Since these
race baiting RETARD threads seem to be a hot topic here lately, I'm going to repost the truth about race and dating. I'll post this on every race thread from here on:
Your generalization of a large amount of men into separate groups is
obviously overly simplistic and thus makes your question a
fallacy in itself. I'm not calling you a liberal but liberals have made identity politics mainstream because it's convenient to lump groups of people together for easy thinking. However, this leads to the over simplification of problems or complex dynamics such as human relationships and interaction. Your identity or race is
NOT all you consist of. Therefore the question - '
which race is viewed as most attractive?' Cannot be answered without sounding like a moron. Considering that fact, if we look at men as
individuals we run across the same laws of attraction that are
universal.
There is more to dating women than race. Are there women that date men just because they're black or white? Sure, just like they're women that date a man just because he's 6'4. However, these women are in the
minority. The
major points when it comes to dating for
anyone are:
- How attractive you are
- Your social status/class
- Shared interests
- Proximity
- Shared social groups
- Cultral barriers
As you can see there are many layers to dating and relationships that don't fall under "which race he is." How these variables align determine the women you sleep with.
If a guy's looks are a 10, by default his pool is
NOT extremely limited regardless of his race, As he's attractive -- making him high value -- thus,
scarce. Given the right proximics and basic knowledge of game he can date
virtually anyone.
If a guy is ugly, his social circle is small, he's an introvert and socially odd, the only women who will sleep with will be similar to him in those aspects. Therefore,
he WON'T be killing it.
This is not to mention the men who kill it in niche
social spheres:
-The anime nerd who sleeps with tons of women at comicon and anime expos
-The thrasher skater guy who sleeps with goth punk chicks
-The rich rave guy who grew up in the burbs and is the life of parties filled with rich middles class and drugs.
'But Smoove, those are personal, individual scenarios. I'm talking as a WHOLE!'
Which is exactly my point. There isn't a way to categorize races into groups. Everything depends on
individuals and circumstance. There could be any given reason guy is killing it and the other is not. There are too many variables to just attribute it to race. It is
NOT entirely race dependent.
That's why the white guys always tell minorities to improve yourself because that is actually the
only thing you can do.
This is not to say race is a non-factor. It's that it's just not THE factor. Race can be taken into account on an INDIVIDUAL level. However, to have an accurate analysis, the other relationship factors must be included.
Rather then viewing race as the
end all be all. How about you take a look at the
MAJOR dating factors and see how you allign and where you need work.
- How attractive are you?
- Where do you stand socially/economically?
- What do your interests consist of?
- Are you an extrovert or introvert?
- Are you tall, in shape or hold some other form of physical status?
- Do you carry yourself and dress well?
- How many people do you know/how large is(are) your social group(s)?
- How many women are you around?
- Are you socially inept?
- What race are you? How is your race viewed? Is it a disadvantage
Upon answering these questions honestly to yourself you where find where you are strong and where you need work.
NOTE:
I originally made this post pertaining to black, however, with the removal of 'black' & 'White' it still was relevant to the current conversation. Which, again, sort of proves my point
