Andrew Tate's Advise Is.. Don't Chase Women!

[soulforge]

 

[AureliusMaximus]

That video is quite good actually imo. Got some good points.
Thanks for sharing @soulforge

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I honestly don't see how anyone can disagree with this.

Only thing I'd add is I do not believe women will just "come to you" when you're high value, especially if you've been in monk mode for a long time. We still need stay sharp. Men are fisherman, ultimately, and we can never stop being fisherman if we want to attract the best women.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I've been approached by a multitude of different women during my time and it never feels right, there is always some underlying motivation or goal, she expects you to just be at the top of your game on a whim, like there are days I don't want to talk to people, it's just how I am, I'll get approached on these days sometimes and I don't even break stride or anything, then the biggest factor is that they don't view rejection like we do, it's a life changing event for them where as it's just another Tuesday for us.

Also I have a very thick dig, I'm not sexually compatible with most women and I'm tired of courting some broad for any amount of time just to find out it's not gonna fit.

From an ego point of view getting approached might seem cool but practically it's just a mess

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Also I have a very thick dig, I'm not sexually compatible with most women and I'm tired of courting some broad for any amount of time just to find out it's not gonna fit.

Sure, they can push out a baby, but your dig is too thick? Unless a woman has vaginism, I'm sure she can accommodate your trouser snake.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Only thing I'd add is I do not believe women will just "come to you"

Unless your a more or less known public figure then "no" and probably not so much.
They will however notice you in your social circles and attract to you that way ifr you are the man on purpose and stick out from threst of the crowd. For the rest of the plebs; yes they are as you mention quite invisble and need to grind for new female contacts.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I honestly don't see how anyone can disagree with this.

Well, his pimp strategy makes sense if you're looking to pick up gold diggers. He's appealing to the socially awkward who think that getting rich is the solution to your problems. It isn't, you just get different problems.

I work on myself, but not to get rich and attract women looking for rich guys. Women get with me for being with me, and they stay with me because they love who they can be with me.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Only thing I'd add is I do not believe women will just "come to you" when you're high value.

Women need an incentive to come to you. Just being 'high value' can be too intimidating, you have to be approachable, but a combination of being an interesting person and not caring about their attention will get women to come to you.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Well, his pimp strategy makes sense if you're looking to pick up gold diggers.

That is also one of the issues that comes a long with being a public profile. All gold diggers will come for you (Male and female).
So while being famous might have some perks it also brings along a whole other set of bigger issues with the people you hang out with.

The bigger game you have the bigger issues you will have:

• Are they with you just because you're famous?
• Are they really interested in you as a person?
• Are they just after your money?
• Hard to filter out who is genuinely interested in you as a person.
• Personal security for yourself and your nearest family is a huge issue too
• Who´s really your friends (Especially male friends ofc)?

There is probably way more you could add to that bullet list above.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

So while being famous might have some perks it also brings along a whole other set of bigger issues with the people you hang out with.

Exactly. That's why I don't want to get famous for having money, because this:

The bigger game you have the bigger issues you will have:

• Are they with you just because you're famous?
• Are they really interested in you as a person?
• Are they just after your money?
• Hard to filter out who is genuinely interested in you as a person.
• Personal security for yourself and your nearest family is a huge issue too
• Who´s really your friends (Especially male friends ofc)?

This doesn't happen when you have 'game' per se, but mostly when you become affluent and have a status that benefits people to cling to you.

Women tend to be with me because of who I am, not because they want to dangle on my arm like a trophy.
My friends haven't changed and I don't befriend people just because they want me to. Regardless, more people consider me a friend than vice versa.

 

[Bling]

That is also one of the issues that comes a long with being a public profile. All gold diggers will come for you (Male and female).
So while being famous might have some perks it also brings along a whole other set of bigger issues with the people you hang out with.

The bigger game you have the bigger issues you will have:

• Are they with you just because you're famous?
• Are they really interested in you as a person?
• Are they just after your money?
• Hard to filter out who is genuinely interested in you as a person.
• Personal security for yourself and your nearest family is a huge issue too
• Who´s really your friends (Especially male friends ofc)?

There is probably way more you could add to that bullet list above.

I mean. Yeah they’re with him because he’s famous. Just like you’re with them because they’re gorgeous. I don’t see him hanging out with the averages ladies just because they tell good knock knock jokes.

Very few people are truly with their partner because they’re who they truly are. There had to be some sort of quid pro quo to begin with, at a minimum.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Very few people are truly with their partner because they’re who they truly are.

That is a cold hard fact that is very true.
Hard to swallow and accept for some men too I suppose...

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

One thing that I always consider so immature about Tate is that he's overly concerned with exterior attraction. When you become older, all that bling becomes just cheap trinkets. And yes, I include things like Lambos, because while they look great, they are only at home on a racing circuit with flawless asphalt. Anyone who really want superior transport in real world driving would just get a Saab turbo or something else that is unobtrusive and gets you from A to B in comfort.
Lambos are cars for attention wh0res who need to flash cash to attract the h0es. Their selling feature is that you need to be rich to afford to purchase and upkeep of the car, which turns it from a car into a status symbol. But, what status are you projecting? That you're a flashy blowhard who needs to flash wealth to get laid.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Very few people are truly with their partner because they’re who they truly are. There had to be some sort of quid pro quo to begin with, at a minimum.

No offense but this gives strong bitter male vibes

 

[Bling]

No offense but this gives strong bitter male vibes

I am a bitter male by some peoples standards; absolutely. I also have experienced life, so I accept it for what it is. I’m sure though that you have dated conventionally unattractive females, and immediately are into females for their personality and for “who they truly are”

 

[CornbreadFed]

I am a bitter male by some peoples standards; absolutely. I also have experienced life, so I accept it for what it is. I’m sure though that you have dated conventionally unattractive females, and immediately are into females for their personality and for “who they truly are”

No, but I have dated toxic females and females that I can actually tolerate. It sounds like you just go after fake bimbos that are prime prospects for the Fresh N Fit podcast. Last, being unattractive doesn't automatically make a girl's personality pleasant.

Do you think this woman is pleasant?

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Sure, they can push out a baby, but your dig is too thick? Unless a woman has vaginism, I'm sure she can accommodate your trouser snake.

Youve made my ignore list, congrats

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Youve made my ignore list, congrats

You just made my 'Fragile Ego' list. shrug

 

[Bling]

No, but I have dated toxic females and females that I can actually tolerate. It sounds like you just go after fake bimbos that are prime prospects for the Fresh N Fit podcast. Last, being unattractive doesn't automatically make a girl's personality pleasant.

Do you think this woman is pleasant?

There’s something being lost in translation between us. I don’t know how we got to posting ugly chicks with ****ty personalities. I’m just going to bow out and let you have whatever last word you like.

 

[CornbreadFed]

There’s something being lost in translation between us. I don’t know how we got to posting ugly chicks with ****ty personalities. I’m just going to bow out and let you have whatever last word you like.

From my interpretations, you assumed I am dating ugly girls because they are the only ones with nice personalities. I showed you an ugly girl with a bad personality to debunk your statement.