diplomatic_lies
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Yes, you're all very special. Very special boys.
Alpha Males
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BackToTheMack
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Those are the qualaties of all leaders. I dont agree with the "mates with many females not just one" part but the rest is ok.
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
I'm the alpha over an elephant because of my opposable thumbs and intellect.
I can create technology to dominate the elephant. I can use psychology against it. I can use my brains to recruit other humans and animals to go against it.
The only advantage it has over me is if it surprises me and charges me and runs me down.
I disagree, much of it is genetics. For example, Take a guy whos a 10 and a guy whos a 5, both dont have the alpha male personality traits. If they both work at the same pace, the guy whos a 10 will come out on top because he will be physically stronger, better looks thus people ar emore receptive to him.
And also a lot of out personality is genetic. I've seen many people who have the potential to be alpha males but none of them are. For some reason they are unable to change their personality(they seem to have a certain personality thats inherant and unchangable). If you posses 2 key qualities and are decent physically then you have a chance to be an alpha male. You need ambition and a willingness to improve yourself.
And also a lot of out personality is genetic. I've seen many people who have the potential to be alpha males but none of them are. For some reason they are unable to change their personality(they seem to have a certain personality thats inherant and unchangable). If you posses 2 key qualities and are decent physically then you have a chance to be an alpha male. You need ambition and a willingness to improve yourself.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by BackToTheMack
Summary Traits of the Alpha Man
- Displays dominance
- Mates with many females rather than one
- Leads others
- Controls his emotions
- Is not afraid to get angry when it’s necessary
- Would rather be outspoken and wrong than meek and right
- Asks for what he wants
- Demonstrates prosperity and provider capacity
- Protective
- Goal oriented
- He doesn’t ask – He tells
- Never apologizes for who he is or what he does
- Doesn’t care about what other people think, and does not let their opinions
steer his life
- Seeks power, but in healthy ways that furthers his goals
All these can be learnt and further developed. You can become that person if you are shy. To all the people who say you cant they are jsut to lazy to try.
In this game excuses are what bring you down so stop f**king making them.
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That's called being a d1ck.
I agree...some of the thigns are ok...he doenst ask he tells?
hey boss I want a fycking raise bytch!
haha your fired!
YOU CANT FIRE ME IM MR ALPHA MALE MAN! :crackup:
Summary Traits of the Alpha Man
- Displays dominance
- Mates with many females rather than one
- Leads others
- Controls his emotions
- Is not afraid to get angry when it’s necessary
- Would rather be outspoken and wrong than meek and right
- Asks for what he wants
- Demonstrates prosperity and provider capacity
- Protective
- Goal oriented
- He doesn’t ask – He tells
- Never apologizes for who he is or what he does
- Doesn’t care about what other people think, and does not let their opinions
steer his life
- Seeks power, but in healthy ways that furthers his goals
All these can be learnt and further developed. You can become that person if you are shy. To all the people who say you cant they are jsut to lazy to try.
In this game excuses are what bring you down so stop f**king making them.
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That's called being a d1ck.
I agree...some of the thigns are ok...he doenst ask he tells?
hey boss I want a fycking raise bytch!
haha your fired!
YOU CANT FIRE ME IM MR ALPHA MALE MAN! :crackup:
RaWBLooD
Master Don Juan
no its moer like
(bosses name is rob)
Hi rob, ive been an intergral part of this company for over 5 years i feel i deserve a raise for my actions and efforts wich advanced the company.
He denies it you can find better.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
no its moer like
(bosses name is rob)
Hi rob, ive been an intergral part of this company for over 5 years i feel i deserve a raise for my actions and efforts wich advanced the company.
He denies it you can find better.
well of course! the way its laid out makes it seem like he is mr hard ass jerk..thats actually a very assertive way to do things.
(bosses name is rob)
Hi rob, ive been an intergral part of this company for over 5 years i feel i deserve a raise for my actions and efforts wich advanced the company.
He denies it you can find better.
well of course! the way its laid out makes it seem like he is mr hard ass jerk..thats actually a very assertive way to do things.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
what?
the alpha males some of you are describing are cavemen from the stone age. These guys don't exist anymore, b/c some of those traits aren't acceptable by society.
I think doubt there's 1 example of alphas. Some guys are more dominant than others.
the alpha males some of you are describing are cavemen from the stone age. These guys don't exist anymore, b/c some of those traits aren't acceptable by society.
I think doubt there's 1 example of alphas. Some guys are more dominant than others.
Well, since the 'alpha male' idea is modeled from wolves, I'd say that the alpha male is the man who is most adept out of a group and confident enough to display this. In wolves, the most physically strong wolf is the 'alpha' because he literally kicks all the other wolve's asses. He has to be willing to risk his hide to do so though.
I mean, if you are the best damn football player in the world, but you don't believe in yourself and never try out for a football team then you have nothing. On the other extreme, if you are the worst football player it doesn't matter how confident of your abilities - you will not be the team captain. If you, however, are the best and confident, you can easily be the 'alpha male' of a football team.
Extend the analogy to any other skill possessed by society. In short, the alpha male has a valuable ability and is confident enough with his ability to take a risk based on that ability.
So how can you be more alpha? First of you need more abilities, and you need to have confidence in those abilities.
I mean, if you are the best damn football player in the world, but you don't believe in yourself and never try out for a football team then you have nothing. On the other extreme, if you are the worst football player it doesn't matter how confident of your abilities - you will not be the team captain. If you, however, are the best and confident, you can easily be the 'alpha male' of a football team.
Extend the analogy to any other skill possessed by society. In short, the alpha male has a valuable ability and is confident enough with his ability to take a risk based on that ability.
So how can you be more alpha? First of you need more abilities, and you need to have confidence in those abilities.
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
Yes ugly people arent as physically strong as hot people
your a toolMost Alphas are not paticulary attractive anyway it has nothing to do with looks. Like i said anyone can change thier personality it is very hard but they can do it. Most people never do because they dont try hard enough and they keep making excuses.
MindOverMatter
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1.) the more time you children spend wondering what alpha is, the more you will realize you're not an alpha.
2.) the more you try to act like an alpha would in order to get women, the less successful you can be, because you cannot replace behaviour that is supposed to be natural, with unnatural. Don't fake your identity, because even if you hook up with her, she will eventually get to learn the real you, and then leave your ass because of deception. Attract women by being yourself, that way you don't have to act like you're something you're not, you can just be yourself and keep her for as long as you want.
If you can't attract women by being yourself, then it's time to improve yourself. No that does not mean pretend to be what you think is alpha. Instead, eliminate your drawbacks. If you're fat or skinny, hit the weights and build yourself a chisled body. If you dress bad, buy some new clothes. Get educated, get a good job, make good money, have a nice place, decent car, etc. Have a good social circle of both male and female friends. do these things for yourself, not for women, and I guarantee you, you wont have to use scripts, or pretend to be an alpha male magician in order to get pvssy.
3.) to those who are saying alphas can be conditioned, you guys are both right and wrong. yes they can be, if they're conditioned from childbirth, or under sudden change in their life (like being sent to a war). but if you think that after a lifetime of being an insecure kid you will now start acting like an alpha and eventually become one in a year or few years, you're deluding yourself. stop pretending to be something you're not, and work/improve on what you have, and use that.
peace out.
p.s. i will no referr to pretend alpha males as clown males.
2.) the more you try to act like an alpha would in order to get women, the less successful you can be, because you cannot replace behaviour that is supposed to be natural, with unnatural. Don't fake your identity, because even if you hook up with her, she will eventually get to learn the real you, and then leave your ass because of deception. Attract women by being yourself, that way you don't have to act like you're something you're not, you can just be yourself and keep her for as long as you want.
If you can't attract women by being yourself, then it's time to improve yourself. No that does not mean pretend to be what you think is alpha. Instead, eliminate your drawbacks. If you're fat or skinny, hit the weights and build yourself a chisled body. If you dress bad, buy some new clothes. Get educated, get a good job, make good money, have a nice place, decent car, etc. Have a good social circle of both male and female friends. do these things for yourself, not for women, and I guarantee you, you wont have to use scripts, or pretend to be an alpha male magician in order to get pvssy.
3.) to those who are saying alphas can be conditioned, you guys are both right and wrong. yes they can be, if they're conditioned from childbirth, or under sudden change in their life (like being sent to a war). but if you think that after a lifetime of being an insecure kid you will now start acting like an alpha and eventually become one in a year or few years, you're deluding yourself. stop pretending to be something you're not, and work/improve on what you have, and use that.
peace out.
p.s. i will no referr to pretend alpha males as clown males.
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
If you set your mind to it you can diminish this trait right? (Again) YES a lot of people on this site have done just that.
So if we can diminish traits why can’t you develop them? There is no reason you can’t unless your lazy
After all and alpha is just a group of traits stuck together to make a strong leadership type guy. So we as people can develop all these traits an Alpha has and in turn become strong leadership types ourselves. We are not pretending to be something were not we are growing and changing. We can go from shy, needy and desperate AFC to confident, charming and funny DJ and you say you can’t develop other traits such as leadership and the common traits of an alpha.
Pfttt like I said ………. Excuses have no place in this game.
Man i looked at some of your previous threads you use to be fat and now you have a hectic body and some nice looking girls. Nice work Congrats
How old are you?
MindOverMatter
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All alphas are leaders, but not all leaders are alphas. what does that mean? leaders know how to connect to people, and get them to work together, or to follow him. they can have charisma, or be great at making conversation, or have lots of empathy that allows them to think like their subjects. Most people assume that this is what an alpha male is, it's not. You can however (as you said) learn leadership skills.
An alpha male is a leader too, but not like this. He simply leads by fear. People are too afraid of him to disagree, so they follow him. He can either be a very physically intimidating guy, or a guy who has the rep of a man you do not want to cross. The alpha gets his way by any means necessery, even if it's illegal. As a result, our society rejects the alphas, and puts them in prison. Most alphas are jailed, and the ones who lead them within jail are the true alphas.
Your average mASFer who thinks that he's an alpha by outtalking some dude in front of his GF is not an alpha. He may have great conversation skills, and know how to connect to the guys girlfriend better then he can, but that does not make him an alpha. Guys may respect him and chose to follow him for his conversation skills etc, but they are not afraid of him, or challenging him. Put that guy next to a true alpha (one of those XYY or XYYY chromosome inmates) and you'll see what a meek beta he really is.
If people aren't intimidated by you now, chances are you're not an alpha nor will ever be one.
to answer your question, im 26.
An alpha male is a leader too, but not like this. He simply leads by fear. People are too afraid of him to disagree, so they follow him. He can either be a very physically intimidating guy, or a guy who has the rep of a man you do not want to cross. The alpha gets his way by any means necessery, even if it's illegal. As a result, our society rejects the alphas, and puts them in prison. Most alphas are jailed, and the ones who lead them within jail are the true alphas.
Your average mASFer who thinks that he's an alpha by outtalking some dude in front of his GF is not an alpha. He may have great conversation skills, and know how to connect to the guys girlfriend better then he can, but that does not make him an alpha. Guys may respect him and chose to follow him for his conversation skills etc, but they are not afraid of him, or challenging him. Put that guy next to a true alpha (one of those XYY or XYYY chromosome inmates) and you'll see what a meek beta he really is.
If people aren't intimidated by you now, chances are you're not an alpha nor will ever be one.
to answer your question, im 26.
BackToTheMack
Senior Don Juan
Alpha means the more superior or the guy who is on top forget all the wolf bulls*ht an Alpha is the guys that leads either by charisma and charm or by fear and rep.
I think the problem here is people view and alpha as a huge guy that hits people who get in his way. A true alpha always looks for alternate ways to handle situations combat is the last option. He uses his wit and charm to defuse potentially violent situations. He is comfortable in his own skin and doesn’t make excuse for him self ect ect.
People who start fights and beat the sh*t out of other people are usually not alphas. They are insecure that why they do it "the empty barrel makes the most sound".
I think the problem here is people view and alpha as a huge guy that hits people who get in his way. A true alpha always looks for alternate ways to handle situations combat is the last option. He uses his wit and charm to defuse potentially violent situations. He is comfortable in his own skin and doesn’t make excuse for him self ect ect.
People who start fights and beat the sh*t out of other people are usually not alphas. They are insecure that why they do it "the empty barrel makes the most sound".
