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article: America's lonely (male) hearts club: Record 63% of men in their 20s are single - almost double the number of women

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It's OVER for 63%Cels.
lots of "men" are in relationships with uglys and girls who dont like them anyways. There is nothing wrong with being single. Since when was success measrued by having a gf?
 

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lots of "men" are in relationships with uglys and girls who dont like them anyways. There is nothing wrong with being single. Since when was success measrued by having a gf?
People judge men by their success with women. You either have a GF or you look like you could have one or slay. Otherwise people will evaluate you negatively.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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lots of "men" are in relationships with uglys and girls who dont like them anyways. There is nothing wrong with being single. Since when was success measrued by having a gf?
You should watch this video:


I know you are trying to make a point and I think this will help you.

A guy will humilate himself and willingly be taken to the cleaners and be treated like absolute garbage just to say they have a "gf" while the gal doesn't really care about him beyond extracting whatever she can from him.

So, yes, people might judge that you are successful, but at what cost? Your self-respect, your dignity, your hard earned money, your soul?
It's better to be judged negatively but have your peace of mind. After all, you don't really care about what other people think most of the time because you are zoned-out and doing your own thing. But a bad gf is in your face all the time.
 
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You should watch this video:


I know you are trying to make a point and I think this will help you.

A guy will humilate himself and willingly be taken to the cleaners and be treated like absolute garbage just to say they have a "gf" while the gal doesn't really care about him beyond extracting whatever she can from him.

So, yes, people might judge that you are successful, but at what cost? Your self-respect, your dignity, your hard earned money, your soul?
It's better to be judged negatively but have your peace of mind. After all, you don't really care about what other people think most of the time because you are zoned-out and doing your own thing. But a bad gf is in your face all the time.
are you trying to disprove that? I said lots of losers have "gf" doesnt make them succcessful. I have a gf right now but she is submissive is totally in my frame goes panic mode if she thinks she upsets me and cooks and makes me coffee on demand and ****s me whenever i want (she wants it more than me to the point where i have to push her off). But I was equally as happy single and was on my grind as a man.
 

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People judge men by their success with women. You either have a GF or you look like you could have one or slay. Otherwise people will evaluate you negatively.
i respect a hard working man over some sleaze bag player. I dont give a fvck. And I get girls I have a girlfriend at the moment. I get what your saying if the man cant attract women thats a problem with his masculinity but to say a mans value is if he has a girl or grilfriends even if they make him miserable is ridiculous. When I was single I was jacked and on top of my **** and ignored women as they are time wasters. Does that make me less of a "man"?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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i respect a hard working man over some sleaze bag player. I dont give a fvck. And I get girls I have a girlfriend at the moment. I get what your saying if the man cant attract women thats a problem with his masculinity but to say a mans value is if he has a girl or grilfriends even if they make him miserable is ridiculous. When I was single I was jacked and on top of my **** and ignored women as they are time wasters. Does that make me less of a "man"?
I’m not saying I judge a man by if he gets pu$$. My best friend is a literal incel. But I can see that many people do.
 
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I could name every time I've ejaculated into a woman that wasn't on the clock. :(
That's really bad, which is why you used the sad faced emoji. Additionally, that can be very expensive.

Mostly every man pays for sex in one way or another. Plenty of men pay for sex indirectly by buying expensive stuff to show off to women in order to get their sexual attention.
 

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are you trying to disprove that? I said lots of losers have "gf" doesnt make them succcessful. I have a gf right now but she is submissive is totally in my frame goes panic mode if she thinks she upsets me and cooks and makes me coffee on demand and ****s me whenever i want (she wants it more than me to the point where i have to push her off). But I was equally as happy single and was on my grind as a man.
Disprove what?
 

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That's really bad, which is why you used the sad faced emoji. Additionally, that can be very expensive.

Mostly every man pays for sex in one way or another. Plenty of men pay for sex indirectly by buying expensive stuff to show off to women in order to get their sexual attention.
How do you pay?
 

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It's OVER for 63%Cels.
Media conflating bachelorhood with loneliness. Same old shaming tactics.
 

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What I'm coming to realize is that as of recently, this is an extreme hype-topic. While people are discussing this issue here, many youtube content creators are instantly getting tens / hundreds of thousands of views by placing 10 minute videos on the topic and there are like a tonne of videos that have recently gone up. They are mainly saying the same talking points with some little variation here and there, yet are still all getting a crazy amount of views. Probably most of the viewers fit this category as most women are generally not interested in content that would put them on a guilt-trip. I think a month or two from now these views might become like hundreds of thousands to a million views depending on the presenter and how craftily they are presenting the topic.
 

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I’m not saying I judge a man by if he gets pu$$. My best friend is a literal incel. But I can see that many people do.
Yeah, and people used to judge others by the color of the skin, their gender , and other things… doesnt make it right though.
 

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