Michele said:
it is not a problem...they're stroking their ego knowing they turned you on... then you'll stroke your ego if they get turned on by it by them grinding harder.
if not... you'll go hope stroking something else... by yourself.
Well said, haha. I thought the point was to get hard... Honestly, while grinding only worry about what makes you feel good. The girl is trying to please you - that's why grinding happens, to please the guy.
This is the same reason sex goes bad for a lot of inexperienced people. They focus too much on pleasing the other person. If a girl is willing to grind (or have sex) with you, she wants _you_ to feel happy. Yeah you don’t want to rape the girl, but you need to learn to let go and let your natural feelings come.
phillylove said:
also, what are some tips you guys have for grinding with a chick? how do you initiate and what to do during?
Let me give you an example of the right way to do it if you'd like to grind:
HBDancing - Dancing in the crowed.
PhillyLove - Spots the girl and makes his way behind her while dancing.
HBDancing - notices, or doesn’t. No problem.
PhillyLove - grab the waist and push against her slowly.
HBDancing - pulls away or grinds...
See above on what to do during,
-fth
p.s. grinding with a girl you know is even easier, but I find a weird excitement in anonymous dancing.