I have the same mind frame, I came to this site , with 2 options , how to get the girl , and how to get multiple girls , turns out in the process of chasing one , I ended up chasing many , and still am even tho I have my hits and misses .
many of my closest friends have GF's and hate it . its prevented them from chasing dreams , because their gf's are always their 2nd opinion , or their stop signs . As for me , I got myself an education , a nice car , and have freedom, as well as extra money in your pocket never hurts .
I enjoy showing up to get small reunions , and friends asking me when is it going to be my turn ? for what , to ask someone for permission to do something I had enough of that with my parents growing up .
I found for me ... chasing relationships wasn't worth my time .
too much emotions , then oneitis kicks in and you have to come back this site for the rest of the members to give you a pep talk ... , jealousy , hate drama.... etc
I would rather mingle and have F-buddies .
get new role models, like mike the situation lmao ... i don't know if jersey shore is written or reality , but the ish that he does inspires me , to see how much I can get away with .
I am no hurry to get hitched either , the best thing I recommend is meet as many women as you can , never settle for less .
I came here when I was 17 made a profile a few years ago and now I am going on 25 . its probably about the best place on earth . for advice .