and the State." The world went on and here we are today.
Therefore, it took me quite a while to un-learn many years of religious brainwashing. I am finally free to decide my own beliefs, and as a man having "un-married relations with women" feels natural/normal/right for me.
Also, as a businessman and as a free human being with freedom to decide to not get married, I decided that I will never get married because it does not fit in with my "DJ/International G" lifestyle, I'm not going to have kids, being a SOB I have control freak relatives and I've experienced how they (their angry mean ANGER and attempts to control) can ruin my life so there's no way I'm going to get married and enable another person and the State government to have the legal power over me in marriage, and I will NOT put myself in a legal situation where on any day I can of no-fault of my own have half of everything (I've painfully to my hard-core struggled and worked so many years for) have it just taken away from me in a divorce.
I'm not a priest. I'm a DJ. Too much for my tatse on SS is promoting religion and such, and this worse for me and my game, so I'm moving on. Most of what I have read on SS is not about "game," so SS must not be a Game site. I'm not a weak wuss complaining manipulative "nice guy," and I am not a "a-hole jerk" who is mean/hurtful/rude/insecure/wussy/angry/controlling either, as I don't pretend as either does. I really like most women (and maybe because of my inner-security/strength/relaxed disposition/sensual vibe and sensual leadership) is why women act fun/playful/sensual around me because they know if they are not this way around me that I say it was a pleasure and I just go on to the next woman. I'm now finally a better top-level DJ with top-shelf women in the real world.
I will not be responding to any comments attacking my post about what I said in this post about what benefited me in overcoming "those incorrect religious fornication beliefs" that once un-learned/overcome contributed to finally making me a natural/normal human being again and my game better. Maybe there will be 7 out of ten who will attack this post (because it disagrees with their religious BELIEFS). Maybe 3 out of ten will say good post.
To those who say to get married because of THEIR beliefs about "fornication," or those based on their insecurity or arrogance who would call me names such as slacker; here is my middle finger in front of me and my blank face. Everyone enjoy your life and have fun experiences with other people. I now Log Off SS. I go my own way.
