Amante and Guru

guru1000

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amante is not a fan of pro pics, he says they look way too try hard

what do you have to say for that?

also how big of a difference is it being 9 to 10% BF vs being say 15% BF? I clearly have very masculine features in terms of jawline and chin. Will that make a huge difference for me?
I say Amante does what works for him and you should do what works for you.

However, I’m not proceeding further until you finish the 25 opens.
 

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I say Amante does what works for him and you should do what works for you.

However, I’m not proceeding further until you finish the 25 opens.

i don't want to contaminate any more opportunities until I get great looking pics where I look very handsome in
 

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They're not a flaw but they have an effect. Look at it this way, you yourself earlier made a rude/racist comment about black women, so...? yes, people form opinions about you based on your looks, color, religion, background, your first impression etc.

You have to know your cards and formulate a plan before you start the game.



Right! And with those pics he posted most likely the only interest he'd get would be from the 3/10s and more rejection/no response or ghosting (from bored chicks) after a couple of responses if that. Without the right pics that line will work against him.

@bigdave17 -as for the pro pics, it's not so much about the pro pics but about the 'scene' of the pics too, if you're outdoors, nice background, having fun - those are the pics that work. I only have one pro pic and the rest are of me doing what I enjoy doing...it conveys the scene for them to picture themselves in.

Alright, I'm not going to further 'intrude' here as it seems guru1000's got your back.
yea but im primarily going for women with fairly similar skin tone, hair color and features as myself. Some of them may look slightly more European, some may look less European (the black girl)

I'm not going for pale white supermodels
 

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i don't want to contaminate any more opportunities until I get great looking pics where I look very handsome in
If you want dripping sexual energy and masculinity try having sex. Get 5-10 sessions in over 3 wks and start from there. Your energy wont be right until you do.
 

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A) OLD is a LONG game, fvcking RELAX
B) no one "likes" you on OLD. They don't even know you. They think your pics combined with your bio is nice. It is ENTIRELY possible that your bio (seeing as it is not really your bio) does not match your pictures. Have a female friend review it and give you input.
The problem with Dave is that he thinks he is 10 and deserves a 10. He isn’t pulling 10’s so he starts threads crying about it.
 

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low and behold, Guru rated her a 4/10. Guess I was right... as usual

She is not a 4/10. She is actually very cute. Guru is just typical non black male who would never touch a black girl unless she was a supermodel
No she's not very good looking. I'd put her at a 5 but I would date a white 5 but not her.
 
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I see other opportunities in this, but that’s just me and how I think.
 

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The problem with Dave is that he thinks he is 10 and deserves a 10. He isn’t pulling 10’s so he starts threads crying about it.
a 10? are you smoking crack?

the 3 women I posted on here that were very attractive to me was rated 6, 4 and 6 by guru and 5 by fatf. If i posted pics of the last 100 women I messaged, they would be rated an avg of maybe 5.5 by you guys.

In reality, I'm totally cool with an avg girl who is in shape and has a nice body. A 10 is a perfect face dude. I'm not messaging anybody even close to a 10
 

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In reality, I'm totally cool with an avg girl who is in shape and has a nice body.
If you REALLY believe what you just posted you need more help than anyone has here for you
 

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If you REALLY believe what you just posted you need more help than anyone has here for you

Guru rated 3 girls I messaged as a 6,4,6 and then Fatf rated the 4 as a 5 (To me the 3 girls were all very attractive)


I'll make a poll of the last 20 girls I messaged online and ask the guys here to rate them. I bet you avg rating comes out to a 5.5, MAYBE a 6
 

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Dave, you were posting pics of models a month ago as prime examples of the woman you’re after.

Stop moving the goal posts.
I was posting that just as an example of what my ideal taste is (dark features, thick, athletic, in shape)

In reality, these are the kind of girls I message













I'm not that picky on the face - I like a really nice body. 5 face is fine...
 

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245 replies in 13 hrs. Maybe that was the point.
It just feels so good to tell someone that they’re wrong.

Dave seems like one of those incels who is going to snap. Let’s hope some cute chick comes on to him one day before that happens.
 

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I was posting that just as an example of what my ideal taste is (dark features, thick, athletic, in shape)

In reality, these are the kind of girls I message













I'm not that picky on the face - I like a really nice body. 5 face is fine...
I’ll go with 5.5/5/7
 

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I was posting that just as an example of what my ideal taste is (dark features, thick, athletic, in shape)

In reality, these are the kind of girls I message













I'm not that picky on the face - I like a really nice body. 5 face is fine...
That sister is pretty tight and face and eyes of intelligence. I wish you showed her waistline, her legs her belly though. But i can tell from her arms and shoulders shes toned.
 

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That sister is pretty tight and face and eyes of intelligence. I wish you showed her waistline, her legs her belly though. But i can tell from her arms and shoulders shes toned.

the lower body on the black chick - actually the whole body - is going to be spectacular. You can tell easily from the arms and shoulders. Black women always have beautiful asses and legs if they workout...but again, Guru rated her as a 4


I just want a chick in my league. How is this so much to ask for in 2019? I'm a decent looking dude in good shape, I want a woman who is about the same
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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