Caldus
Senior Don Juan
I was asked that once. I just made the excuse that I was waiting for a friend to show up (which I really was at the time).
Anyone ever hit up the Club alone ??
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what do you guys think about going to non-dancing clubs alone?
ive done it once and there ended up being some guy acquantices that i more or less hung with, so it didnt really count
theres only country-western dance places around here
ive done it once and there ended up being some guy acquantices that i more or less hung with, so it didnt really count
theres only country-western dance places around here
BrWnSugaMan
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Interesting topic.
I recently went clubbing by myself and I had more fun than when I go with a group. I think it has something to do with less pressure when you go by yourself.
I recently went clubbing by myself and I had more fun than when I go with a group. I think it has something to do with less pressure when you go by yourself.
I went clubbing last 2 nights, here is some stuff that crossed my mind:
Clubbing solo is absolutely normal. When i go with friends, i dont see them around much anyway. It is difficult to find two girls who fit you both (size wise) and who are both good looking and not dancing with guys at the moment.
However, when there are girls like that, you wish you had someone else to take the other girl while you get her friend. (Unless you get in between them
)
Yesterday i went with a friend of mine. I saw him on the dancefloor for about 2 minutes.. the rest of the time he was somewhere else. He ended up leaving and the night actually picked up for me, i danced with more girls and better looking ones as well.
Today i went with two friends. The problem, like i said, is finding a girl who matches the size... one of my friends is 5"5, while the other one is 6"6... yeah, it is a b1tch.
I would recommend going alone and checking it out. The beautiful thing is you can leave whenever YOU want. Nobody is going to annoy you with "lets goooooo" when you are making out with a girl.
I'd like to off on a tangent here, since the last two nights made this a little more clear to me:
PICKING UP WOMEN IN CLUBS FOR ONS IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE. It is ****ing hard if you are looking for a pretty girl who isnt a slut. ( Oddly enough i could have laid 2 girls tonight ... looks werent there and i know sluts when i see em)
I've been clubbing for over 5 years, and i'll tell you, girl at 17-21 range are HARD TO LAY in the club. There are friends, there are boyfriends, and then there is "we are only here to dance".
I am almost to the point of saying fvck clubbing until i am 21. I dont enjoy it as much as i used to and grinding with hot girls plus RARELY a make out session is not worth it for me. Clubs are fun, but it is like I am getting sexually frustrated, almost like strip clubs...
I mean, guys, what's the point of going to clubs every week? To look at half naked women, to grind with 20 and not get anywhere? To MAY BE get some numbers?
Street approaches suddenly look much more attractive.
Yeah, im amazed Oxide is writing this as well...
Clubbing solo is absolutely normal. When i go with friends, i dont see them around much anyway. It is difficult to find two girls who fit you both (size wise) and who are both good looking and not dancing with guys at the moment.
However, when there are girls like that, you wish you had someone else to take the other girl while you get her friend. (Unless you get in between them
)Yesterday i went with a friend of mine. I saw him on the dancefloor for about 2 minutes.. the rest of the time he was somewhere else. He ended up leaving and the night actually picked up for me, i danced with more girls and better looking ones as well.
Today i went with two friends. The problem, like i said, is finding a girl who matches the size... one of my friends is 5"5, while the other one is 6"6... yeah, it is a b1tch.
I would recommend going alone and checking it out. The beautiful thing is you can leave whenever YOU want. Nobody is going to annoy you with "lets goooooo" when you are making out with a girl.
I'd like to off on a tangent here, since the last two nights made this a little more clear to me:
PICKING UP WOMEN IN CLUBS FOR ONS IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE. It is ****ing hard if you are looking for a pretty girl who isnt a slut. ( Oddly enough i could have laid 2 girls tonight ... looks werent there and i know sluts when i see em)
I've been clubbing for over 5 years, and i'll tell you, girl at 17-21 range are HARD TO LAY in the club. There are friends, there are boyfriends, and then there is "we are only here to dance".
I am almost to the point of saying fvck clubbing until i am 21. I dont enjoy it as much as i used to and grinding with hot girls plus RARELY a make out session is not worth it for me. Clubs are fun, but it is like I am getting sexually frustrated, almost like strip clubs...
I mean, guys, what's the point of going to clubs every week? To look at half naked women, to grind with 20 and not get anywhere? To MAY BE get some numbers?
Street approaches suddenly look much more attractive.
Yeah, im amazed Oxide is writing this as well...
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
^ My thoughts exactly dude. Last time I went clubbing I grinded with some girls but never got anywhere with it (same for the last 5 times I went in the past). So if clubs aren't the place to try, then what is the best place?
Mister Big
Don Juan
Finding good wingmen or other DJs is a real challenge. Going to a club alone can feel ackward sometimes due to the fact that women and men often ask who you came with. When you say you came alone, you lose social value and appear like a loner. I find that arriving with a wingman, but losing him immediately is the best approach. You'll link up with him from time to time only when you are really bored or it benefits the other. Being alone can be liberating as you become more focused and confident or you'll self destruct. When I'm on travel, I always go out alone.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Unless I have competent wingmen with me, I go it alone. A couple of time I come meet some other DJs at the club and we form a impromptu wing. That's a lot of fun since you don't really know the other guys but yet you can BS women as if you've been friends forever.
A lot of potential wingmen drink too much, Cblock you either by accident or on purpose, or have numerous insecurities that are annoying when you are clubbing. I bed women a lot easier than befriending wingmen.
What's up with this? Where are the wingmen?
One on One
Master Don Juan
I went once before alone but I left early because I got bored, but I had fun at a bar alone a few weeks ago so I'm trying the club again this weekend. I haven't been clubbing in ages and my game has totally changed since then so this should be interesting. Before I would try the grinding ****, but no more, I think that is lame b/c I don't dance well so why should I try to dance. I'm tall and good-looking so I always get girls trying to grind with me and come up to me so I'm pretty confident...I got a ONS once from the club. I'm just gonna be myself and get my drink on and see what happens.