article: Gen Z Is Leaving Dating Apps Behind

[Solomon]

You're BORING dude. No wonder Gen-Z women don't want to be around you. Walk in the park? Ice Cream and Drinks? What is she 5? Damn... can you come up with something more interesting. Just reading that sentence almost put me to sleep.

aaaw so you're a jestermaxxer, makes sense from your post, I'm curious what do you do on a first date? I hope you're under the age of 35 because jestemaxxing doesn't work as well once you turn into an old dog like myself

At least tie them up before you smear ice cream all over her naked body...

There are lot of women who love Kink, it's a taboo topic even on this forum, but all I will say is there are more women open to it than those that aren't

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

I'm 44 this year.

Jestermaxing? Dude, you sound as much fun as watching paint peel on a 50-year-old concrete wall. Do whatever you would normally do on a day you would spend with your friends. You're inviting a woman into your life not being her clown for the weekend.

Kink is for left wing pervs and cucks, unsurprising you're all so into it.

 

[Solomon]

I'm 44 this year.

Jestermaxing? Dude, you sound as much fun as watching paint peel on a 50-year-old concrete wall. Do whatever you would normally do on a day you would spend with your friends. You're inviting a woman into your life not being her clown for the weekend.

Kink is for left wing pervs and cucks, unsurprising you're all so into it.

You're 44 married and posting Super Nintendo videos, I can't take you seriously, I dare say you might be mentally ill
regardless I will ignore your posts from here on because there is nothing I can learn from you

*Hits Ignore button*

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

You're 44 married and posting Super Nintendo videos, I can't take you seriously, I dare say you might be mentally ill
regardless I will ignore your posts from here on because there is nothing I can learn from a super husband

Married 15 years, no hiccups.

Apparently, Super Nintendo saved my marriage.

 

[patb]

Some young men feel defeated and sometimes leave the platforms that don't serve them. Online dating platforms serve to women a heaping platter from which they can choose (happy thanksgiving), the issue arises for them in seeking commitment from men who have options and are not willing to commit.

Keeping in mind that 'piece' is citing anecdotal reports from Redditors which by in large tend to be introverted pseudo intellectuals who congregate in a hive mind. Most are bitter and unsuccessful in dating and romance. They would rather blame the systems (in more ways than one) than actively make changes conducive to improving their situation. OLD can be horrible for men, best thing young guys can do is accept the state of things, adapt (or don't) and make the best of it and get what's theirs. If their situation is poor, then change it. Make more money, get in shape, work on your social skills, f***ing move if you feel the need to, or don't and drop out all together... Regardless, no one wants to hear them whine like Redditors do.

Also, Tinder in 2022:

• Tinder made $1.79 billion revenue in 2022, an 8% increase on the year prior
• It had 75 million monthly active users and 10.9 million subscribers in 2022
• 60% of Tinder’s users are under 35 years old
• Three quarters of Tinder’s users are male

If the juice ain't worth the squeeze for them then there will be more to drink for the Men who actually engage in the dating market and are successful. I don't blame men for dropping out, but pity them since they often equate their chances of getting laid/relationships with their lack of success on OLD.

lol none of that **** matters. As far as you not wanting to hear “whining,” well, that sounds like a great reason to keep doing it.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

Tell me something new...


Yes, I'm definitely a left wing perv.

Tell us again how your marriage went down.

 

[patb]

BS, not true. Incel mentality.

It is true lmao. Google “Chad fishing”

 

[patb]

You watch too much rp stuff.

that’s bp not rp

 

[HaleyBaron]

I fired up Tinder recently cause I was bored. I threw all my recent fit pictures up and a mix of fun stuff. Swiped right on a lot of hotties, but I only seem to get matches so far with middle aged women. ****ing made me laugh again cause I had the same results a few years ago. I get far better reception irl. I don't know what it is about dating apps but they are not worth my time. And it does not help considering my ethnicity.

 

[Bigpapa]

Right. Like the girls didn't look like the photos they posted off themselves online lol.

The vast majority of girls look way better on social media than they do in real life

That is why online dating does not really work either, because women know that they are scam artists

Sure there are girls that are hot irl too and you might bump into them in online dating, but this happens extremely rarely and you need to be extremely patient till you bump into them

All in all, online dating is a rigged game for guys ( no matter how good looking they are )

 

[SW15]

online dating is a rigged game for guys ( no matter how good looking they are )

For about 90% of men, this is true. The top 10% or so do well with swipe apps.

 

[corrector]

the top 10% don't need swipe apps
they do just fine without dating apps

That how they find other side women when they are bored.

 

[viking22]

IMO online dating worked a lot better when it was stigmatised or at least not mainstream. Sure the quality was lower but for men as well as women and there wasn't the same online dating hook up culture so most women were looking for relationships and wary of players and while pickier than the average woman were not completely delusional so if you were above average looking you could do quite well if you
were able to display a bit of wit and charm and banter in your messages.

 

[corrector]

IMO online dating worked a lot better when it was stigmatised or at least not mainstream. Sure the quality was lower but for men as well as women and there wasn't the same online dating hook up culture so most women were looking for relationships and wary of players and while pickier than the average woman were not completely delusional so if you were above average looking you could do quite well if you
were able to display a bit of wit and charm and banter in your messages.

It still sucked.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Gen Z has no testosterone so they don't even care if they have sex or not. Half of them are asexual and would rather play Call of Duty than go out or fvck.

Eh, maybe. If that's true i'm in that camp. I remember having a cute 19 yo redhead fwb for a long time years ago and I got more enjoyment out of playing Starcraft 2 than fvcking her.

The Test thing might be explain some of it, but most gen Z seem like horny coomers from what I've seen, they desperately want sex and GFs but can't get it and they're too delusional and ideologically hypnotized by feminism/leftism to recognize why.

 

[viking22]

The 10% go on dating apps because now it is mainstream there are enough attractive girls on the apps to make it worth their while.

And women are flaky and even for top tier guys they aren't always DTF. So 10% guys have an incentive to hoard women and keep them as an option.

And their presence on the apps creates an illusion of choice and an unfavourable contrast which makes women far less inclined to settle for lesser guys. Even if any matches women get with 10% guys goes nowhere a small part of them rationalizes that the fact they matched with that elite guy means they can eventually get a guy like that and for that reason they keep holding out for an elite guy while complaining bitterly about how dating apps suck (even though even an average looking girl can get hundreds of matches a day and date up. But that isn't enough for them. They don't want to just date up they want to date the best).

And so much of the social programming these days tells women they deserve the best that they don't need a man that they shouldn't settle.

 

[eli77]

Are we surprised? lol

 

[SW15]

For about 90% of men, this is true. The top 10% or so do well with swipe apps.

the top 10% don't need swipe apps
they do just fine without dating apps

For a top tier guy, there's greater efficiency in rotation building on swipe apps than in nightlife venues or non-bar venues.

 

[Slowhandluke]

For a top tier guy, there's greater efficiency in rotation building on swipe apps than in nightlife venues or non-bar venues.

Yeah, right now the apps are basically what women use to "ride the carousel" and what attractive/chad uses to build a "roster". The issue with the apps is that the majority of users (75% IIRC) are male.. average males. A lot of these average male are leaving the platform.. These average males are basically what's keeping afloat the dating apps (pay subscription, etc.) while the chads are "reaping the benefits".

Match group stock is down close to 15% year to date. They need to find other avenues of income. As the apps become even more of a playground for the chads to use women, the women (especially attractive to slightly above average women) will start to leave also. I think we are seeing this. The dating apps are in a doom loop.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

The so called doom loop won’t occur anytime soon. Decades possibly.

I’d say 2% of men get actively hit on in public - they’re model quality. The next 5% clean up on online dating. And success diminishes from there down.