Originally posted by MindOverMatter
You just described how an intelligent beta operates. And it makes sense too, since our society is run by betas and most alphas are in jail. The guy you just described can get farther in life then a real alpha, can even f*ck more women then an alpha, but if he ever faces a real alpha, he will back down as it is in his nature to back down. His wit and charm can get him far, but if he doesn't have the balls of an alpha, he'll always be a beta, because alphas will always walk over him.
If you're at a club dancing with some b!tch and a drug dealer comes up to you and you can see he has a gun stashed in his pants, and he calmly without even looking you in the eye tells you to get lost and leave him alone with the girl, what will you do? Note, this isn't your girlfriend, it's just some b!tch you met. If you're a beta, chances are you will probably either try to talk your way out of it, or leave figuring your life is not worth risking over some piece of pvssy you can get any time you want. Either way, you will bow down like a good beta does.
Put an alpha in the same situation, and he will either beat the f*ck out of the other guy, or get killed. Either way, he will risk it all, not for the b!tch, but because he's an alpha and doesn't back down. This is a stupid trait to have, and is a reason most alphas end up getting killed (by stronger alphas), or get outsmarted by betas (and get thrown in jail).
true,
where i am from , since childhood we have been taught to never back down, and no one ever does. You fight no matter who asks and thats just the way it is.
My friend who is built like a brick house is a prime example of this. He will square up to ANY ONE and always has no matter who it is. Oh and he looks like vin diesal if that helps
I remember when i was 14yrs old i was given some jewels of knowledge by some "real alphas" at that time. These guys were drug dealers of my city, not just any old drug dealers but THE dealers. Not nickle and dime shyt. ( think nino brown from "new jack city")
Anyway i was in the pizza shop and i had my cousin and 2 friends shouting at me and getting angry at me because i didnt want to get the type of pizza they wanted and the argument was causing a scene.
Due to me being the skinniest + smallest there it looked like i was being bullied.
So what happens is that "No.2" calls me over ( ill call him "No.2" cos he was 2nd to the guy at the top who was a real crazy + clever fvcker). Also No.2 knew my uncle and his sons.
He called me over to his BMW 325i convertable ( at that time this car was the shyt )
He said , "kid , are they fvcking with you?" and i was like "no, just arguing ( i was scared of this guy)"
And then he told me what i still remember today, he said:
"Look kid, when some one bullies you its not nice, you cant let that happen to your self. Next time it happens do this:
Look at the biggest one in the group and concentrate on him. Hit him straight in the mouth as hard as you can and as many times as you can. Sure you might get beaten up but they will NEVER fvck with you again and anyone who sees that wont either"
Thats the mentality you have to be in to walk round like your alpha. You fight no matter what and you NEVER back down. No.2 went to prison when he was 19yrs old and spent about 3 yrs behind bars.
No.2 was feared in my hood, but No.2 feared No.1 and so did every one else ( apart from a few guys who could take him but wouldnt because No.1 was "connected" like a dot-to-dot picture)
No.1 was a true alpha. he had respect ( he earned it ) and could fight. He also had charisma and influence. There were a coupla guys that could take No.1 one-on-one but these guys never did anything because although they had the brawn, they didnt have the brain. You need a mix of the two to be alpha, and thats why those guys were beta to him.
I remembr a great quote which i believe to be so true and it is:
"its not the size of the dog in the fight, its the size of the fight in the dog"
peace
muttley
