Andrew Tate's Advise Is.. Don't Chase Women!

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I honestly don't see how anyone can disagree with this.

Only thing I'd add is I do not believe women will just "come to you" when you're high value, especially if you've been in monk mode for a long time. We still need stay sharp. Men are fisherman, ultimately, and we can never stop being fisherman if we want to attract the best women.
 

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I've been approached by a multitude of different women during my time and it never feels right, there is always some underlying motivation or goal, she expects you to just be at the top of your game on a whim, like there are days I don't want to talk to people, it's just how I am, I'll get approached on these days sometimes and I don't even break stride or anything, then the biggest factor is that they don't view rejection like we do, it's a life changing event for them where as it's just another Tuesday for us.

Also I have a very thick dig, I'm not sexually compatible with most women and I'm tired of courting some broad for any amount of time just to find out it's not gonna fit.

From an ego point of view getting approached might seem cool but practically it's just a mess
 

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Only thing I'd add is I do not believe women will just "come to you"
Unless your a more or less known public figure then "no" and probably not so much.
They will however notice you in your social circles and attract to you that way ifr you are the man on purpose and stick out from threst of the crowd. For the rest of the plebs; yes they are as you mention quite invisble and need to grind for new female contacts.
 

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Well, his pimp strategy makes sense if you're looking to pick up gold diggers.
That is also one of the issues that comes a long with being a public profile. All gold diggers will come for you (Male and female).
So while being famous might have some perks it also brings along a whole other set of bigger issues with the people you hang out with.

The bigger game you have the bigger issues you will have:
  • Are they with you just because you're famous?
  • Are they really interested in you as a person?
  • Are they just after your money?
  • Hard to filter out who is genuinely interested in you as a person.
  • Personal security for yourself and your nearest family is a huge issue too
  • Who´s really your friends (Especially male friends ofc)?
There is probably way more you could add to that bullet list above.
 

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That is also one of the issues that comes a long with being a public profile. All gold diggers will come for you (Male and female).
So while being famous might have some perks it also brings along a whole other set of bigger issues with the people you hang out with.

The bigger game you have the bigger issues you will have:
  • Are they with you just because you're famous?
  • Are they really interested in you as a person?
  • Are they just after your money?
  • Hard to filter out who is genuinely interested in you as a person.
  • Personal security for yourself and your nearest family is a huge issue too
  • Who´s really your friends (Especially male friends ofc)?
There is probably way more you could add to that bullet list above.
I mean. Yeah they’re with him because he’s famous. Just like you’re with them because they’re gorgeous. I don’t see him hanging out with the averages ladies just because they tell good knock knock jokes.

Very few people are truly with their partner because they’re who they truly are. There had to be some sort of quid pro quo to begin with, at a minimum.
 

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No offense but this gives strong bitter male vibes
I am a bitter male by some peoples standards; absolutely. I also have experienced life, so I accept it for what it is. I’m sure though that you have dated conventionally unattractive females, and immediately are into females for their personality and for “who they truly are”
 

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I am a bitter male by some peoples standards; absolutely. I also have experienced life, so I accept it for what it is. I’m sure though that you have dated conventionally unattractive females, and immediately are into females for their personality and for “who they truly are”
No, but I have dated toxic females and females that I can actually tolerate. It sounds like you just go after fake bimbos that are prime prospects for the Fresh N Fit podcast. Last, being unattractive doesn't automatically make a girl's personality pleasant.

Do you think this woman is pleasant?

 

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No, but I have dated toxic females and females that I can actually tolerate. It sounds like you just go after fake bimbos that are prime prospects for the Fresh N Fit podcast. Last, being unattractive doesn't automatically make a girl's personality pleasant.

Do you think this woman is pleasant?

There’s something being lost in translation between us. I don’t know how we got to posting ugly chicks with ****ty personalities. I’m just going to bow out and let you have whatever last word you like.
 

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There’s something being lost in translation between us. I don’t know how we got to posting ugly chicks with ****ty personalities. I’m just going to bow out and let you have whatever last word you like.
From my interpretations, you assumed I am dating ugly girls because they are the only ones with nice personalities. I showed you an ugly girl with a bad personality to debunk your statement.
 

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Well, his pimp strategy makes sense if you're looking to pick up gold diggers. He's appealing to the socially awkward who think that getting rich is the solution to your problems. It isn't, you just get different problems.

I work on myself, but not to get rich and attract women looking for rich guys. Women get with me for being with me, and they stay with me because they love who they can be with me.
I'm don't think he's saying that you need to be rich and high status to attract women. I think he's saying that the process of becoming highly successful (in whatever domain/metric you want) in of itself makes you attractive since it requires you to get your shvt together, which I agree with.

He's actually said in other videos that money amplifies your existing personality and that being rich on it's own won't attract women. He went on to say that crypto kids who made millions can still be socially inept and low confidence, and accordingly it's no surprise they still struggle to attract and vet women.

Personally though, that whole lifestyle doesn't appeal to me. For me, personal success has less to do with money (past a certain point) and more to do with mastering my mind, and a harem of IG thots has precisely zero appeal to me.
 
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