article: This Is The Best Place To Meet Your Future Partner At Every Age

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Maybe because I have a track record of humiliating myself at social events.
Embrace your victimhood, dud. Seems to be all you have.
 

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if you are an introvert that just likes your alone time... like doing things by yourself.... hey... no problem, you don't need women, you are doing what you like... just don't get ticked off about it.
Introverts do tend to find socialization draining and need alone time.

There are introverts who can do well with in-person approaching. Some introverts are socially savvy enough.

Tech-based methods were supposed to help introverts with getting women. It hasn't quite worked out that way.

The best place to meet women of any age is doing social activities that you like to do. First you will meet women that like the same things you like, second... even if you don't meet any women you are having fun doing what you love.....You have built in commonality.

The key is what you like to do also has to be some social activity that women like also. If you don't have any hobbies or activities you like to do which involves women... well go out and figure that sh1t out.
I agree with this. The commonality helps a lot.

A lot of bars are very generic, which has positives and negatives in starting interactions. Starting interactions in malls and many grocery stores is generic. Some grocers are more niched, which can help for commonality.

A lot of men don't have hobbies or activities that will help them for meeting women. A lot of hobbies are not good for meeting women. Many men will need to make some adjustments to improve their hobbies to find hobbies/activities that are viable for meeting women.
 

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Introverts do tend to find socialization draining and need alone time.

There are introverts who can do well with in-person approaching. Some introverts are socially savvy enough.

Tech-based methods were supposed to help introverts with getting women. It hasn't quite worked out that way.



I agree with this. The commonality helps a lot.

A lot of bars are very generic, which has positives and negatives in starting interactions. Starting interactions in malls and many grocery stores is generic. Some grocers are more niched, which can help for commonality.

A lot of men don't have hobbies or activities that will help them for meeting women. A lot of hobbies are not good for meeting women. Many men will need to make some adjustments to improve their hobbies to find hobbies/activities that are viable for meeting women.
As you've explained in detail on here before, websites/apps go through phases (they start out being hard to succeed on because there's hardly any market, then they reach the sweet spot where a guy can succeed relatively easily, then they eventually become oversaturated)

I'd venture to say tech methods helped introverted men at one point (I speak from experience as an introverted guy who had a decent amount of success on tech methods in 2012-13)
 
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