I actually agree with most things you say. And college can't fire you. Nothing wrong with upgrading yourself , and be around women at the same time. But that's the thing; that's completly different from doing it just because there are women. Kinda like the infamous topic about joining a yoga club as man.
I just think its funny I used to think EXACTLY like that. The mayor difference is nowedays I do thing more because it's about ME , and not about women. It should all be about YOU as a man .
I have known two different kinds of alumni after college and one has success while the other kind does not.
Type 1 is the guy who is past the age of 25, already graduated college, and is trying to game on college campuses and fit in with that crowd. I knew extreme examples of pickup guys that got kicked off of campus and even made a name for themselves in local reddits because of this. The reality is most good looking college women prefer to sleep with popular guys on campus, usually frat guys and athletes. College is every bit, if not more, social status heavy than high school. We used to laugh at alums back in my college days who would still stay in the college town. These are the same dudes who try to bro it out with frat guys after college and embarrass themselves in the process. Ship has sailed my guy, let it go.
Then you have the other kinds of guys who happen to live a lifestyle that puts them in touch with college girls. One good example is in NYC when guys who work at big firms often have college interns coming there for the summer, they usually smash. Same with any guy in a big city that games a lot, you will run into interns in the summer who smash. These guys do not want college girls or that lifestyle, its just that their life is so cool that college girls often go to them by virtue. To them, these guys represent that cool older guy they want to connect with after college.
The latter in happy in his life and does not even want college girls but they want him.