Am I ugly or something?

The Duke

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You lack confidence.
 

AureliusMaximus

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Your greatest asset is your body/physique
However that is only about 30% of the whole equation.
How you pull hot women is mostly about your attitude and personality..
The rest is the above; your attitude, stance, personality and your insecurity vs. self-confidence, (e.g. how your perceive yourself and the world) and and how you carry yourself in the world and thus how you are perceived by other people.

You can look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth and still be perceived by females as a weak character and have very little success with them if you do not have the other 60% in order. You need to believe in your self for a starter and walk the walk the same way you talk so to speak.
 

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Women love men are good looking and behave like they don't know they are. The OP is too worried about his looks... chicks will pick up on this like the smell of a dead skunk.

Do the best you can to be the best version of yourself then forget about it... assume you are an ugly toad and behave that way, to do otherwise you will come off as narcissistic. Men that are too worried about their looks are radiating feminine energy.
 

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Remember that women work on feels. How you present yourself and attitude is what they are evaluating. Some women I know call successful and confident guys douchebags because of how they treat others and lack self awareness. Your physique looks top notch, some women with insecurities will get intimidated by that. Second photo looks like you’re going to a club. If that is how you dress normally, then you give off a player vibe. Women are also cowards and can be afraid to give ROIs, especially a 9/10. Everyone kisses the ground they walk on, she’s never had to work for anything.
Kudos on the physique, I’ve never be able to achieve that level despite the effort.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

EyeBRollin

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OP, you do not qualify for HB9s and HB10s.

There is nothing wrong with the way you look. Race is only a bit of a hindrance. Also, I echo the sentiments that you give off a vain vibe, which is feminine and a turn off to women. Some will think you spend more time in the mirror then them.

That is secondary though. The truth is, the only guys that consistently pull 9s and 10s are wealthy dudes with status, and they are typically white men or “mainstream” black men.
 

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OP the last photo is too "try hard" infact everything about you is try hard

I can tell you for a fact women especially the very attractive narcissistic women you desire will mock you at your feeble attempts to attract them with a "look"

Attractive women DO NOT like normal men who try to beat them at their own looksmaxxing game

You need to be confident ,razor sharp ,funny, dominant and non needy

It really doesn't matter what you look like those are the tests you must first pass
 

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Physique is solid. Good jawline. Handsome I would say.

But the gear you are on: it’s not working….
 
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