Anyone ever hit up the Club alone ??

[TxCowboy]

Last week , I went down to a club by myself without my friends and found it to be a lot easier to pick up chicks. I wound up with several phone numbers, had plenty of fun dancing with the girls (since it was girls night out at the club), and didnt have to put up with all the drama. Anyone done the same thing ?

 

[bullmoose]

Always.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Every Friday.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

ive only been 3 times now, twice i was alone, and had a much better time, just by myself, as your there just to blow some steam and have a good time, whereas if you are there with a buddy, its a lil different since you keep each other company.

 

[Kleft]

hi guys,
im new to this and jesus christ i guess im straight into it...goin to clubs alone:crazy:
**** MAN !!!
no way dudes,jesus i cant even go up to a girl and start talkin to her,thats why im here.
any of you guys give me some advice,
really appreciate it man.
cheer

 

[ARK]

A guy I know went 3 times and each time he had a drink at the bar by himself. On each separate time a woman approached him and eventually wound up in the sack with him. Lucky guy.

 

[bullmoose]

Originally posted by Kleft

any of you guys give me some advice,
really appreciate it man.
cheer

I trust you've read the DJ Bible?

 

[onyx]

i was once out with the mates and lost them, so instead of going home early, i thought I would go on to 1 more place to have 1 more drink then go home. I got approached twice just stood on the side of the dance floor with my drink. I didnt end up copping off, because none took my fancy, but sometimes its better to be by yourself, even though I would never go clubbing by myself I just don't feel comfortable going out, I'd feel like a loner.

 

[Caldus]

Originally posted by onyx
i was once out with the mates and lost them, so instead of going home early, i thought I would go on to 1 more place to have 1 more drink then go home. I got approached twice just stood on the side of the dance floor with my drink. I didnt end up copping off, because none took my fancy, but sometimes its better to be by yourself, even though I would never go clubbing by myself I just don't feel comfortable going out, I'd feel like a loner.

Yeah I've been feeling the same way about it. Plus I hear a lot of girls who go to clubs are just there to have a good time and not looking to hook up or anything. So I figure what's the point? Try somewhere else.

 

[So Many Ways]

I've done it 3 times. Twice I did it when I drove to Vegas by myself on the spur of the moment and I partied solo both nights. I was there for 2 nights and I hit the clubs solo mission each night. Both nights I met women but couldn't close the deal (f-close). I ended up making out with them but that's as far as it got.

The other time I did it was 7 months ago, I went to a club close to my house on a rare Saturday night off. I made myself approach but I didn't get any digits that night.

It feels weird at first but after a while, it's not a big deal, after you've relaxed and had a couple of drinks. Plus if you're by youself, you are forced to talk to strangers. I do enjoy being out with my friends a lot more though.

 

[Iceberg]

Originally posted by Caldus
Yeah I've been feeling the same way about it. Plus I hear a lot of girls who go to clubs are just there to have a good time and not looking to hook up or anything. So I figure what's the point? Try somewhere else.

To most girls in our age range, hooking up IS having a good time. That's something most guys don't understand. They are out at the club, dressed up with their boobs hanging out of their shirts so guys will notice them and sweep them off their feet. They're out to have fun. You can help them have fun by helping yourself have fun.

 

[TxCowboy]

Yeah , the way i figure it is ... the less CB's there are , the better ... Also its easier at the end of the night if you are able to head back to their place or yours. At least you dont have to worry about taking one of the buddies back home ....

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

solo man

I do too.
My strategy is to get there a bit late, say 10:30 or 11:00 when the place is packed, that way I don't get nearly as drunk as I would otherwise. I find it easier to drift in and people watch for a while anyway.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Unless I have competent wingmen with me, I go it alone. A couple of time I come meet some other DJs at the club and we form a impromptu wing. That's a lot of fun since you don't really know the other guys but yet you can BS women as if you've been friends forever.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

Always remember this.....

Always remember this....you are never alone....

From the time you pull up and get out the car and start 3 secondin women.....and even sayin what up to the guys, you begin to get responses.....then you are in the club, and you are 3 secondin some other girl, then another, then another, then you are dancin on the dance floor with a chick, then another, then another, then you pull her azz off the floor and then her to a quiet spot....you try to get her to leave the club...she wants to act all like she does not want to go, so we go pull another girl to the dance floor, then we leave wit her out the club, etc, etc...

My point is.....you are never alone.....why because you got out the car by yourself? Hell, people are thinking, hell he is a cool azz guy, he must be meeting someone up here......

Focus on havin a great time.......you ARE NOT alone....you got about 2500 friends all around you...- PvssyEater

 

[gbpackers]

now that was a good post ***** eater

 

[ikkenai]

I usually go with my wingman. I see him about three 5-minute periods throughout the course of the night. When it comes down to it, why don't I just go alone?

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

Originally posted by Caldus
Yeah I've been feeling the same way about it. Plus I hear a lot of girls who go to clubs are just there to have a good time and not looking to hook up or anything. So I figure what's the point? Try somewhere else.

WTF r u talkin bout. If u go to a ballgame to play ball and u happen to see J-lo out there with a couple of her chick friends, U think your gonna still be playing ball and not try to tap that.

Same thing with a chick at a party, who knows what she might be doing there, she may or maynot be lookin, Clubs and bars arn't the right place to look for a LTR anyway, but once u set the right mood and gauge her IL high enough, there's no possible way she's gonna reject. First impressions a *****, its not everyday u meet somone special.

 

[Fatality]

what do you guys say when they ask why you are alone?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Has a woman actually asked you that in a club and how would she have known?