Article from MSN " 5 ways to score women"

[mahon83050]

Check out this article written by some guy on msn. It is titled "5 ways to score with women. I think he is a little AFC, especially #1. What do you guys think.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=627

 

[die4me]

I feel bad for the millions of viewers seeing such "off-mark" information. But then again, more girls for me then

 

[Knicknack]

lol

 

[00Kevin]

#5 is the only one worth anything. It is important to notice her. Just don't get cought when you check her tits and ass out.

 

[Superman X]

If I ever said "Wow! you look fantastic!" to a girl, I'd shoot myself in the face.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Obviously this was based upon a survey of what women said they wanted to hear.

 

[ShortyBrown]

I gotta say that #2 has some merit......only when mixed with surprise.

Example:
Shorty and her yummy ex are at his house watching TV. Shorty's Yummy ex is channel surfing and gets the multi-cultural channel, which is showing the Japanese News. Shorty has previously had doubts that said boy pays attention to her.

Shorty's Yummy Ex-"come in here girl"
Shorty-"why, whats the matter baby?
Yummy ex-"you speak Japanese don't ya? what are they saying?"
Shorty- (translates,then) "how do you know that I speak Japanese?
Yummy ex-"you told me that the night we met remember? See, I do listen to what you say "

Fill in the rest...............

 

[Starman]

I have no idea how many times they are going to recycle the same crap from Dr. Greys book "Men are from mars"

each writer..takes the same info..and says it differently..

and you know why?? Because alot of pathetic AFC's are at the end of their rope..and willing to bow down to women just to win them over

then when they find out it doesnt work..more articles like this POP up..

 

[Industry]

#1 is pathetic and should never be used... aside from being in a LTR but even then it shouldn't become a habit.

the rest are OK if used in moderation. you should remember some key things a girl tells you because that is respect and charming in a way.

complimenting her on something different is a great lead for kino so i would do that from time to time.

i would never EVER invite her to a guy's hang out. there is a little dive craphole bar called 'goathill tavern' by where i live and even my ex of 2 years never saw the inside of that place.


if they want another girl to be by their side, why don't they just go for it and let me watch.

 

[tiburon]

WORST ADVICE EVER

MAN THAT IS THE MOST AFC ADVICE I HAVE SEEN ON A WEBSITE YET>>>?

Tiburon

 

[All_Torque]

*Rubs hands gleefully

Excellent... The more ignorant everyone else, is the more power we have.


Edit: It was probably written by a feminist who wants all men to be submissive hoes.

If I ever said "Wow! you look fantastic!" to a girl, I'd shoot myself in the face.

Yeah, me too. It'd be the only humane thing to do.

 

[sux2bu]

OmG....

Call when you say you will

No, i'll call you at my convenience. If you're lucky. Don't go puttin' me on a time-table...

Remember what she says

This is detrimental sometimes and can lead to arguments down the road if you screw up a minor detail. Especially with names. Be careful.

Share something of yourself with her

Yo, I just got home, and I brought you home some french fries I had left over from lunch. When she starts to open her mouth, immediately say "the ketchup is in the fridge.." then go and take your shower.

Listen when she's talking

I think I would rather be beat in the head with a 2X4 for 30 minutes.

Notice her

WOW, YOU LOOK FANTASTIC!!! - YES, PLEASE OVERLOOK MY LACK OF CREATIVITY BECAUSE I KNOW YOU'VE HEARD THIS LINE MORE TIMES THAN YOU CARE TO REMEMBER. EVEN IF IT WAS HALF-SINCERE. I'M JUST TRYING TO BUTTER YOU UP SO I CAN GET BETWEEN YOUR LEGS LATER ON TONIGHT. PLEASE! PLEASE!! IS THIS NOT GOOD ENOUGH? OK! I LOVE YOU! CAN WE HAVE SEX NOW?

 

[Donjuanpablo]

I dont see whats too wrong with that article, complimenting girls is a natural part of my game as well as listening to what she says and making sure i remember certain details. A little flawed but its better than a lot of the advice out there. Some of you are deludingly brainwashed with this whole "dj" stuff.

 

[becker]

I agree with DonJuanPablo, sometimes you can't just do the DJ thing all the time. I think the main thing is that if you're looking for a LTR, you're likely going to follow that list more than if you're just trying to get some play.

The only type of girls that you're going to attract by not doing some of those things on that list are ones that are too screwed up in the head anyways that all they may be good for is a roll in the hay.

 

[MetalFortress]

I think that number 1 is a big crock. I am never specific about when I call back, and it works just fine for me. What is the point of being as specific as possible?

 

[Bonhomme]

Based on my experience

I agree with Donjuanpablo that this isn't bad advice ... BUT a lot of guys will read it incorrectly, overdo things, and become a good friend to the gals they want to get down with. What was missing is that attraction precedes all of this. And overdoing this kind of stuff early on might kill the attraction.

OK, my take:

1. Call when you say you will

If you've actually told her you'll call at a certain time, then do. Women with a decent amount of self-esteem don't like flaky guys any more than we like flaky gals. Otherwise call at your mutual convenience. Just don't call too often.

2. Remember what she says

Definitely yes on this one.

The best example of this was when a gal I was dating mentioned a type of wine that she liked, and collected the corks (which had different pictures on them). She had recently moved, and could not locate the wine in the area. I found it, and surprised her with a bottle on the second date. A very fun weekend followed.

A lot of women are starved for romance. Where chumps go wrong is that they jump into it way too early, before enough of a connection has been made. Some gals will go for an all-out barrage of romantic attention ("what the hell - may as well enjoy the ride"), but there has to be attraction there. A skillful romantic will build up the anticipation, then surprise her with something that blows her away.

3. Share something of yourself with her

A double-edged sword. A lot of people will WAY misinterpret this. Share just a little to arouse her curiosity. Building rapport is great, if it turns out you do have a lot in common, but definitely don't "spill your guts." And avoid sappy, emotional stuff.

4. Listen when she's talking

Definitely yes.

5. Notice her

Yes, but just don't overdo it. Best to notice a few bits and pieces that most other guys don't notice. If a million guys are complimenting a hot, smart gal about how hot she is, she'll remember the guy who commented about their conversation being interesting. Overdoing it might give her the impression you think she's out of your league. Better for her to wonder if she's in your league.

 

[Don Rageta]

That was SOOOOO written by a woman

 

[Surfboard]

Actually # 1 can be used as an excellent Interest Level tester.

If you tell a girl that you'll call at a certain time and she's not home, then her Interest Level in you isn't as high as you might want it to be.

A girl with a high Interest Level will make sure that she's home to receive that call.

As for the other advice...there's nothing wrong with it. You just have to know how to use it correctly. A girl with a high Interest Level in you will love these things.

I know when a girl I really like uses this advice on me, she scores big points.

Too many of you NEWBIES are taking this DJ advice way too seriously. The attitudes that some of you guys are taking will not get you a QUALITY WOMAN.

For those of you that just want to get laid with the local bar sluts, then stick with your hard-a$$ attitudes.

A better way to get laid by these type of women was mentioned once before in some tip. The way to get them is to LIE LIE LIE!!!

 

[becker]

Regarding #1, I was meeting this girl and I told her I'd call her at a certain time, and she had some stuff lined up that day that she had to do, but I called 15 minutes after I said I would, and she was home waiting for my call. I just hope I didn't call too late and sort of spoil it by making her wait.

 

[Bud Wiser]

Setting up a specific time for a phone call? Say what? I've never done this and I must say it's as AFC as it comes.

If you want to gauge interest level, do it some other way. Because, if you do it by setting a "date" for a damn phone call, you'll have an effect on IL, alright -- you'll lower it.

The other stuff is kind of obvious but can be misconstrued, mis-applied and overdone. Anyone who thinks that these little "advice-lets" are the keys to scoring with women will definitely get a score. And it'll be zero.