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the lower body on the black chick - actually the whole body - is going to be spectacular. You can tell easily from the arms and shoulders. Black women always have beautiful asses and legs if they workout...but again, Guru rated her as a 4


I just want a chick in my league. How is this so much to ask for in 2019? I'm a decent looking dude in good shape, I want a woman who is about the same
A 4? With white paint theyd day shes a hottie with a tight body rating at no less than 7. Go for what you like. You dont need our validation. But u need to start having sex and kill your fapping habit. Its an addiction that needs to be taken care of.
 

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what are you guys doing? Reporting me to the FBI or something?


I'm just airing out my frustrations. Nothing will happen. Worst case scenario, I always have my porn to come home to
The nice thing about getting older is you start to think more women are attractive. I get less picky every day. Watching porn probably screws that process up. I even deleted instagram for good measure. It poisons your brain.
 

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The nice thing about getting older is you start to think more women are attractive. I get less picky every day. Watching porn probably screws that process up. I even deleted instagram for good measure. It poisons your brain.
I'm not that picky on the face. I just want a decent face - not ugly, deformed or bad skin. Otherwise, I just want a hot body with nice legs and ass
 

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I'm not that picky on the face. I just want a decent face - not ugly, deformed or bad skin. Otherwise, I just want a hot body with nice legs and ass
Someone mentioned this earlier but that’s in higher demand than the reverse. Not impossible though. Here’s an idea: join a workout or dance class. Gives you plenty of opportunities to talk to fitter women.

By the way, you spoke about being anti bar, but I have met 2 girls who go to my gym at bars, and they actually opened me with “have I seen you at the gym?” If I had approached them in the gym I know now that they would’ve been happy to take out their headphones.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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Someone mentioned this earlier but that’s in higher demand than the reverse. Not impossible though. Here’s an idea: join a workout or dance class. Gives you plenty of opportunities to talk to fitter women.

By the way, you spoke about being anti bar, but I have met 2 girls who go to my gym at bars, and they actually opened me with “have I seen you at the gym?” If I had approached them in the gym I know now that they would’ve been happy to take out their headphones.
attractive gym women opened you? You must be a 9/10 tall white guy
 

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attractive gym women have 285035825038252502358230 male options


the idea of them opening any male is shocking
Many women find meeting someone from OLD to be weird. I know hot women without dating apps. They much prefer meeting someone offline. So, they don’t have the same inflated egos that OLD women have. That’s where your charming personality can make the difference. Too bad you don’t approach.
 

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Many women find meeting someone from OLD to be weird. I know hot women without dating apps. They much prefer meeting someone offline. So, they don’t have the same inflated egos that OLD women have. That’s where your charming personality can make the difference. Too bad you don’t approach.

90% of gym women aren't even going to be single anyways


So I suppose you can approach a 100 of them, to find the 1 who is both single and not an OLD user who demands male perfection
 

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90% of gym women aren't even going to be single anyways


So I suppose you can approach a 100 of them, to find the 1 who is both single and not an OLD user who demands male perfection
Even if your numbers weren’t completely made up, 100 approaches to get success is a start. I approach probably 30 women to get laid once. The thing is, I’m not afraid to knock out all 30 of those approaches out in a single night.
 

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Men like novelty. So even is a girl is a notch or two below what he would typically tap, he wouldn't mind a quick hit of novelty without considering her LTR eligibility or his own typical standards.
Oh, I understand the behavior, and the reasons for it. I'm just saying there are unintended consequences, like creating these "alpha widows" people talk about. It causes trouble for men with lower SMV, although I don't imagine the top guys are concerned any about "lesser men".

If you just look at this forum, most guys who come here are probably "beta" when they arrive, and as soon as they learn a thing or two, they are holding all average men in utter contempt and disdain. They blame the AFC for all problems with women's entitlement, but it's really the actions of all men that contribute, not just the AFCs. Some have said the reason guys hate the betas so much once they get a little red pill education is because they despise their former actions, which makes a lot of sense.
 

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Oh, I understand the behavior, and the reasons for it. I'm just saying there are unintended consequences, like creating these "alpha widows" people talk about. It causes trouble for men with lower SMV, although I don't imagine the top guys are concerned any about "lesser men".

If you just look at this forum, most guys who come here are probably "beta" when they arrive, and as soon as they learn a thing or two, they are holding all average men in utter contempt and disdain. They blame the AFC for all problems with women's entitlement, but it's really the actions of all men that contribute, not just the AFCs. Some have said the reason guys hate the betas so much once they get a little red pill education is because they despise their former actions, which makes a lot of sense.
I'd like to think of it as balance. Whereas I might humble most women; other guys pump up their ego.

I feel sorry for most women. Other guys hold contempt toward them.

I treat women in a certain way. Other guys treat women in the opposite way.

One is needed for the other to create balance.

You need people like me. :)
 

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I'd like to think of it as balance. Whereas I might humble most women; other guys pump up their ego.

I feel sorry for most women. Other guys hold contempt toward them.

I treat women in a certain way. Other guys treat women in the opposite way.

One is needed for the other to create balance.

You need people like me. :)
Explain the difference in how you treat them and your results vs the others? Explain what you get vs them and how they deal w you?
 

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Explain the difference in how you treat them and your results vs the others? Explain what you get vs them and how they deal w you?
I think I showed this ad ad nauseam by now, no?

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_6799b_zpsqkv6wg3l.jpg.html?sort=2&o=1

Keep scrolling right. As you can see, they are very humbled. Some test (see the "I prefer a lady who lets the man lead" text), but they, too, get humbled.

Nothing special there; just many dismissals prompting subsequent orbits. It's just the frame I choose.
 

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I think I showed this ad ad nauseam by now, no?

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_6799b_zpsqkv6wg3l.jpg.html?sort=2&o=1

Keep scrolling right. As you can see, they are very humbled. Some test (see the "I prefer a lady who lets the man lead" text), but they, too, get humbled.

Nothing special there; just many dismissals prompting subsequent orbits. It's just the frame I choose.
She did all that talking. I like how you said "im looking for the love of my life but in the meantime im enjoying the journey"
 

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I think I showed this ad ad nauseam by now, no?

http://s682.photobucket.com/user/guru1000/media/IMG_6799b_zpsqkv6wg3l.jpg.html?sort=2&o=1

Keep scrolling right. As you can see, they are very humbled. Some test (see the "I prefer a lady who lets the man lead" text), but they, too, get humbled.

Nothing special there; just many dismissals prompting subsequent orbits. It's just the frame I choose.
Seems like you lead them on. I’d feel guilty. All of my plates are fully aware the relationship is purely sexual.
 

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She did all that talking. I like how you said "im looking for the love of my life but in the meantime im enjoying the journey"
Give them remnants of hope to motivate them to work. Can’t be all push and no pull, right? Intermittent rewards for their pursuance keeps them circulating and happy.

Deeper ... this is the strongest frame for exclusivity as she needs to work hard to get you there, and once there, she is more likely to appreciate what she rightfully earned. More importantly, as your time and attention (T & A) starts as a scarce commodity, your future T & A hold greater value, less likely to be unappreciated, undervalued, or undermined.

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Seems like you lead them on. I’d feel guilty. All of my plates are fully aware the relationship is purely sexual.
I don't. She has a chance.
 

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Warning: I've seen the ArmenianDave type many times over. I used to live in a city with a huge middle eastern population. All of the young adults fell into one of two categories (or both)

1. extremely spoiled, highly manipulative, super unethical rich kids who cheated on every exam all the way to med school or law school.

2. extremely emotionally unstable mentally ill kids who never became stable mature adults, living as financial and emotional parasites off of their parents or partners, creating misery for everyone around them as well as themselves.

ArmenianDave is in categories 1 and 2. A rich kid who is hyper unstable mentally and emotionally, living as an emotional parasite off of this forum.

Actually the only reason he's back is because he was banned from the bodybuilding forum.

I guarantee he will never change, never grow up, never adapt, and will forever act as an emotional parasite on this forum, another forum or on his family and people "close" to him (however short lived those relationships are).
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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