Alright guys, here's my plan and my new look!

[coolf1r3]

Haha, I thought no one cared

Well, I'm basically going through the bootcamp at the moment. I came down with the flu on thursday so I couldn't do anything thurs-saturday.

Come tomorrow, I'm going to say hi to tons of people!

 

[Juan_Man]

You have improved your immensely, especially in the last two pics. Sometimes it just takes a shave and decent clothing to be HE'S ALL THAT. There should be no excuse now for you to not be getting women.

 

[sA x sKy]

Wow. This is my second post here and I'm not going to lie but this thread is really interesting. I'm only 15 but it's great how you're actually describing each moment so I kinda can relay it to myself as well sooner or later. Keep on updating this thread man.

 

[search1ng]

Okay, might get flamed for this but i mean the best. You're trying too hard. Everything from the picking up women to trying to impress people, whatever. Stop it. Women pick up on these little signals, women tend to be more emotionally in-tune then men, everything you do needs to seem natural - not this forced crap. Just feel it.

 

[2.0]

You are such an @$$!

And your exterior really matches how you are on the inside. Jerk.

 

[ChapStick]

Gawd man, your pictures still scream nerd!! Good thing you're losing the glasses! Oh, and get a shorter haircut... Get maybe a #2 or #3 on the sides and on the top finger-width. Your hair looks greasy in your pics the way you gelled it... Believe me, chicks notice hair a LOT! It's one of the first things my gf noticed about me... I'd use some American Crew styling wax after a nice haircut.

That shirt under that long sleeved T? Do you wanna get made fun of? A guy like you needs all the branding he can get! Go to our local Abercrombie and Fitch store and dress like the clones out there. I used to work there, and I absolutely hate everything they're about, but I've seen the brand respect that a lot of girls have for the clothing...

Everyone's giving you a hard time about kicking that kids rolling backpack... Dude, I just think it's hillarious that you look like you play for your schools chess team and you ****ed with another loser. It's like losers ****ing with each other. I do respect the fact that you apologized to him, although I wished that kid stood up for himself and punched your lights out. The fact that you apologized to him shows that there is hope for you yet...

My brother has a rolling backpack at college and most may think he looks stupid, and I've told him about it, but you know what? He doesn't care! He's pre-med and doing very well, and people like you will end up being his gardener one day.. Careful who you **** with... They might end up owning you one day.

I used to be that nerdy looking guy that played on the chess team, used to have to sit at lunch with the social outcasts, and did HORRIBLY with girls... I know what it is like! I went from trying to be friends with girls that didn't want anything to do with me, to being hit on by women my age and older women on a regular bases. I made the same mistakes as you! I tried too hard...

This is me before when I started my journey...

http://img208.imageshack.us/my.php?image=68cf2f7erp0.jpg
With first girlfriend... I looked like a total tool... She was some fat ass exchange student that I went AFC over and she eventually dumped me... I look at pictures of me before now and I just laugh.

Me recently:

http://a834.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/93/l_91824c931cd4e2b01d1bd9e9b714fc59.jpg

http://a217.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/105/l_4337b338a154fcd9c9757e201a8ccb30.jpg

http://a732.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/72/l_2bf68f2ce2f4f2b3cacd81c301b47553.jpg

Now I drive a sports car, have a MUCH more attractive girlfriend and my success with women has skyrocketed. I turn down women now! This was NEVER the case before! I love showing girls my before and after pics. I am proud of the change! Women are very shallow though, and I find it quite sad... I am no longer changing for women... I am changing to feel better about myself! I'm still trying to improve. Right now I'm looking for a better paying job and eventually a career in some sort of trade. Luckily I've found a girl that doesn't judge me based on my new found appearance. There are days I look pretty crappy, and she's still around! You wanna find yourself something like that! And you'll never get it being fake!

A few things I learned from my journey was not to mess with people and be nice to everyone around me. Not the AFC nice, but show a general respect to people that deserve to be treated with respect. Negging chicks didn't really work too well for me... I found my best results came when I was actually nice.

If you ever have any questions, feel free to PM me. I would be more than happy to help you out.

 

[search1ng]

Chapstick, you're equating driving a sports car and having an attractive girlfriend, looking different as a measure of success?

....


I'm in a very cynical mood today so this will probably come off as rude and harsh but you seem like you've got a journey ahead of you yet.

also, whether he ends up as a gardener for your brother or not- it doesn't really matter. Each profession/job/career has its pro's and con's. To dis-respect someone based on their vocation is such a bigoted and judgmental view.

Also, i love having a good chess match, i find it exciting to match off against someone of equal or greater skill and i don't really give a sh!t about what the rest of the population thinks, it's my journey through life not theirs.

Oh and your first girlfriend was not a "fat ass exchange student," you were probably too much of an AFC to notice anything. Would you have stuck around with you if you were she? (Again, I'm being cynical but if you were more 'Don Juan,' about this whole thing you wouldn't have to downplay previous girlfriends cause as a MAN you wouldn't really give a sh1t anyway - walk away)

Now, brands. Sure they help. His style could be refined. Who gives a sh1t. Why the fck would you only want to attractive shallow women based on the clothing you wear. (Yes i don't like Pick-up artists out to fck everything that moves, fck that. No wonder society is drowning in this cesspool of sh1t-stains. What the fck happened to decent morals. It's acceptable to be a Don Juan and be Alpha male and all that without having to lower your morals and standards into dating pornstars and all that other sh!t. Quality over quantity, DON'T fcking let your d1ck do the thinking for you or you'll regret it) Fck the brands, dress in clothing that makes you feel good. If it's brand name clothing do it, but only cause it makes you feel more comfortable, not cause you're out to prove to the world that you're another fake that thinks he's all that cause he wears 'all that'.

On a final note, women are never the priority, but when the time comes, and you figure you want to get down and get settled, make sure it's with someone you KNOW is quality. YOU WILL be living the better half of your life with your significant other and SHE WILL have an impact on the direction your life takes. IT doesn't make you any less of a DON JUAN to accept this.

on a final note, you're a tool.

and yes i'm probably a tool for telling you you're a tool. Who cares?!

 

[scottfall]

Chapstick, you're equating driving a sports car and having an attractive girlfriend, looking different as a measure of success?

....


I'm in a very cynical mood today so this will probably come off as rude and harsh but you seem like you've got a journey ahead of you yet.

also, whether he ends up as a gardener for your brother or not- it doesn't really matter. Each profession/job/career has its pro's and con's. To dis-respect someone based on their vocation is such a bigoted and judgmental view.

Also, i love having a good chess match, i find it exciting to match off against someone of equal or greater skill and i don't really give a sh!t about what the rest of the population thinks, it's my journey through life not theirs.

Oh and your first girlfriend was not a "fat ass exchange student," you were probably too much of an AFC to notice anything. Would you have stuck around with you if you were she? (Again, I'm being cynical but if you were more 'Don Juan,' about this whole thing you wouldn't have to downplay previous girlfriends cause as a MAN you wouldn't really give a sh1t anyway - walk away)

Now, brands. Sure they help. His style could be refined. Who gives a sh1t. Why the fck would you only want to attractive shallow women based on the clothing you wear. (Yes i don't like Pick-up artists out to fck everything that moves, fck that. No wonder society is drowning in this cesspool of sh1t-stains. What the fck happened to decent morals. It's acceptable to be a Don Juan and be Alpha male and all that without having to lower your morals and standards into dating pornstars and all that other sh!t. Quality over quantity, DON'T fcking let your d1ck do the thinking for you or you'll regret it) Fck the brands, dress in clothing that makes you feel good. If it's brand name clothing do it, but only cause it makes you feel more comfortable, not cause you're out to prove to the world that you're another fake that thinks he's all that cause he wears 'all that'.

On a final note, women are never the priority, but when the time comes, and you figure you want to get down and get settled, make sure it's with someone you KNOW is quality. YOU WILL be living the better half of your life with your significant other and SHE WILL have an impact on the direction your life takes. IT doesn't make you any less of a DON JUAN to accept this.

on a final note, you're a tool.

and yes i'm probably a tool for telling you you're a tool. Who cares?!

This kind of judgmental thinking is the root of the AFC attitude. It keeps you at arms length from most of the dating world.

 

[Hot Alpha Female]

Well I like the new look and kudos for getting out there and taking action.

The first approach with the HB and the skool kid. It might have worked better to have called out the HB who made the remark, instead of doing something that she might approve of.

With the second approach, don't let *****y remarks throw you off. If anyone is acting up .. just call them out on it and it makes them think about what they just said ... while focusing their attention onto you.

 

[search1ng]

This kind of judgmental thinking is the root of the AFC attitude. It keeps you at arms length from most of the dating world.

Yep, mhmm.

 

[ChapStick]

Chapstick, you're equating driving a sports car and having an attractive girlfriend, looking different as a measure of success?

....


I'm in a very cynical mood today so this will probably come off as rude and harsh but you seem like you've got a journey ahead of you yet.

also, whether he ends up as a gardener for your brother or not- it doesn't really matter. Each profession/job/career has its pro's and con's. To dis-respect someone based on their vocation is such a bigoted and judgmental view.

Also, i love having a good chess match, i find it exciting to match off against someone of equal or greater skill and i don't really give a sh!t about what the rest of the population thinks, it's my journey through life not theirs.

Oh and your first girlfriend was not a "fat ass exchange student," you were probably too much of an AFC to notice anything. Would you have stuck around with you if you were she? (Again, I'm being cynical but if you were more 'Don Juan,' about this whole thing you wouldn't have to downplay previous girlfriends cause as a MAN you wouldn't really give a sh1t anyway - walk away)

Now, brands. Sure they help. His style could be refined. Who gives a sh1t. Why the fck would you only want to attractive shallow women based on the clothing you wear. (Yes i don't like Pick-up artists out to fck everything that moves, fck that. No wonder society is drowning in this cesspool of sh1t-stains. What the fck happened to decent morals. It's acceptable to be a Don Juan and be Alpha male and all that without having to lower your morals and standards into dating pornstars and all that other sh!t. Quality over quantity, DON'T fcking let your d1ck do the thinking for you or you'll regret it) Fck the brands, dress in clothing that makes you feel good. If it's brand name clothing do it, but only cause it makes you feel more comfortable, not cause you're out to prove to the world that you're another fake that thinks he's all that cause he wears 'all that'.

On a final note, women are never the priority, but when the time comes, and you figure you want to get down and get settled, make sure it's with someone you KNOW is quality. YOU WILL be living the better half of your life with your significant other and SHE WILL have an impact on the direction your life takes. IT doesn't make you any less of a DON JUAN to accept this.

on a final note, you're a tool.

and yes i'm probably a tool for telling you you're a tool. Who cares?!

I am not saying owning a sports car, looking better, and having a better looking girlfriend is the measure of success. I am saying I have changed my life around and I have worked hard to get me where I am now, and in return I find myself happier, more motivated to improve even more, and yes women do notice and find it attractive.

Reason I brought up my brother is because I'm pointing out the fact that you do not mess with people, because you never know who they will become later in life.

Nothing wrong with playing chess... I'm stereotyping that most people that play on their schools chess team aren't usually the type of people that girls sought after. Then again, there are exceptions to that.

I already did mention I was an AFC. I was AFC enough to cheat on my ex because I had self esteem issues. I've learned much since then... I see cheating as a form of AFC behavior.

 

[search1ng]

I know the content you're speaking of, it was the way you presented it.

eg. 'fat ass exchange student,' etc.

 

[PhunGar]

Chicks do notice the hair funny that, i'm known around the school as the kid with cool hair, a tad off topic
i think you have to develop some charisma, if you cold approach too much especially in a school environment your gonna have bad rep and be known as the desperate kid?
i think you have the wrong mindset correct me if im wrong thou anyone. Try give off a more positive aura to make people want to be around you. i never made a effort to cold approach any girls at school yet i was friends with all the Asian girls from year 10to12, school ends here at year 12. (i have a thing for Asians) I found that if your interesting enough they will approach you. maybe change your attitude a bit before doing to many more cold approaches. I think the dj bible will help. Your trying to hard to impress the key is to interest them

 

[daygameguy]

Well, these HB7s were walking behind him and laughing at him and one of them said "I bet no one has the balls to kick the backpack." Oh yeah, HB7? Yup, I kicked it and the kid turned around and said "WTF" but I kept walking.

I was going to write something positive about your look and willingness to improve, but this wanna be act just puts you in my red list. Red list = people I have no respect for.

Apologize to that guy. Be humble. Ladies men don't need to be gangsta all the time. Be a good man.

I would actually TAKE HIS SIDE, and NEG the ladies for picking on a guy who doesn't bother anyone. That's how you be a man dude. You need a 360 degree mental change more than your physical change of looks.

 

[Energizer]

You have not changed an awful and I'd lose the jumper, but keep the shirt though. Get a better design of glasses, be stylish like Sarah Palin. As for picking on that dude, that was wrong man, if I was there, I'd have slammed your face into the school lockers. Learn from that mistake and don't do it again and don't go for girls who are complete douchebags.