apodyopsis's bootcamp journal

[TurboLover]

Good to see that things are going like they should. You can never have too many numbers.

Let us know how it turns out. Pimp it up and Mack it down. And remember to slang that dang on her and put some stank on it.

 

[MrCode]

Again, you are doing really well man.

You are becoming an inspiration for the rest of us trainees to step up and make sure we don't drop the ball in our own boot camps (much to your surprise I'm sure.)

Hopefully we can all have the same kind of success.

 

[apodyopsis]

update

man, was today fun... . theres this huge fair every year where i live, and this just happened to be the perfect time to go. it wasnt too crowded, live music was great, rides were awesome, food was awesome (elephant ears, a whole pound burger, fries) but most of all, i was walking around having a blast with a gorgeous female... but its not so much her looks, or how nice her body was that made it such a great evening, i just handled it well. i slowly started more kino throughout the day, and i got good responses. she didnt seem opposed to being right up against my body while waiting in line for a ride, and she was grabbing me and pulling me around, like to a game she wanted to play... overall it was probably the best "first date" ive been on in my life, there was so much to do, talk and laugh about, and we just have a lot in common so it was great. we were teasing each other, and just fully enjoying ourselves. there was no kissing today, but shes a really shy girl and shes never had a boyfriend, so i didnt expect a high level of action, buts just a small hurdle. ive witnessed the libido of the female race, and once it kicks in its like all other brain functions. my last girlfriend in highschool was really against all things sexual, and made it obvious that she was NOT going to do anything like that in highschool. well, after a little time, heavy making out / petting, she got so into it and SHE undid my zipper and ya, so much for that resolve dearest. just saying this to make a point, dont let shy girls or girls who are against sexual things (such as if u want 2 seduce an innocent little christian girl) turn u off, just gotta get that spark goin. so anyway, i couldnt have been more pleased with the day or my performance today. i led the conversations like a pro, only talking about 35-40% of the time, letting her talk about herself and everything. her friend called and was probably teasing her about being out with me alone, and she talked to me briefly, asking what my intentions were with her, and to keep my hands to myself, but i know her so it wasnt serious or anything. (i can actually use this to my advantage down the road but ill explain later) so ya, turns out they;ve been talking about me, her friend thinks im really cute, and said i was funny, outgoing and "wild," so that was an awesome confidence booster. anyway, next time i see her friend, shes going to ask me serioulsy what my intentions are, and im just going to say "i want her" or something along those lines. now, this will get back to my date and she wont believe her since she exagerates a lot, and ill play it off, while telling her friend all these naughty thigns im going to do to her. normally i dunno if this would be a good idea, but i know her friend and she does make a big thing out of everything and i know my date wouldnt fully believe her. but ya, thats pretty much it. i need to go workout tomorrow, way to much junkfood today. i have a few more dates to set up, and if i can # close anyone i will, but ill be busy for a lil while, so well see what happens. im definitely calling her again, but not tonight or for a few days. i seriously am a busy guy, and theres sooooooo many girls out there... so many girls, so little time

and thx for the replies, everyone. im glad i can offer some inspiration, but if u need a good dose of that, go read WALDENS! thats what got me goin

 

[OldNumb3r7]

Snap man! Way to DJ it.........great job

 

[apodyopsis]

alright, so i WAS suppose to go out again today, but turns out i have some flu-like cold, and i just slept for most of the day. my health is important to me, especially since i have a big day coming up wednesday, so my #1 priority right now is to get better. i feel like an ass for canceling on the girl, but hey, what can i say? its important that im not sick wednesday, so i did what i had to do. nothing else to update really, i rescheduled my would-be outing down the road a little, and she said that would be fine, so not much of a loss. wish i was healthy, after such a great night yesterday i was looking foward to another, but other things in my life take priority. this is my bodies way of punishing me for all that junk food i had yesterday... i think ill be up and running tomorrow, but i think ill take it easy again, but ill be sure to set up another date if i can fit it in my schedule.

 

[Pulsar]

Congrats on your progress dude, it sounds like you're really doing it!!! You already got numbers and dates and everything, well done and keep the momentum rolling dude

I think this stuff is meant to be automatic and that you do for the rest of your life

I really should start a BC as well

 

[apodyopsis]

update

alright, so i took the day off, and decided to go to the gym since its been a few weeks and i want to stay in shape. so anyway, since ive been doing this bootcamp, i havent realy been working out accept for maybe the first couple weeks. now, its not the bootcamps fault i havent had time to workout, its just almost everything else in my life. anyway, like i said i went ot the gym today, and its been a while since ive been there. since ive done this bootcamp, ive gone through a big change, and today it hit me. now, u need a membership card to get in, and normally u have to wait for a guy to scan your card. well, the 2 workers there were locked in a conversation apparently, and i knew i wouldnt get my card scanned right away, and would either ahve to wait or just walk through. anytime before in my life, i would awkwardly just stand there, waiting for them to notice me and scan my card. but thanks to the bootcamp, ive become more outgoing and all these other improvements have surfaced as well, and i just didnt give a $#@& and walked right past them without giving them a second thought. all i remember thinking was "they arent paying attention, its not worth my time standing around like an idiot" and walked right past them without a care in the world. the old me would have just waited, paranoid that id get in trouble if i walked past without them scanning my card. so, as im getting ready to start, it hit me... that was so unlike me, and yet it was completely natural. this plague of being timid and caring what other people think is finally going away. i also got a haircut, and its been about a month since ive been there, and it was just so much easier to talk to people.

today it just hit me how im gradually changing, and its still in its baby stages. got 4 more weeks left, and im looking foward to all the good times, and all the bad times that are to come.

now, lets talk about my female exploits for the day, altho small its worth mentioning

the whole scaning thing is awesome, or at least it has been so far. if u dont know waht im talking about, read earlier posts in this BC. so ya, it just totally throws them off balance and immediately the balls in your court. its funny, most girls will just stand there, straighten their backs and press their breasts out as far as they can, or do SOMETHING, because they know their gettin checked out. theres no words to describe how much i love this. a simple 2-3 second "scan" and they go through a huge change in body language, saying "look at my luscious girls, do you want them?" to answer that, i do, so gimme ur number so i can get acquainted with them.

now, today i could have number closed on a girl, but she was only about a 6 and didnt strike me as being overly intelligent. i love smart cute girls, or non-stupid hotties. she didnt fit into either department, and she didnt seem to be worth my time, but i used it as an opportunity for practice like usual. started with the "scan," her response, popped out chest and smiled, and said hi. well, i said hi first, then "scanned", dont just gawk and womens breasts, its just an overall body checkout, let them know ur checking them out thats all, no stalker-pervert looks. anyway, i was getting my haircut, but it as crowded, and that right there was the icebreaker, and some blah blah blah later theres your conversation. but she didnt entertain me very well, some girls i just click better with so once my name was called i said it was nice talkin 2 you, and proceeded to get my ears lowered. i noticed some glances, especially as i was leaving, but sorry dear, not today. i gave her a warm smile and a cya tho, i dont like being an a$$hole if i have no reason to be. thats pretty much it for today, no cuties at the gym... but ive been making decent progress so far, and theres still much to do. dates to set up, girls to seduce, and just people to meet. oh, and i know ur all wondering... my haircut was actually good for once


oh, and thx Pulsar and every1 else who takes the time to read reply, im glad im not just talking to myself with all these posts

 

[apodyopsis]

well, wednesday is finally past so i can get back to bc. theres not much to say really, but i dont want it to slip into oblivion so ya. only thing worth mentioning today was there was an attractive girl i have class with sitting by her car and she waved me over to say hi, but then her feminine guy friends came over and did a great job of ****-blocking. i wasnt gunna make the mistake of hanging around hoping for osmething to develop, and i had things to do so i got outa there. i would have number closed, but i already have it, n we went out monday night. it was alright, but lately ive just been drained of my spirits/energy cause ive been up late studying my ass off. theres this big luau thing coming up this weekend i plan to go to, all you can eat hawaiin food with a show, and ill figure out somethin else out. thats about it for now... this has not been a good week for me, so hopefully things'l get a lil easier towards the end of the week

 

[apodyopsis]

alright, ive decided to only post once or twice a week when i have time, but ill cover anything worth mentioning. ive been fighting this #@$%& ass cold lately, but now im just coughing my lungs out

anyway, currently i have 2 girls with a high IL, and they are both so similiar its wierd. both are intelligent, fun and so far have shown they possess great personalities. The girl i went to the fair with is Jenna, and chick #2 is Tiffany. i have decided to use their names since it looks like ill be talking about them, and itl just make things easier.

i have one class with Tiffany, and thats going well. kino has been increasing, and she's been initiating some as well. we have a date set up for next week, since shes busy til then. she was free this sat, but i have other things to do this weekend (plus its not good to ALWAYS be free). i forecast some very unproductive study sessions in the future

and with Jenna, i keep getting signs of interest and kino back from her, but i havent had time to go out much. she definetely has potential. shes into the whole drama theatre thing, and she was asking me if i was gunna go watch *insert play name here* (ya ya, i forgot), since she has one of the major parts. i normally wouldnt go out of my way to watch a girl perform, but the shows dont start for another month so if things pick up and im not busy i might check it out.

now, with my cold and schedule, ive been extremely lazy this week with my BC progress. I let a few dates and a handful of numbers satisfy my desire to be more outgoing, and throw in a cold and ya, not much progress. my goal for this weekend is to just refresh the skills i improved on in the first few weeks. i got lazy and stoped saying hi and talking to strangers, but i had a couple random convos today since i realized this. all this needs to become a lot more natural, and that includes getting a few more numbers. currently 2 numbers are looking pretty inactive, so need to get some more. so ya, for the next couple days im going to focus on refreshing eye-contact, his, random convos and talking to any attractive girl possible, number closing when possible. im kinda mixed up on where i should be in the bootcamp (which reminds me i need to get some more rejections) so we'll just say im in week 5. i know i should be almost done by now, but hey, progress is progress.

oh, also going clubbin next weekend to just forget about everything and have fun.

 

[apodyopsis]

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip186.htm



this should definetely be apart of the bootcamp... i hate that awkward moment at the end of the first date, the "good bye kiss." first kisses should either be out of romance or seething lust. this just by-passes that awkward situation and sets ya up for lust... testin this out next chance i get

thot this was worth bringin up, might help the other people doin bootcamps

 

[Seraph]

Slick tip mate, and nice to see things are going well for ya.

 

[apodyopsis]

alright, back again. ive been keeping up with the hi, hello, hey, nice shoes wanna $#%@ thing (well, maybe not the last one) and its definetely helping. i was buying a pineapple the other day (dont ask) and was standing in line, and this asian girl was in front of me. she had a killer body n a round firm butt... im more of an @ss man then a chest man, but of course i appreciate a fine pair of "girls". anyway, normally this would have caught me off guard and naturally my confidence woudl drop a couple points. well, for some reason i was feeling great n i guess the fact i was holding just a pineapple in my hand was grounds for her to strike up a conversation. now, i dunno why i # closed, (actually i do, read above) but she said she had a bf, actually showed me the pictures. now, she said this, yet she was the one who started talking n flirting to me, did the whole *laugh rub up against ur body* thing, and yet played the bf card. normally i would have replied with "so, dump him. im better looking then he is anyway" or one of the other replies ive picked up on htis site, but i have weak moments n ended it there.

aside from that, ive only closed a couple times, and most of it isnt worth mentioning. im still seein the 2 girls i mentioned earlier, so we'll see how that goes. goin clubbin this weekend, n seein Tiffany tomorrow. Jenna has nicknamed me naked-boy, and with her things are definetely more sexual. but i have a lot in common with tiffany, but shes a bit more timid, BUT shes gotten a lot more friendly since were gettin to know each other better. ive gone out with one other girl, but compared to tif and jenna shes not worth the time. now, i can barely keep my eye open so ill wrap it up. if i have time 2morrow ill lay out my plans for BC progression, since ive been stuck in like limbo, and have a couple other things to do on the boards, so until next time guys...

 

[apodyopsis]

somethings not right... i just had what shoudl have been a blast tonight, but right now i just feel dissapointed and let down. b4 i say more, let me give a summary of my evening

went out on my first dinner "date" in a while. it was this nice place on the water, went with a few other people. overall dinner was alright, i pigged out n we all had fun. i was fortunate enough to get my hands on a lexus is-300 for the night, and that was fun. my friend had his car so we were haulin @ss on the freeway, but thats where it started. Tiffany was having a blast, an inline-6 can really go, but something wasnt right... this was something i used to love, but maybe im just growing out of it. (you wuld think the accident wuld have knocked it out of my system, but even after i enjoyed a good ride once in a while.) well, after we broke every traffic violation possible, we hit up a good club. this is where it hit me really... the music was good, the dancing was hot, sweaty and dirty... but while i was grindin, i realized i wasnt enjoying myself...

now that bothered me. why the hell wouldnt i enjoy having a chick grinding on the goods? something was just completely off...

anyway, we decided to take a break, and my friend's date (whom i know a little) saw how sweaty i was n she was like "did you do THAT to him?" she just smiled that sexy girl smile only the females can do n said ya. but somehow, i was dissapointed with the evening. i think i need a break from tif, or maybe i just need some fresh numbers or somethin. I have way more fun with jenna, but i guess it wouldnt hurt to have a back-up girl to keep me entertained. all i know is, i didnt really enjoy tonight for some reason, when i had every reason in the world to. a few months ago a day like this would have put me on top of the world... i dunno, maybe i just had an off night, i was tired or something??? i cant really think right now, im exhausted. any1 else just have days where their not in it?

anyway, ill brood over this later, n any insight would be appreciated.

 

[apodyopsis]

hey, im actually in like week 6

alright, so i read ahead a couple weeks n apparently im in week 6 right now. turns out that u get 2 weeks to complete 5 and 6, so im not too far off. heres a list of things ive completed and now can do with a good ammount of confidence, minus the 10 rejections, i only got like 6 but thatl go up with time, dont worry

1) We practiced displaying confidence by looking people in the eye, and then saying a simple "Hi" to strangers.

2) We initiated conversations with strangers, and later on we initiated conversations with girls we would like to date.

3) We went out and gathered ten rejections, and in the process got some phone numbers.

4)We worked on calling up the girls whom we acquired the numbers to, and set-up, and went on first dates. In the process, we also worked on ways to increase the girls' interest level in us.

so, week 6 is about going out again and practicing kino, neg-hits, kiss-closing and get a couple more numbers. sounds do-able. got 2 set up for this weekend, and tomorrow ill set one up for friday. i know its not good to always do things on the weekend, like it clearly states on the bootcamp, but i dont have time during the week, and this weekend im fortunate enough to have free so i can spend time with the ladiez

and regarding my last post, i thought about what the hell happened, and i think i got it sorted out. the point of this bootcamp is just to finish it, and eventually go out with a good number of females. i sort of lost sight of that, and just because i was in the BC mode i figured i had to go out with this girl, but thats not the main focus right now. shes still an "active" number of course, but i still have a lot of work to do so i cant give her TOO much time.

this weekend should be interesting, 3 dates in 2 days... i dunno how im gunna pull that off, but it sounds like fun to me. saturday morning im goin out 2 breakfast with Jenna, n will probably kill a couple hours afterwards, but i said im busy in the evening (just left out the other girl when i was explaining this) which i will be... so that should be interesting. ill be sure to post about at least one date at the end of the week, so wish me luck!

i think im finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel, but ill share all this if i ever finish... honestly i almost quit today, but i made a commitment and i vowed if i said im gunna do something i will. and im glad i looked at the BC again, since i figured out where i am and what i need to be working on. so, heres to the last couple weeks of bootcamp...

 

[apodyopsis]

whew, what a weekend

things couldnt have gone better, just one thing stuck out in my head

"apodyopsis, your so full of yourself *roll eyes*"

now, when my date said this i wasnt overdoing it or anything, and i know were supposed to be a lil ****y and arrogant so im not concerned, it was more of an eye-rolling comment. its hard transitioning away from nice-guy territory, so this comment spawned my nice-guy alarm, saying "oh no, she thinks were mean!" or something pathetic like, but i successfully beat that thought down so no worries

today jenna called, n squeezed a 20 min conversation out of me, but i looked at the time n was like "time to go!" so i said it was getting late and i had to study a little before iwent to bed (which i did). she was like "no, apodyopsis, you cant go!!" in that cute girl way (im learning shes a very cute individual), but i gave her the bad news n that was that. its hard fighting that urge to talk for an hour, especially since i can with her. dont even have to ask any open-ended questions, it just flows, but we all know what happens when you talk for hours on the phone everyday. ive noticed a good spike in interest level in her since im not always available, and phone converations are kept at a minimum, so thats no reason to stop.

other then that, theres not much to say. jenna is the only girl ive gone out with more then once, so the couple firsts i had this weekend were alright. good evenings are becoming average, but i cant expect too much from a first "date." its hard to compare girls i barely know to a possible LTR, but i still have a while to weigh my options. i really need to make my first dates more sexual, at this rate ill have to put in way too much effort to get anywhere.

my goal for my next outing: DONT SPEND MONEY, and ACTION

i am freakin broke, so im goin somewhere thats economically friendly. not that i try and do expensive things in the first place, but 10$ here and there adds up pretty quick

either that, or i need to rob a bank... its sad, i saw in the newspaper some1 i used to go to HS with assisted in a bank robbery... who the hell tries that in the 21st century???

and, like i mentioned above, i need to up the physical aspects, since ill be setting up a couple 2nd dates and of course, theres Jenna, but i cant always rely on her for a good time.

oh, and 1 more thing, now that ive squared away all the insurance crap with the car accident, im free to spend the money i got back on a new car, so check out the 2 cars im considering


http://www.veracom.com/pic02_20_04/02_c230_orblu_P2321.jpg

im not a fan of the butt of the car, but everything else is pimp

http://www.acura.com/images/rsx/rsx_gall_img_13.jpg

now, the acura would be an 05, while the c230 would be like a 2001, so i have to think hard and make a decision. ive seen everything out on the market right now, and these are my top 2 pics. one used, one new. a new mercedes would beat out any rsx, but since its 4 years old i have to consider that aspect. but if i can find a used one in good condition, at a reasonable price, ill probably go that route. my new dj-mobiles, hopefully....

either way tho, whatever i get it will be a huge improvement over the POS im driving right now. not that i plan to use my car to pick up chicks, itl just be a nice bonus when i pick them up. but ya, i still hvae my work cut out for me. i need go get a few numbers and not let jenna, car or a couple dates make me comfortable. still got a few weeks left, so until next time guys

 

[Walden]

Outstanding effort bro ! Enjoying this a lot

 

[apodyopsis]

thx walden, that means a lot comin from u, the whole reason i started this was because i read ur BC (and MAN was that long, lol, but it was worth the damage to my vision)



so ya, got another date set up thursday, and im proud its not on the weekend. this time its with jenna, and friday i got another with this cute lil asian girl. im taking saturday and sunday off because ill need the free time to study and just relax, and i seriously need to hit the gym and relax in a nice hot-tub...

today i seriously slacked in my BC effort, mainly because i had a bad case of insomni and couldnt sleep. throw in a couple nightmares about the accident that shoudl have killed me and ya, not a good nights sleep. i tried not to show my bad mood, but my body language wasnt the greatest so i regressed to my old comfort zone of just talking with my friends. been a while since ive had to do that, maybe i deserve a break! hah, nah, ive come a long way so cant do that anymore.

"sometimes you're in a good mood, sometimes your in a shtty mood , but you need to control your mind not have it control you"

i dunno where that quote came from, probably this site, and i can say that i FAILED today, but im in this to improve. i missed a perfectly good opportunity to get a girls number today, but ive pretty much designated today as a complete failure asides from setting up my 2 dates this weekend, but that didnt take much effort.

tomorrows another day, so ill get back out there n see what happens.

 

[apodyopsis]

today was awesome, ive adapted my usual "hey" to girls i semi-know to butt bumps as i walk by. it only failed once, and thats because when i was about to do it she like tripped a ltitle, and like fell right into me. she apologized a million times, and she gave me some kino, i was like "hmm, do girls knowabout this 2?"

but anyway, today i went out to grab a bite with this girl i have class with, but we ran a little late because of a test i had today. i miss the days when ur told every little thing u have to study for a test... i stayed up pretty late studying, and i felt confident i knew everything. when exam day rolls around, the questions are like nothing u studied, and im like "WTF."

lunch was great tho, she grabbed my hand and we ran to inside b4 we missed the lunch specials. once inside theres not much worth pointing out, but i did get a lil make-out action so that was a good change.

got a date 2morrow night as well, goin to see a movie (my first movie date in like 4 months?) and were gunna go try on costumes for fun n probably some ice-cream after. its good to act like a kid, plus its always a good thing to show off my body by wearing a tight spiderman costume, and im sure i wouldnt mind seein a girl in a wonder-woman or princess leia bikini

goin out with jenna again wednesday, im looking foward to that the most, but im not letting her get all my attention. this is just too much fun right now. i know eventually if things continue like this it will develop into a relationship, but right now im good, no guilty conscience.

and since ive been spending too much of my free time with girls, im gettin up early for a healthy game of football with the guys. grass stains, tackling and getting kneed in the stomach... gotta love it.

 

[Seraph]

Good stuff man, good stuff

 

[apodyopsis]

yesterday was alright, saw a movie n dined at the dollar menu at mcdonalds (i am so broke right now) but we had fun at mcdonalds. i tried dragging her in the slide/play-pen thing they had, but one of hte workers yelled at us since we were "too big" or some bull like that. neway, after that we walked around the docks n enjoyed the scenery. i think ill keep this girl around for a while, she seems really down to earth.

but while i was thinking, i realized why the dads of my past girlfriends never really liked me. from the first day, the moms like fell in love, but the dads, THAT was a whole different story. i could never figure out why, but today it hit me. they dont want u with their daughters cause they know what were thinking. see, when you first meet the father and shake his hand, whatever you say is translated to "hello, i would like to get into your daughters panties and do naughty things to her all night long." a lil off topic i guess, but hey, at least i know why dads just kind of coldly accept my existence.


i only have one date set up next week, and thats with jenna, but ill try and set up another if i have more time. ive been keepin up the hi thing to strangers n tryin to talk to every1 i can, but lately ive noticed people have been less responsive. maybe its the cold weather?

thats all for a few days, i might get a new dj-mobile monday or tuesday, just in time for my wed. date, so that will be awesome. im definetely going to be in a great mood