article: America's lonely (male) hearts club: Record 63% of men in their 20s are single - almost double the number of women

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Why, are you afraid of being alone? I'm not.
Where did I say I was afraid of being alone? I've been "alone" for 9 years. But I won't "cope" by saying I'm somehow better off than if I wasn't alone. I don't think it's being honest with yourself.
 

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Where did I say I was afraid of being alone? I've been "alone" for 9 years. But I won't "cope" by saying I'm somehow better off than if I wasn't alone. I don't think it's being honest with yourself.
Why is being with someone better than being alone for you?
 

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i respect a hard working man over some sleaze bag player. I dont give a fvck. And I get girls I have a girlfriend at the moment. I get what your saying if the man cant attract women thats a problem with his masculinity but to say a mans value is if he has a girl or grilfriends even if they make him miserable is ridiculous. When I was single I was jacked and on top of my **** and ignored women as they are time wasters. Does that make me less of a "man"?
I’m not saying I judge a man by if he gets pu$$. My best friend is a literal incel. But I can see that many people do.
A lot of the "stigma" a man that is not getting the success he wants with the dating market really is coming more from within than other people. This is a more extreme example, but look at that guy Elliot Roger. He was OBSESSED with women and how he had no success with them. I guarantee you that no one mocked him for being an incel, it was all made up in his mind.

With that said, there are women that will negatively judge men for being inexperienced, possibly even reject them. I can cite many examples of women rejecting men that they met due to being virgins or inexperienced, men that probably could have been decent relationship material. Men should keep their experiences, or lack thereof, to themselves instead of broadcasting it to the world and everyone in it, including women.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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This is a more extreme example, but look at that guy Elliot Roger. He was OBSESSED with women and how he had no success with them. I guarantee you that no one mocked him for being an incel, it was all made up in his mind.
I think Eliot Rodger was mostly ignored by the outside world.

Men should keep their experiences, or lack thereof, to themselves instead of broadcasting it to the world and everyone in it, including women.
I agree.

there are women that will negatively judge men for being inexperienced, possibly even reject them. I can cite many examples of women rejecting men that they met due to being virgins or inexperienced, men that probably could have been decent relationship material.
This happens and it is unfortunate that it happens. Women are sending more and more men to the rejection pile.
 

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I’m not saying I judge a man by if he gets pu$$. My best friend is a literal incel. But I can see that many people do.
You don’t want to be like most people do you? At first I judged my own status by getting pvssy. Once I got some and looked at the people that got laid the most I changed my value system. The times I got the most girls was when I focused on it (shocker right?). My life was in shambles and I’m paying the price for wasting time on it. It’s better to invest in your future and only fvcking girls who are loyal and sweet.
 

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You have to be at the very bottom of the barrel to approach this tub of lard.
As describes 90% of guys. When you stike out with OLD, get little or no matches, and start dumpster diving you get this entitled.garbage. Its better to just geomaxx or escortcel at that point.
 

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A lot of the "stigma" a man that is not getting the success he wants with the dating market really is coming more from within than other people. This is a more extreme example, but look at that guy Elliot Roger. He was OBSESSED with women and how he had no success with them. I guarantee you that no one mocked him for being an incel, it was all made up in his mind.
I think the Stacys looked at him as a jester that couldn't possibly think that he could think he had a chance with them.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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As describes 90% of guys. When you stike out with OLD, get little or no matches, and start dumpster diving you get this entitled.garbage. Its better to just geomaxx or escortcel at that point.
I'd rather cut my balls off than go after someone like that.
 

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i refuse to bleieve people approach her
Have you ever heard of dumpster-diving? It's something like @DonJuanjr and others used to promote for sub-8 normies and fakecells to break dry-spells. But as you see that even these types of women have ugly and nasty attitudes, even that advice is outdated because dating market has further devolved since then. A chad who is rich, has a great job, is 6.5 feet, is now considered lucky to even land an hb6 in @CornbreadFed thread. . You can just imagine how much worst it is for everyone else.
 
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