Originally posted by Silverback82
do you guys that get approached actually get asked out by random girls or do they just smile at you and start random conversations?
I've gotten smiles and random conversations but no girl has ever flat out said to me "let's go on a date" or anything like that.
For me it has been a little of both, but the majority is just to start rapport. Sometimes they just make it plainly obvious they want me to lead after they approach with a simple "hi". One approached and simply asked my name, but she had this very seductive look on. Head down, eyes up, little evil grin, check out my cleavage kind of sexy look. "What's
your name?"
In other cases I've had one just walk right up, put her arms around my waist and start talking to me about karma and all that new age babble crap. How she thinks we were meant to be together. Whatever. Seemed a little canned to me.
Sometimes it comes on the phone. I've gotten a few calls from women I've never met who wanted to meet.
A few prom offers (lol). One chick proposed to me after dating for a month (f-cking scarey). And like I said earlier, a few of those rare "Let's f-ck" approaches.
It doesn't happen very often. It's not like I get this sh-t every time I go out (I wish!). It's hot and cold. Sometimes I get nothing, as if I'm a lepor. Sometimes it's just "on". Honestly, I'm still a little confused over it. I'm still trying to figure it all out myself. But a lot of women are definately far more aggressive then they tend to let on.
But I don't think it's a good idea for guys to wait around for this stuff to happen to them.