More likely, they divorced the fathers of their children because they were tired of them and wanted the child support. With some women, children are practically their livelihood. Get a couple of ex-husband/fathers to pay child support, add in welfare payments, tax deductions, and a new live-in father or boyfriend to pay the current bills, and they're all set.
this site is a great place to learn about how to swollow the red pill and to figure out what the world really is about but at the same time, we have to make sure we don't paint the entire female gender with a broad brush.
each woman you have to look at and learn and judge by her individual methods. It's like in horse racing some people are hell bent on trying to make every race fit one angle i call it lazy handicapping.
becuase of this i am going to quickly dissolve a litlte bit into my life story growing up.
my dad met my momn when she was a senior in central high school (little rock 9, same school). actually my dad had met my aunt, who is one year older than my mom but found my mom more attractive (she is) and strated talking to her. one thing led to another, freshman year of college my dad knocks up my mom, here comes baby backreaker on fathers day in 1983. they got married in 1987. my mom who was still in college, very religious, was head over hells in love with my dad. for all my dad for all his faults, lack of game was not one of them.
anyway, when i was 6 my dad knocked up another woman at his job and my mom filed for a divorce. mom never cheated on my dad. she was pretty heart broken over the whole deal but put up a good face for me. even let my littel brother come over and play with me every weekend.
in the summer time i woudl stay at my dad's becuase he worked at night so i would go over his house with his new GF every day and played over there. a few years later he cheated on her as well with another woman who he would end up marrying, my ex step mom donna. of all the women my dad dated and married, donna is the one i give him somewaht of a pass on she was bat**** crazy and had gambling problems. they got a divorce. my dad starts dating my now step mom and they get married when i was what, 19. when i was 21 i had to let my dad come stay with me for a month beucase he got caught cheating and she kicked him out the house. she found his "other" cell phone in his glove compartment in his car. eventually he moved back, we don't talk now but my mom told me that she has filed for divorce the last few months.
my mom, my little brothers mom are 2 of the most religious women you will ever find. neither of them cheated on my dad , both were head over heels in love with him.
in fact this is what really sent me down on my AFC path as i wanted to be nothing like him. my dad is a true *****. i did everything my dad did not do. it was not until i was older that i realized that i could take some elements of what my dad got right and could leave the rest. he just doesn't stop.
my dad, basically ruined 2 women's entire dating life by fathering me and caleb my little brother. my mom is pretty attractive and would still get suitors but non would 100% commit utnil ironically enough the week i turned 21 she got re married. caleb's mom , poor woman, i am pretty sure she has had 1 BF in the last 20 years outside my dad and he is just 22 years old so he just got out the house.
i am not just saying this becuase it's my mom, but my mom and keisha, caleb's mom are good women who just got used by a man who had no intention of settling down. both have masters degrees and neither did not need a man to take care of their kids, both me and caleb grew up relatively well off to be in single family households though my dad was not a ****ty dad at all he was a pretty good dad, just a ****ty husband.
me and my mother get into over religon, but in reality she's what you would draw up to be a wife if you had to draw from scratch. extremely intelligent, i mean, i'm not jugigng my mom she's an attractive woman, not supermodel good looking but she's easy on the eyes, makes very good money, goes to church every wednesday and sunday, spotless credit, doesn't waste money whatsoever, made sure my homework was done everynight.. besides not being able to cook worth a damn, you couldn't' ask for anyting else.. and my problem when i hit my teens and started attracting the opposite sex, is i thought every woman was like my mom, as long as i was nice to them. i was wrong. i also had to learn that even when you found a good one, you still had to keep her attracted to you. just because a woman is a good woman doesn't' mean she isn't a woman. for all my dad's faults my mom worshiped my dad, bull **** and all. there aren't that many of them out there like my mom. when i found one that for the most part was, i put a ring on her finger.
let's talk about this guy. the reason the guy has falling so hard becuase this is the type of guy that grows up believing be nice, flowers, love, affection, gifts, etc... and it's finally paying off. he thinks he has found a woman who can 'appricate' him but in reality what he does not understand is that she is settling for him. he just doesn't get it. he thinks it's his game and he just found a woman who can understand a good man when she sees one. what he has to grow to understand is that he is the emergency in case of fire break glass ****. it's hard to convince guys that they are emergency only ****.
I mean i'm not trying to be a white knight, far from it but i'm not going to sit here and let you paint the entire freaking female race as *****s who are trying to get over becuase that is not the case. but with that said, there are some defiantly out there.
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