I'd like to chip in my own few drops of testosterone about prostitution/escorts.
Thinking that it is for losers and chumps who can't get laid, is a misconception. Sure, chumps and losers often resort to such women.
However, escorts are attractive women who enjoy sex and who have decided to market this asset in exchange for finance. Yeah, sure, the money bit is perhaps the downside.
But think of this: an escort means you get a girl who is really attractive (you can even pick out the one you really like) and she'll be open to do a lot more sexually than most regular women are up for. In fact, because they like sex, they're ALWAYS comfortable with themselves sexually and know a hell of a lot more about pleasing you than a regular woman does. With an escort, you don't have to worry about getting your fix because your girl's a bit unsure of herself. She doesn't need to be told to try stuff. She doesn't just lay there waiting for things to come. She takes the initiative. Plus, there's no drama and no desire for relationships. No strings you're not looking for.
An escort is a FB you pay for. Period. Why do you think there's the saying
"Men want a woman who's a freak in the sack, a cook in the kitchen and a mother to his children".
Why is that, ladies?
Hahaha! Society always uses this type of expression to shame men in their desires, while it should be the women who say it who
really need to take that saying to heart and learn to be SEXUAL instead of being some semi-frigid ice queen. Funny how healthy sexual behaviour and appetites in men are used today to excuse the childish, impaired and frustrated upbringing of women and wussies, eh?
Anyway! Escorts.
I think escorts are ideal for the Man/DJ who can't get enough of women, sex, and who wants to try out a lot of sexual stuff with someone relaxed and knowledgeable about sex and herself, and who doesn't want to deal with female drama or unwanted strings. Or a Man/DJ who wants to be really satisfied for a change without having to constantly think about not freaking out or directing the woman he's with. In other words: not having to deal with a woman's sexual issues and insecurities. Somtimes that's very relaxing for a change.
I haven't been with an escort yet, but considering the drama a lot of women bring, I'm more and more tempted to try out paying for sex that
I like without the strings attachted. Just pay and play. Done. Perfect.
And note that I deliberately use the word "escorts". If you have a good agency, they are a class higher than prostitutes. They often look better, dress more classy, have better manners and education, etcetera. They know sex. They know pleasure. They know themselves. Of course you pay for that, so often they're for the man higher up. It's a downside if you don't have a lot to spend but a plus if you're relatively loaded. In fact, were I filthy rich, I'd probably stick with regular escorts for sex exclusively until I get desires of settling down with someone.
And as some have already put it: pretending that prostitution is bad, is just as much controlling nonsense as the church trying to regulate when you can and cannot have sex. Societal conditioning. Shaming tactics. Manipulation. Take your pick.
There is no shame in paying for something you want: a good, gratifying, fulfilling sexual experience. You don't feel bad about buying that fancy sports car, do you? Or do people shame you for going the easy route and not building it yourself? Well?
By the way STR8UP, your statement:
If sex WASN'T an economic exchange in most cases, then women would always put out on the first date, when they really WANT to fukk. There would be none of this "make him wait" crap. Why do you think it's such a game? Because sex is CURRENCY, like it or not.
was once again confirmed this Sunday night.
The girl I was intimate with had in advance really decided to not have sex with me, because it was more or less our first date after we had seen eachother on a non-date basis three times. Yet I gave her a good time for two, three hours, going further and further down and after she had her fix (twice), she was all wax in my hands and wanted me inside (yeah, she was a bit of a though nut to crack). After we were done and she was melting blissfully in my arms, she told me about her initial non-intentions and said:
"I never do this so soon, honest. But you know, maybe that's what society has engrained into me, not to be "easy". You were so wonderful... I feel so safe, so accepted, I don't regret giving in to my desire tonight."
Really now? I hadn't thought about that. You're quite perceptive.
(I guess this is because she's quite smart and also studies psychology.)
Then we went at it again for another four hours. And again when we woke up in the morning. No obstructions on these occasions. Followed by a nice sexy shower together. I'm probably all good for some repeat action in a few days, as she texted me the evening after, saying that her head was still spinning and that she wanted to see me again really soon.
Very smart of you again, little missy.
There IS an economy of sex. Sex is the currency for PLEASURE, gentlemen. Pleasure. Provide enough pleasure and sex will be invested in you. Paid, in other words.
This is the difference between most people and Men/DJ's: most people believe THEY have to invest or pay this pleasure, in order to get the commodity they want (sex). But a Man/DJ knows: the one receiving his pleasure is really the buyer. So, you invest a little pleasure as a sample and the buyer of pleasure will be convinced that you are sincere and worthwhile of her investment and pay YOU with sex. And once you invest that little sample once, YOU get paid multiple times in a row without hesitation, like any enthousastic investor or satisfied customer would.
Sex as currency reversed. And as such, power to Men who think like this. Let those women think they carry the commodity we have to buy. They really don't know that they're the ones paying us.
However, no matter what belief you prefer to adhere to, eventually you always exchange sex for pleasure. So if you're not in the mood for pleasing, don't want to do your investment research or just want to be selfish for a change, then there's no shame in investing cold hard cash in the pleasure
you really want. The only difference is the nature of the currency and the time it takes for the transaction to take place.
