I have alot of experience regarding the club game. If anyone has any questions or needs any tips or answers regarding the club game than all questions will be answered here by me. I feel I could really help others with the club and bar scene.
wolf116 said:What should I wear?
This question really has nothing to do with clubbing. If you have a ONS with a girl you met at a club than than the same rule applies if you met the girl at starbucks.SinJester said:How do you begin to create something more substantial than a ONS in a club/party enviroment?
You don't need to dance to pick up woman. There are many woman along the bar that you could talk too. Dancing in a sense is overrated when looking for the initial pickup. When girls are on the dance floor most of them dont' want to be bothered . I think that guys that go up to dance with girls without conversating with them first are setting themselves up for failure.wolf116 said:Should I even bother going out to clubs if I don't intend to dance?
What is your pick up method?
Dose getting drunk increase or decrease YOUR chances of picking up?
I don't really understand what your supposed to do when you go out, especially if you don't dance or drink. Are you just always approaching new people to talk too. If I wanted to hang with my buddies I'd stay home but when I go out I hardly ever see people approaching randoms.
Do you ever go out alone?
I usually open up one girl that I find attractive even is she is in a group. It helps when you have friends with you because than they can keep her friends busy while you run game with the girl you have approached.wolf116 said:Thanks that dose help but I have more questions lol
Do you open groups or just lone women? I don't know if I'd be able to open a group and it's hard to find the lone wolf.
I have some muscles down but I will never be able to dance without extensive lessons.
Do you think you could be successful just going out with one buddy if he is approaching as well?
The best way to do this is isolate her from the other guys. Ask her straight up I would really like to talk to you, and lets have a seat. Most clubs and lounges have sofas were you could sit at. IF she takes the invitation and sits down with you and you guys are engaged in good conversation than buy her a drink. Better yet do a shot together. If the conversation is going really well than you ask her if you could have a kiss. If she refuses say something along the lines of I wasn't going to kiss you anyway I was just testing you. You passed the test now give me your number.baurman said:What's the best way to get a chick to be attached to you that flirts EVERY guy in the club? Not just you. You dance with her, but she dances with every other guy too. How do you hook up with her?
my 2c, as I club and bar a lotwolf116 said:Do you open groups or just lone women? I don't know if I'd be able to open a group and it's hard to find the lone wolf.
I have some muscles down but I will never be able to dance without extensive lessons.
Do you think you could be successful just going out with one buddy if he is approaching as well?
So you go for the number not a ONS? I was just going to ask her if she'd like to have some drinks at my place.lookyoung said:The best way to do this is isolate her from the other guys. Ask her straight up I would really like to talk to you, and lets have a seat. Most clubs and lounges have sofas were you could sit at. IF she takes the invitation and sits down with you and you guys are engaged in good conversation than buy her a drink. Better yet do a shot together. If the conversation is going really well than you ask her if you could have a kiss. If she refuses say something along the lines of I wasn't going to kiss you anyway I was just testing you. You passed the test now give me your number.
Well actually the bar girl and the starbucks girl are not really all that much different. The girl acts different when she is at the club. The boos are flowing and she is all dressed up. Basically what I am saying is if the girl is attracted to you than talk to her like you would a girl at starbucks. There both the same and all woman like the same things.SinJester said:Thanks for the reply but the enviroment is obviouly different at a club than at starbucks. At clubs girls are a lot more open in general but also more open to a ONS. I was guessing it would be along the lines of creating more rapport and remaining congruent to your actions the next time you see her.
It's kind of useless if the girls that are interested in you are girls that you aren't interested, or you don't get any interest in at all. But I think what you are trying to tell me is not to change how you act if you are succesfull, but if you aren't then you just need to work on yourself in general. Would that be right?
Also great question baurman
Well if she kissed you than you go for the ONS. And if she doesn't than you go for the number. Usually a girl will have to kiss you first at the club if your going to have a ONS with her.wolf116 said:So you go for the number not a ONS? I was just going to ask her if she'd like to have some drinks at my place.