Are Younger Women Choosing Older Men More Due to Recession?

[Jaylan]

No "research" neil. Everyone knows your penchant for strippers, and that thread I linked is recent. Its not like veterans on this forum have poor memory, but I thought Id highlight your typical behavior. So I took a couple clicks to find that recent thread of yours that I remembered.

As others have pointed out to you before in the past, you have a habit of bragging about your options...and then lashing out at whoever doesnt think these women are all that. Dude, if you are looking for a family why are you dating strippers so much? Thats a serious question. Because if your goal is a family, youre not gonna end up with a good stable wife by dating low quality women who work in the sex field.

All I am saying, is that if a family is your end goal, why waste time and money on dating strippers? If you really believe that your experience and resources make you a better option for younger women looking for more than a hookup, why dont you go out and find a truly quality women? Have you seen skinnyguys' recent thread? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=216449 If you want quality, stop placing so much focus on a womans age and looks. Look for the total package, or you will be disappointed.

What Ive noticed about you since I joined this forum, is that you spend a lot of time fixated on age. Youre always trying to compare yourself to younger men...always praising yourself, and putting them down (as if there arent competent successful young dudes out here). And at the same time, you place unnecessary value on the wrong women, while trying to woo them with money, and where has that gotten you? All together these things make you come off insecure. And this is honesty, not me trying to take a dig at you.

If you want a relationship that leads to marriage and a family...find a compatible high quality woman. Stop comparing yourself to young men, stop being blinded by a womans age and body, and stop trying to woo girls with your loot. Find a sexy, smart, and respectable gal that you click with.

Good luck.

 

[bigneil]

I agree with you here Jaylan, thanks.

 

[DonGorgon]

ummm duh.... the worse the economy get and the more male over population there is the high the value that women's vagina has and they can use it to get what everything they want and need form most some..

 

[skinnyguy]

Bigneil you don't want a wife, you want a 21 year old stripper for quick sex.

Yes older men have SMV but you're targeting gold diggers, so of course you'll get women who want your money. they are dating the 29 year old losers cause those guys are good looking and have an IDGAF mentality.

Ultimately if old guys want young women it comes down to beta bucks game. If you're down for it and she is too, then it's a great match.

 

[Poonani Maker]

No matter What the age however, my current one 27, WRAP that Sh!t up cause she gave me chlamydia from unprotected sex this past couple of months. I'm looking to bounce after that guys. On to the next one. In fact, I think I'm gonna lay of the pvssy for a while. She claimed to be "clean" claimed to be so good, so innocent goo goo gah gah, loves Football and knows more stats on players than I ever could or would want to or have time to. I'm cuttin her off. I had to go to the doctor and get a shot and meds tests. It's embarrassing. A lot of women don't Know if they have something cause they have no symptoms.

It's just not worth it and my T-levels are plummeting especially after this. So YOUNG dudes, get your sex while you are Young cause that's when you are the most horny. I just don't really givafvck anymore, yet I go on making money. Unless you know you're with a virgin and are not married and don't know for a fact her test results, Wrap It Up!

 

[bigneil]

Bigneil you don't want a wife, you want a 21 year old stripper for quick sex.

Yes older men have SMV but you're targeting gold diggers.

I'm not old until you can take me in a fight.

FACT: A man who is physically stronger and earns more is a better catch than a younger, prettier man. Men get better with age.

They are dating the 29 year old losers cause those guys are good looking and have an IDGAF mentality.

Ultimately if old guys want young women it comes down to beta bucks game.

False. I'm also good looking. It's not beta bucks if I'm hotter than you, even if I spend more than you.

Consider: I made two girls (ages 19 and 20) have a combined TEN orgasms (Girl A had 2, Girl B had 3 and Girl A had 5) before I eventually came. I think it's safe to say they like me.

Side note: Why do strippers tend to date losers? They want someone with no strings attached, being used to men throwing money at them with obligations involved.

 

[marmel75]

Nope...it's because they've realized we fvck better...especially the ones who are in shape, hit the gym and have high testosterone levels...best of both worlds, we fvck like champs for hours straight, AND we have the experience to know how to do things properly...

 

[The Duke]

I've had a lot of females tell me there are too many "men" out there acting like women and its a huge turn off! Imagine that.

-That 20-30 yo age group has been brought up watching tv shows that never had strong male characters to influence them. Just look at the music that generation listens to.

-They were the first ones to play on soccer/baseball teams where every one got a trophy. This has helped produce some of the biggest pussies there is.

-This is the first of the entitled generations.

-They needed counseling to get over the fact that Hillary lost!

-They grow beards to look manly. lol, more like a nerdy lumberjack that couldn't lift his axe if he even knew what one looked like.

-Dudes wearing skinny jeans....it doesn't get anymore feminine than this.

-Over half of this group grew up under a "SINGLE MOMMIES". They didn't have a dad to influence them and teach them manly things.

-They've been taught their entire life that every thing is dangerous and they should play it safe. Remember to wear your bicycle helmet!!!! This age group is where it all started.

I see so many "men" that lack passion, balls, drive, desire, dedication, and toughness. You live with your parents, don't even own a damn car and if you did you would struggle to change a flat tire. A bunch of you are fuhking pussies by standards set by previous generations. No wonder women don't want you.

 

[AttackFormation]

I've had a lot of females tell me there are too many "men" out there acting like women and its a huge turn off! Imagine that.

-That 20-30 yo age group has been brought up watching tv shows that never had strong male characters to influence them. Just look at the music that generation listens to.

-They were the first ones to play on soccer/baseball teams where every one got a trophy. This has helped produce some of the biggest pussies there is.

-This is the first of the entitled generations.

-They grow beards to look manly. lol, more like a nerdy lumberjack that couldn't lift his axe if he even knew what one looked like.

-Dudes wearing skinny jeans....it doesn't get anymore feminine than this.

-Over half of this group grew up under a "SINGLE MOMMIES". They didn't have a dad to influence them and teach them manly things.

-They've been taught their entire life that every thing is dangerous and they should play it safe. Remember to wear your bicycle helmet!!!! This age group is where it all started.

I see so many "men" that lack passion, balls, drive, desire, dedication, and toughness. You live with your parents, don't even own a damn car and if you did you would struggle to change a flat tire. A bunch of you are fuhking pussies by standards set by previous generations. No wonder women don't want you.

So you blame them for turning out the way their parents (the foundation of humanity), or more accurately lack of any as you noted, raised them. With reasoning like that from the people who are supposed to guide them it's no wonder they're fvcked up.

 

[The Duke]

So you blame them for turning out the way their parents (the foundation of humanity), or more accurately lack of any as you noted, raised them. With reasoning like that from the people who are supposed to guide them it's no wonder they're fvcked up.

I guess you can do something about it, or sit here and cry/blame.

 

[AttackFormation]

I guess you can do something about it, or sit here and cry/blame.

lol, you're the one crying over and blaming the millennial generation. Whatever makes you feel like a man I guess.

 

[The Duke]

lol, you're the one crying over and blaming the millennial generation. Whatever makes you feel like a man I guess.

No, you missed my point. I made an assessment of the current situation and how/why things might have ended up there. I called it like it is!

 

[Who Dares Win]

I believe both Howie and Attack have a point.

Those aged 20-30 are pvssies in most of the cases myself included cause Im just out from that group but still close to it.

Of course we have been pvssified from movies, society and our own parents (those lucky enough to have a dad at home) and of course school the main stone of the system.

The difference comes when your gut signal you that something is broken, something doesnt work and needs to be fixed.

At that point you either recognize the problem and act to fix it against society and culture or in order to keep being approved (or believe the illusion of it) you keep living like that.

Do you guys believe that explosion of martial arts classes, gym and steroids or suburban thug cultures are random and not a precise answer to that?

The same manosphere is basically a bif fvck off to a certain system, we are a big fvck off to a system the same moment we realize something is unfit and we decide to improve it in clear conflict with what we are told.

Older men didnt have the same crappy starting point us younger ones have so often they cant realize why some guy simply cant make it or decides to stay in the matrix.

An exaple, you guys had twisted sisters "we aint gonna take", we have bruno mars "marry you"...

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

From what I continue to see amongst people my age, is that almost everyone is dating someone within 5 years of their age. Sometimes the man is older, and sometimes the woman is older. I have not see any difference in this since high school. Theres a few people I know here and there who date outside of the 5 year range, but most keep it within a few years. And some folks I know go through a phase of trying out an older fling before going back to mainly people their age. Makes sense though, since most of us tend to relate better to our contemporaries.

Maybe its where I live, but I usually just see young people around other young people. And with regards to finances, I never think of older guys as competition because I see more than enough available young women. And I dont date chicks who put heavy stock in that. If an older dude wants to use cash as a way to lure in young girls...let him do it as I dont like that type of gal anyways. I date women who are attracted mostly by my personality and fitness. Let people use whatever their best attribute is to their greatest advantage.

That all said, I know plenty of guys in their 20s doing just fine cash wise.

This guy gets it!

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

From what I have seen, most attractive women from the age of 18-22 are dating higher value guys of their own age. The general rule among hot girls is that the vast majority of them value how they are perceived by their peers and social circles. As a result of this, a lot of hot girls almost exclusively go for higher value guys of their own age. Your typical co-ed with good looks is going to go for a guy on a sports team or a fraternity who is around her age well before she even thinks about going for some handsome investment banker outside of her age group.

People say "p*ssified" and how younger guys aren't masculine enough, does not mean a thing, the pretty boy with male model looks is having way more sex than you can imagine.

Now occasionally you might get a girl who has tough time making friends and doesn't really fit in with others her age, she isn't going to care about popularity like most hot girls do and older guys have a chance here. So while an older guy has no chance with some hot party girl in a sorority, he has a chance with a college girl who just doesn't want to make friends or fit in as much.

What people don't get is that a lot of hot girls come from families that are at least middle class, they don't need money, their parents have plenty of it. These girls crave excitement and climbing the social ladder, a popular guy of their age brings them that opportunity.

 

[bigneil]

From what I have seen, most attractive women from the age of 18-22 are dating higher value guys of their own age... These girls crave excitement and climbing the social ladder, a popular guy of their age brings them that opportunity.

Hot women who are 21 are dating "successful" men who are 21?? You mean weed dealers? Women climb the "ladder" with guys their age?? You can't be serious. This is more absolute, utter, Feminist BS.

This sounds like it's being written by a woman who is about 32 (women who are about 30 indeed want a man their age. Or perhaps it's being written by a 21 year old man who lives with his mom but got that landscaping job. Women who are 20 absolutely do not want men who are 20. 25 maybe).

Working Example: In November I made out with eight girls whose ages were:

20,19,48,21,25,22,23,21 (Average age 25. I'm 46).

 

[bigneil]

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This guy (Jaylan) gets it!

Indeed they are the same person. EyeBRollin, is that you? Jesus. Hillary lost, a-hole. Here we have real men banging extremely young p*ssy. See Donald and Melania (25 year age difference). Deal with it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

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Indeed they are the same person. EyeBRollin, is that you? Jesus. Hillary lost, a-hole. Here we have real men banging extremely young p*ssy. See Donald and Melania (25 year age difference). Deal with it.

We can hit them, and they may "play" with us. But a lot of times they do end up going back to like they said a 5 year age gap for a relationship. So they can relate more with their peers.

I did my research though and like 20% of marriages are age gaps of 10 years or greater. Of course if you are the older, you should be physically fit, even attractive into her age range, have experience and some money.

Some women really do PREFER an older more experienced man.

 

[BeTheChange]

Statistics are going to be heavily skewed given that:

• Most older men who are high quality will already be hitched
• Men who are single into their 30s/40s are more likely to be the castaways who bring nothing to the table anyway
• Societal pressure to marry further reduces the pool of quality bachelors
• Societal pressure may force many single men to date women their own age
• Therefore older men who bring something to the table and have the balls to go after what they want (hot, younger women) are likely to be significantly underrepresented
• In conclusion, based on my observations and conversations with many of my female friends or lovers a 5 - 10 year age gap is actually desirable and a 10+ year age gap is only an issue if you make it one.

 

[bigneil]

Two types of men who aren't married by 40

1) Men who can't get any girls.
2) Men who can.

The vast majority are in the former category. The lone wolves in the latter category are very rare but you should strive to become one.

Marriage is to allow Beta males to reproduce. Alpha males can literally go get other people's wives pregnant and let the betas raise them so they don't need to get married. But you need to get richer and richer to keep up as you get older. Make no mistake, your hourly rate will be directly proportional to the quality of the women who are willing to go out with you. From there, you still need to choose quality.