article: This Is The Best Place To Meet Your Future Partner At Every Age

[MatureDJ]

This Is The Best Place To Meet Your Future Partner At Every Age

With cuffing season upon us, dating experts reveal the top ways to find love if you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond.

www.huffpost.com

The best place to meet a romantic partner in your 20s is through school or friend connections.

And if most or all of your connections are sausages, this does not work.

In your 30s, you often have deeper friendships to lean on, plus you’re often more confident approaching strangers, so lean into introductions to your friends’ single friends. For example, your best buddy’s wife may have a handful of single girlfriends who would love to meet you, as long as you’re willing to ask.

And the available women that these friends have are like the grocery store aisle where there is hardly anything on the shelf except for a few suspiciously dented cans.

In your 40s, you often have more resources, more flexibility with work and more specific interests. I’d recommend leaning into travel related to your interests and hobbies accordingly.

IOW, GeoMax.

Dating apps and sites are hands-down the best way to meet someone in your 70s. It’s more efficient than asking for setups, joining new groups or approaching people on the street for older daters.

Great, finally when your target is a Golden Girl, OLD starts to work.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Taking anything that appeared on HuffPo from '17-the present seriously is less advisable than going to Anne Coulter for advice on not becoming a side-show unto yourself

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Taking anything that appeared on HuffPo from '17-the present seriously is less advisable than going to Anne Coulter for advice on not becoming a side-show unto yourself

He's an incel looking for 'rage fuel'. And posting his ineptitude for the whole forum to see.
#ragingincelinvestation

 

[Gamisch]

Never forget that these things are written for WOMEN.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

And if most or all of your connections are sausages, this does not work.

If most of your connections are sausages, you've got issues.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

If most of your connections are sausages, you've got issues.

Not if you're into sausages.

 

[GoodMan32]

Disagree about the claim we have deeper friendships at 30-39.

The total opposite is true. A lot of friendships have evaporated by that age.

 

[SW15]

Disagree about the claim we have deeper friendships at 30-39.

The total opposite is true. A lot of friendships have evaporated by that age.

Here's what happens to an unmarried, childless man's social circle between the ages of 30 and 39.

If he stays unmarried while the majority of his friends get and stay married, he becomes a misfit within his own circle. He will see less of his married man friends on a 1-on-1 basis.

If the unmarried childless man has a steady girlfriend, he might get invites to spend time with some married couples. This happens more with childless married couples and is often temporary (before the marrieds start having children).

When his married friends start having children, the childless, unmarried man falls out of favor with his general social circle.

If some of his married friends get divorced in their late 30s (a common age range for a divorce), some of the newly divorced men might contact that guy. However, the newly divorced guys in their late 30s/early 40s often had kids during the marriage. They have differences in lifestyle too and that can affect friendships.

 

[Everything_but_Game]

If most of your connections are sausages, you've got issues.

But sausages got all the links

 

[AureliusMaximus]

This Is The Best Place To Meet Your Future Partner At Every Age

With cuffing season upon us, dating experts reveal the top ways to find love if you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond.

www.huffpost.com

And if most or all of your connections are sausages, this does not work.

And the available women that these friends have are like the grocery store aisle where there is hardly anything on the shelf except for a few suspiciously dented cans.

IOW, GeoMax.

Great, finally when your target is a Golden Girl, OLD starts to work.

Get a "fun job side hustle" where there is tons of chick in the desirable age bracket you are looking for dude. (fun job= A job you DGAF about if you lose it).

I have an extra job some weekends for fun, (as an example), as bartender and there is loads of cute 20ish /30ish year old's around me all the time in an endless supply, plus loads of cuties as guest that hit on me and give me their numbers. This is of course not suitable for everyone but it is an open option and you might find one that works for you this way.

 

[Manure Spherian]

This Is The Best Place To Meet Your Future Partner At Every Age

With cuffing season upon us, dating experts reveal the top ways to find love if you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond.

www.huffpost.com

And if most or all of your connections are sausages, this does not work.

And the available women that these friends have are like the grocery store aisle where there is hardly anything on the shelf except for a few suspiciously dented cans.

IOW, GeoMax.

Great, finally when your target is a Golden Girl, OLD starts to work.

Hence I keep stressing people better get a head start with women early these days (teenage years). If a man is not socially established or does not have experience with a woman (or women, plural) by his early twenties, he might find himself up shlt's creek! And if he reaches his 30s still disconnected, something went wrong, by his own volition or just unlucky circumstances. Plus he will be dealing with other men's embittered leftovers. Such alpha widows look down upon innocent, inexperienced guys.

Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how a man looks at the current environment, it takes women to get women. And a socially disconnected, womanless man is looked upon as suspect by women. Even divorced men with children are looked at as having some clout. Even ordinary men who are socially established and have had women have easier times finding women than a disconnected man.

 

[MatureDJ]

Hence I keep stressing people better get a head start with women early these days (teenage years). If a man is not socially established or does not have experience with a woman (or women, plural) by his early twenties, he might find himself up shlt's creek! And if he reaches his 30s still disconnected, something went wrong, by his own volition or just unlucky circumstances. Plus he will be dealing with other men's embittered leftovers. Such alpha widows look down upon innocent, inexperienced guys.

Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how a man looks at the current environment, it takes women to get women. And a socially disconnected, womanless man is looked upon as suspect by women. Even divorced men with children are looked at as having some clout. Even ordinary men who are socially established and have had women have easier times finding women than a disconnected man.

Yes, this is exactly what the Narrator tells Raphael why he is a complete failure with women.

You're orphaned by the teenage loves you never had ... There is no redemption, no release.

 

[MatureDJ]

Here's what happens to an unmarried, childless man's social circle between the ages of 30 and 39.

If he stays unmarried while the majority of his friends get and stay married, he becomes a misfit within his own circle. He will see less of his married man friends on a 1-on-1 basis.

If the unmarried childless man has a steady girlfriend, he might get invites to spend time with some married couples. This happens more with childless married couples and is often temporary (before the marrieds start having children).

When his married friends start having children, the childless, unmarried man falls out of favor with his general social circle.

If some of his married friends get divorced in their late 30s (a common age range for a divorce), some of the newly divorced men might contact that guy. However, the newly divorced guys in their late 30s/early 40s often had kids during the marriage. They have differences in lifestyle too and that can affect friendships.

Something else to think about is that when his married friends have children, especially daughters, the wife does not want him to visit - perhaps because she thinks he must be a creep to still be unmarried, or because the daughters are running around in their underwear at home, and it would be inappropriate for him to be around.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Yes, this is exactly what the Narrator tells Raphael why he is a complete failure with women.

I understand that you identify with this Raphael dude, but how many times are you going to post that clip?

 

[Manure Spherian]

Yes, this is exactly what the Narrator tells Raphael why he is a complete failure with women.

A pertinent quote: “In our society, a definite pattern has already emerged of “singles” groups or events being composed of innocent, never-married men in their thirties and cynical, bitter, often divorced women. What have the bachelors been doing with themselves all these years? So far, in the West, they have not been forming criminal gangs. (They would probably be more attractive to women if they did: everyone seems to have heard stories about men on death row being besieged with offers of marriage from bored, thrill-seeking females.)”
~Roger Devlin

 

[inquisitor]

The best place to meet a partner is actually
where the best option for you just happened to be at,
at that moment you met her,
and at those moments you got to know her more.

 

[RangerMIke]

The best place to meet women of any age is doing social activities that you like to do. First you will meet women that like the same things you like, second... even if you don't meet any women you are having fun doing what you love. It really isn't advanced particle physics. If you like music and going to concerts, you'll meet people that like the same thing you like. If you like clubbing and going to bars... again... you will meet women that like doing that. You like tennis... yoga... cross fit... hiking... archery... going to church.... whatever. You have built in commonality.

The key is what you like to do also has to be some social activity that women like also. If you don't have any hobbies or activities you like to do which involves women... well go out and figure that sh1t out.

Now if you are an introvert that just likes your alone time... like doing things by yourself.... hey... no problem, you don't need women, you are doing what you like... just don't get ticked off about it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

This Is The Best Place To Meet Your Future Partner At Every Age

With cuffing season upon us, dating experts reveal the top ways to find love if you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond.

www.huffpost.com

And if most or all of your connections are sausages, this does not work.

And the available women that these friends have are like the grocery store aisle where there is hardly anything on the shelf except for a few suspiciously dented cans.

IOW, GeoMax.

Great, finally when your target is a Golden Girl, OLD starts to work.

 

[GoodMan32]

The best place to meet women of any age is doing social activities that you like to do. First you will meet women that like the same things you like, second... even if you don't meet any women you are having fun doing what you love. It really isn't advanced particle physics. If you like music and going to concerts, you'll meet people that like the same thing you like. If you like clubbing and going to bars... again... you will meet women that like doing that. You like tennis... yoga... cross fit... hiking... archery... going to church.... whatever. You have built in commonality.

The key is what you like to do also has to be some social activity that women like also. If you don't have any hobbies or activities you like to do which involves women... well go out and figure that sh1t out.

Now if you are an introvert that just likes your alone time... like doing things by yourself.... hey... no problem, you don't need women, you are doing what you like... just don't get ticked off about it.

Male introverts are still male (what I mean by that: we're horndogs). We still want to get laid.

Unfortunately for us male introverts, there's a disconnect between our lifestyle vs our likelihood of getting laid (in other words, introverted lifestyles aren't exactly conducive to finding a woman...as you pointed out)

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Unfortunately for us male introverts, there's a disconnect between our lifestyle vs our likelihood of getting laid (in other words, introverted lifestyles aren't exactly conducive to finding a woman...as you pointed out)

Yet you don't want to adapt to become more social, so: