All Your Clubbing Questions Answered Here

[wolf116]

I'll add a tip if you don't mind lookyoung.

Remember her god dam name!!!

God that was awkward.

 

[snowdog]

What to do if you hate the music in every club and can't dance for sh*t?

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Nice thread my albo brother .

I wanted to ask a quick question . How to get in the mood before going out ?

We all know its very important .

I have my way (made couple threads about it ) but i would like to hear some other and maybe more effective ways .

Thanks :UP:

 

[lookyoung]

Have you ever cluubed in michigan?

How long do you usually stay at the club?

No, I have never clubbed in michigan. I usually stay at the club anywere from 2 to 5 hours depending on how much fun I am having. The best time to get to the club is probably midnight. 12-145am is the prime of picking up woman. This is when the club is the most populated and people have the right buzz going. If you don't have VIP or hookups to get in you may want to go earlier because this at this time the lines are longest. For a safe bet go early.

Usually at around 230-300 in the morning the male to female ratio tips in the womans favor. That is how its here in Chicago were clubs close anywere from 2am-430am.

 

[lookyoung]

thanks lookyoung/ PRmoon. The only reason I ask for an alternative to buying online is so I can try it on. If it fits anything like an express medium, I should be good though.

edit: I like the other suggestions you listed too. A bit cheaper too!

I am 5"11 195 pounds and on the muscular side. I bought my affliction gear x-large and it fitted me just fine. Extreme Coutoure sizes run big. I bought an X-large and it was A double X.

 

[lookyoung]

What to do if you hate the music in every club and can't dance for sh*t?

Well there must be some type of music you like. There are clubs for every type of music. But if your one of those rare people that hate music than sports bars are for you. This will also be good for you since you hate dancing. Some people hate club, they prefer the bar scene. There are usually a fair amount of woman at sports bars.

Just let me warn you woman at the club tend to be a little hotter, and there are more of them.

 

[lookyoung]

Nice thread my albo brother .I wanted to ask a quick question . How to get in the mood before going out

Thanks brother! Well the best way to get in the mood before going out is being around guys that are positive and actually talk to woman. This gets you in a good mindframe to approach.

Have a few drinks. I would say 2-3 before going in the club this will put you in the mindset to sarge.

You have to workout during the week. This improves your looks and your well being. There are woman at the club that will choose a guy with muscles just because of it . Most guys are not muscular so when you are you stand out. Being muscular makes you more confident and this will help get you in the right mindframe at the club.

Wear something that suits you and that you like. This way your comfortable. If your wearing the tux your mom picked out for you, your probably not going to be in the mood to approach.

Read Paradox thread on Rejection. Its located in the bible or just search the name Paradox on this site. This gets you ready to go.


If you do all these things than you should be ready mentally and physically to sarge at the club.

 

[darkjedi]

Hey lookyoung, I gotta get a few more tips out of you before I hit the club again tonight

How do you get over approach anxiety? For example, sometimes I see a chick or a group of chicks I want to game and I just can't build up the ballz to do it. I've thought it over and sometimes it's fear of rejection slighty or she may have a BF, or she may be a b!tch. A few drinks in me helps, but I'd rather not have to resort to that all the time. How do you get over that feeling?

How do you handle b!tchy women at the club?

You had mentioned that you need a good connection built up with a women for her to leave with you and head back to your place. If you have the convo going, but have not kissed her yet how do you go about getting her to kiss and what do you say to her to covertly ask her back to your place? Keep in mind I don't want to spend the entire night gaming her if I'm just going to only end up with her number.

Lastly, what's the best way to game chicks that are posting at the bar or on the patio of a club and are not ready to dance? I find this the most difficult cause I'm a good dancer and I can leverage that in my favor, but if they are not wanting to dance I have little to work with. My goal is to game them up, build interest, kino, kiss, ect...

Again, thanks again for all the great advice! Hopefully I can make you proud tonight.

 

[lookyoung]

Hey lookyoung, I gotta get a few more tips out of you before I hit the club again tonight

How do you get over approach anxiety? For example, sometimes I see a chick or a group of chicks I want to game and I just can't build up the ballz to do it. I've thought it over and sometimes it's fear of rejection slighty or she may have a BF, or she may be a b!tch. A few drinks in me helps, but I'd rather not have to resort to that all the time. How do you get over that feeling?

How do you handle b!tchy women at the club?

You had mentioned that you need a good connection built up with a women for her to leave with you and head back to your place. If you have the convo going, but have not kissed her yet how do you go about getting her to kiss and what do you say to her to covertly ask her back to your place? Keep in mind I don't want to spend the entire night gaming her if I'm just going to only end up with her number.

Lastly, what's the best way to game chicks that are posting at the bar or on the patio of a club and are not ready to dance? I find this the most difficult cause I'm a good dancer and I can leverage that in my favor, but if they are not wanting to dance I have little to work with. My goal is to game them up, build interest, kino, kiss, ect...

Again, thanks again for all the great advice! Hopefully I can make you proud tonight.

A good way to get over approach anxiety is to read Paradox thread on rejection. Also look at killapetehogs version of the bible there is a whole chapter dedicated to approaching Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on DJ bible. This should be more than enough to get you in the right mind frame to approach. Remember one thing we ALL face REJECTION. I don't care if your the best looking guy in the world you will get rejected. This should build character in you. Its not easy and if it was gaming woman would not be as fun. Its challenging for all of us.

As far as b1tchy woman go I don't deal with them. If I approach a girl and she acts like a disrespectful cvnt I leave. The best way to deal with b1tches is to not deal with them.

If you have a good convo with her and she doesn't want to kiss you than I would probably get the number and leave. I would say nice meeting you, shake her hand and give her a kiss on the cheek. Chances are if she has not kissed you she will not go back to your place. Plus there are too many woman at the club to worry about one. Look at one of my earlier responses in the thread for the kissing tip.

The girls at the bar and the patio are the best girls to talk to in my opinion. they are more approachable at that time than while they are dancing. For this you need to get good at small talk. You just need to go up to them with confidence. What you say is not as important as how confident you are saying it. You could go up to a girl and say I love your hair. Nice purse. After that talk about baseball,boobs,workingout,school, just find something that she likes to talk about and fire away.

Also remember the key in the club is too have fun. Even if a girl rejects you should still have fun. Before approaching woman look at them like there beneath you. Look at them like every single one of them wants to fvck you. Remember No man will ever get with every single woman, but that is what makes sarging so much fun. Don't take woman you approach seriously.

Now get out there and approach some girls at the club and make me proud. lol

 

[snowdog]

Well there must be some type of music you like. There are clubs for every type of music. But if your one of those rare people that hate music than sports bars are for you. This will also be good for you since you hate dancing. Some people hate club, they prefer the bar scene. There are usually a fair amount of woman at sports bars.

Just let me warn you woman at the club tend to be a little hotter, and there are more of them.

No, you see, that's the problem. I love music. I love music probably more then anyone on this forum. I love rock music, and I hate all that soulless techno and electro sh*t.

I like going to clubs because of the hot chicks there. For the rest I hate everything about it. Costs a lot of money, lots of idiots there trying to pick a fight and I got to be really drunk to enjoy myself, which costs a lot of money and increases the risk of me getting into a fight. ....see where I'm going?

 

[darkjedi]

A good way to get over approach anxiety is to read Paradox thread on rejection. Also look at killapetehogs version of the bible there is a whole chapter dedicated to approaching Scroll down to the bottom of the page and click on DJ bible. This should be more than enough to get you in the right mind frame to approach. Remember one thing we ALL face REJECTION. I don't care if your the best looking guy in the world you will get rejected. This should build character in you. Its not easy and if it was gaming woman would not be as fun. Its challenging for all of us.

As far as b1tchy woman go I don't deal with them. If I approach a girl and she acts like a disrespectful cvnt I leave. The best way to deal with b1tches is to not deal with them.

If you have a good convo with her and she doesn't want to kiss you than I would probably get the number and leave. I would say nice meeting you, shake her hand and give her a kiss on the cheek. Chances are if she has not kissed you she will not go back to your place. Plus there are too many woman at the club to worry about one. Look at one of my earlier responses in the thread for the kissing tip.

The girls at the bar and the patio are the best girls to talk to in my opinion. they are more approachable at that time than while they are dancing. For this you need to get good at small talk. You just need to go up to them with confidence. What you say is not as important as how confident you are saying it. You could go up to a girl and say I love your hair. Nice purse. After that talk about baseball,boobs,workingout,school, just find something that she likes to talk about and fire away.

Also remember the key in the club is too have fun. Even if a girl rejects you should still have fun. Before approaching woman look at them like there beneath you. Look at them like every single one of them wants to fvck you. Remember No man will ever get with every single woman, but that is what makes sarging so much fun. Don't take woman you approach seriously.

Now get out there and approach some girls at the club and make me proud. lol

Truly Golden! I'll post again on how my night goes. You sir are the man!

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Thanks brother! Well the best way to get in the mood before going out is being around guys that are positive and actually talk to woman. This gets you in a good mindframe to approach.

Have a few drinks. I would say 2-3 before going in the club this will put you in the mindset to sarge.

You have to workout during the week. This improves your looks and your well being. There are woman at the club that will choose a guy with muscles just because of it . Most guys are not muscular so when you are you stand out. Being muscular makes you more confident and this will help get you in the right mindframe at the club.

Wear something that suits you and that you like. This way your comfortable. If your wearing the tux your mom picked out for you, your probably not going to be in the mood to approach.

Read Paradox thread on Rejection. Its located in the bible or just search the name Paradox on this site. This gets you ready to go.


If you do all these things than you should be ready mentally and physically to sarge at the club.

Thanks man . I have no problems with AA or with being rejected . Most of the time , i open successfully , but sometimes , when im not in mood , i can see big changes on my game .

On the days that im energic and on the mood , mann , im unstoppable lol .

Thanks for advice . Rep

 

[lookyoung]

No, you see, that's the problem. I love music. I love music probably more then anyone on this forum. I love rock music, and I hate all that soulless techno and electro sh*t.

I like going to clubs because of the hot chicks there. For the rest I hate everything about it. Costs a lot of money, lots of idiots there trying to pick a fight and I got to be really drunk to enjoy myself, which costs a lot of money and increases the risk of me getting into a fight. ....see where I'm going?

Well 90% of clubs play either rap, hip hop or techno. Most clubs do not play rock music. Me I personally love 80's music, but there are no clubs that I know of that play this type of music. The reason is that clubs follow the trendy scene. If there was a bar in Chicago that played 80's music I would be there in a heartbeat, but I bet the woman would not be as hot. I would go there just because I love the music however. Clubbing can be expensive but you could off set the cost by going there and getting a nice buzz at home. As far as fighting goes most situations are avoidable so I would not make an issue of that.

Some people are not made for the club scene. Most people I know as a matter of fact do not like to club. There is nothing wrong with that. I live in Chicago and to be honest with you I think I know a few bars that play rock music but not any clubs.

There are pros and cons in every aspect of the game. whether you sarge online, at school, at work, the coldapproach, clubs, bars every aspect of the game has some negatives to it and its up to you to decide if its worth it and what suits you best.

 

[lookyoung]

Anyone has any more question I am availabe to take them on right now regarding the club scene.

 

[Effington]

Wow, this thread got popular.

In regards to a few questions on the area, I went to Zero Gravity once when I was like 18, and felt old. There is a bar but no one is over 21 there. I was told there were a lot of drugs going on there.

I hooked up with a girl at North Beach once (Naperville or Schaumberg, I think?), that's a great bar, with a couple bowling lanes, a couple beach volleyball courts, a stage for bands, a dance floor, and a pretty sizeable front bar. There's also one in the city.

An approach I've found that seems to work is to get an in with a group by first talking to the guys. Any approach of a group is really open to scrutiny, especially when there are a bunch of guys around only a few girls. Befriending one of the guys and getting intros all around have suited me much better.

 

[ChrizZ]

Aight, I'm in the scene, officially. I'm connected, since I DJ (and I'm damn good). I know the drug dealers, DJ's and the club owners. Hell, I know the contractors who build the clubs.

Why am I not getting girls????????
I have $$$, the clothes, the coke, and the music rep. Even I have a hard time thinking looks are that important.

It's because you are short

 

[lookyoung]

Aight, I'm in the scene, officially. I'm connected, since I DJ (and I'm damn good). I know the drug dealers, DJ's and the club owners. Hell, I know the contractors who build the clubs.

Why am I not getting girls????????
I have $$$, the clothes, the coke, and the music rep. Even I have a hard time thinking looks are that important.

Well you have the social value thing going for you as far as clubs go. Its probably one of the most important things to have. You may be giving off a bad vibe or something. post a pic of yourself and I will critique it.

 

[ChrizZ]

Well you have the social value thing going for you as far as clubs go. Its probably one of the most important things to have. You may be giving off a bad vibe or something. post a pic of yourself and I will critique it.

Wutang is a well known negative pu$$y. He already posted a pic of himself.

Don't even think of helping him. We already tried that millions of times.

 

[lookyoung]

http://photos-714.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v119/62/1/689820714/n689820714_393712_1131.jpg
(I'm the dude in the white D&G shirt on the left).
http://photos-f.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v51/136/55/48304824/n48304824_30346677_2139.jpg

Short dude in the middle with black shirt...I look unusually good in this photo...basically, this is the absolute best I could possibly look, just to provide contrast.

Well to be totally honest with you as far as looks go your not bad looking at all. I think your better looking than most men out there. It has to be something with your attitude or body language. What exactly is it that you think your doing wrong? Maybe your depressed since people say your so negative and your giving off a sh1tty vibe. And if you are depressed stay away from the drugs.

Ok now back to the clubbing game. Maybe your not getting girls at the club because your too busy working DJing. Go out on nites when your not turning tables would probably be a good start. Do you have any specific questions?

 

[lookyoung]

Another question how tall are you? And what part of the world do you live in?