Call when you say you will
And be as specific as you can about when her phone will ring. "I'll call you this weekend" isn't good enough; instead make a definite phone date by saying, "I'll call you at 9:00 p.m. Friday." Show consideration and interest, and you can expect the same in return.
1. is this fool a joke...He11 no!...What everhappened to reversing the game or being unpredictable.
2. I think Randy what ever his name is, is a woman giving men advise so they can end up wimped out.
Remember what she says
After only a little casual conversation, a guy who remembers and refers to my sisters' names or some detail of my work life is going to score points with me. Something as simple as asking how the big client meeting went or whether my mom still has a cold turns my interest up a notch or two, because it lets me know he cares about me and my life.
1. I agree with this one...cause I am gathering info on her and keeping my life a secret...which makes her wonder about me....get it...I will be on her mind....which is where I want to be...constantly on her f*uckin mind
Share something of yourself with her
Or at least offer to. She may very well not want to meet up with you and the guys Friday night at that dive where your high school buddies' band has a gig. But you still get points for having made the invitation.
1...uhhh hell no. Stupid has to earn the right into my inner sanctum
Listen when she's talking
Guys like to be problem solvers. For women, sometimes just talking about something is the solution. If she had an unhappy run-in with her boss, don't immediately leap to tell her what she should have done or point out her tactical errors. Unless she asks you what she should do, just listen and sympathize. You may not feel as though you've done anything, but from her point of view, you'll have been wonderfully supportive.
1. Yeah you need to do active listening to find out more about her...the more she shares the closer she will feel to you. But don't be come a symp here...(sympathizer to women...afc...):
This is one of my zenmack post from another site, I'm passing it on
Let me start by stating an obvious fact. *****es love to talk. Go anywhere, ie a coffee shop, lunch, chat rooms and you will find the truth of this statment.
So I have found that the art of the mouth piece isn't being able to converse with them. It's being able to give the impression that you are truely listening. Before you mutha ****a's start. I am not talking about becoming a symp!
The only way to get her life story is to do active listening. I know we fella's hat to listnen to *****es blather on & on about nothing of substance to us, that's why I said "give the impression" that your listening.
Here's a simple model of what I mean:
* she talks
* you listen
* you repeat some of what she said
It's that simple.
While the b*tch is giving you her life story you say one of these:
* Hmmmm
* Damn you don't say
* Uh-huh
Every now & then add:
* Damn, that's sounds "twisted" or "crazy" or some sh*t along those lines.
There are 2 almost magic words that will cover most of the topics the b*tch is going on & on about.:
* Frustrating
* Exciting
70% of the time *****es are feeling some form of unpleasantness in their little ****ed up lives. Saying : Dam that sh*t sounds frustrating as hell will fit most occasions.
Most of the other time a b*tch is feeling "pleasant", so "Yeah that sounds exciting will fit.
Or try this phrase: "Dam you must feel___________". You can use either positive or negative. Like Furious, or mad as ____. Or positive: "you must be feelin thrilled boo".
All you gotta do is listen and from time to time say a couple of syllables or comment on a feeling she's describing.
For you shy mutha ****as like I used to be...f**k that. You don't have to be afraid to listen. They love to talk, just bring the two of you together and there you go. Todays special is p*ssy on the platter served to your perfection" A b*tch will do anything once you get control over her funky ass.
The whole time your managing the b*tch. Letting her talk her way into your web. Remember your not a symp who ends up in the FRIEND catagory you gotta get those panties also. That's what I mean by managing.
Next time a b*tch approaches or you approach say:
"how are you feeling?" Do not use "doing." Women love to tell someone how they are feeling. If you give the apperance that you are actually listening then BLAM you ass is in there. You become stored in her little head as a good memory.
Add this to the stuff in my other article the What, where, why when sh*t and you become unstoppable. Boom baby you blow up. Freaks over hear,freaks over there.
Who do you thing she is going to call for good memories?
Now I don't go around soliciting every ho's ear. I combine this sh*t with my: aggressive male dominating, super confident, ****y as f**k, I will f**k the hell out of you until you scream jesus, then I will make love to you until you hear the birds singing ,attitude and you can see why I call myself the ZenMack. I will go all zen on a b*tch when she tries to start somethin (you know those dam tests they like to try).
If your feeling what I'm spittin then holla at a playa.
One last thing DO NOT TRY TO FIX A *****ES PROBLEMS!!! Leave that **** alone. If she wanted advice let her ass write to Dear Abbey or some ****. I know it's hard for us Men not to fix problems but believe me she isn't looking for advice. You make will place yourself into symp zone when you try to. Your not in the problem solving business, your pimps.
When you come to the table you come to own the entire building it's in. Symps come to the table to help them so maybe they might on a day the ***** is feeling good about herself and has nothing else to do and the alpha male dude she is really diggin is ****ing someone else, just might let the symp rub her funky assed feet and then send his sorry ass home, after listening to him blather on & on about she should do this and she should do that when she knows good and dam well she's gonna do what she is gonna do. Do you feel me brotha's?
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Notice her
The new haircut or outfit. Her smile, her eyes ... whatever you notice about her, let her know. And remember, there's one phrase (not "I love you") a man can always say that a woman will cherish: "Wow! You look fantastic."
1. this one is good advise. By noticing something about them they will work harder to get noticed by you in the future.
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