All my relationships fail because I want fresh pooz.

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I’m 47 and I end all my relationships because I get tired/bored of having sex with the same woman. All of the women I’ve been in relationships with, were great. I need new vagina after the honeymoon phase is over every single-time. When will this wear off Lol. Anyone experiencing this at my age?
 

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You are more of a Thrill of the Hunt man vs. a Pleasure of Sex man.

 

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I have the same issue. I think most guys are hard wired for variety.
I was married for 20 years and was faithful as I took it seriously plus had kids to raise. Post divorce I’m finding it impossible to continue to be enthusiastic about seeing a woman when the bedroom action becomes boring no matter how many other good qualities she may have.
At 56 now I can see the rest of my life being a series of short term relationships (interspersed with many dry spells and women of questionable quality) until I end up single, aged out and visiting Pattaya on a regular basis.
I still think I’ll be having much more fun than many of the guys in LTRs where the excitement of bedroom action is just a distant memory.
You only live once as far as we know and bedroom action is one of the most enjoyable things in life at least to me. Choose your own pleasures.
 

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Post divorce I’m finding it impossible to continue to be enthusiastic about seeing a woman when the bedroom action becomes boring no matter how many other good qualities she may have
Find yourself a Gasper, then take her up on all those offers to put your hands around her neck, and choke to your heart's delight. It won't be long before this sort of love play gets out of hand...

Henceforth, every urge you have to f-ck a woman's brains out will be reflexively followed by memories of your last bedmate running out of breath while you were pumping away on top of her, whereupon her bowels and bladder emptied out onto those silk sheets you spent a small fortune on


Eliminate your enthusiasm for sex altogether, and you'll never again have to sweat growing bored of a woman o_O :eek:
 

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Some men never mature and stay like Peter Pan in Neverland because they don't want to grow up.
I don't think it means the man is immature. That's usually an attack line from females when they see a guy not settling down.

As long as he's honest with himself and those he dates then he should live the life that's best for him. People are going to criticize no matter what so best to be true to one's self.
 

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I’m 47 and I end all my relationships because I get tired/bored of having sex with the same woman. All of the women I’ve been in relationships with, were great. I need new vagina after the honeymoon phase is over every single-time. When will this wear off Lol. Anyone experiencing this at my age?
OP this will never go away. I'm around your age (a bit older) and settled down now, but I still want a fresh roll in the hay. Only difference for me is I'm not that interested in the effort to get it. Sure if I were single I'd slay but I also don't see continuous young-pu$$y hunting as sustainable as I age. That and having had a slew of women in my life, I've seen and done it all (around the world too) and when I look at a hot young thing I often just see a pile of problems, lol. However I do still go out and flirt and if a quickie were to happen (no strings) I wouldn't say no, necessarily.

Anyway you do you, don't feel bad about your preferences. Life is short and to be enjoyed. If you are on this forum you probably are not living in a war zone so you should live life to the fullest and be grateful.
 

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I've always been a hunter and found lots of pleasure in seducing and dropping panties for the first few times. Its a power thing for me. Its a new and exciting adventure to go on until it isn't.

What keeps me in a LTR is the fact that I don't have anything to prove to myself anymore. I don't enjoy sharing my life with multiple random females and then starting over 2months later. I also realize that attractive women with good brains, that are submissive are pretty rare. I also have better things in my life to do than chase after women in bars every weekend or spend time doing online dating.

What helps me in a LTR is having wild/dirty p0rnstar sex. I get similar enjoyment from seducing a woman so much in the bedroom that she gives her entire body to me and is happy to let me do anything I want to her. Turning a woman into a bedroom pleaser is similar to seducing one for the first time. It takes things to new levels and keeps me engaged.

I think it really boils down to finding the right girl and realizing although new pu$$y is great, so can having something solid in a committed relationship.
 

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I’m 47 and I end all my relationships because I get tired/bored of having sex with the same woman. All of the women I’ve been in relationships with, were great. I need new vagina after the honeymoon phase is over every single-time. When will this wear off Lol. Anyone experiencing this at my age?
I think you have bimbo burnout. Maybe you need to challenge yourself and find a better class of women who won't bore you this easily.
 

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Most men and to some extent women do too (at least before menopause) it's just how you go about controlling the urges / lust

Lust is a deadly sin for a reason

Women are naturally by default far far more seductive than men so as with most things in life males have an uphill battle here

I'm kind of coming to terms with the fact its not so much the Puss I'm lusting for because once i get stuck in most of it all feels , looks and tastes the same

yea some is marginally better , some girls are sexier than others and some girls will do things others won't

But generally its all much the same pump , pump ,pump = nut

All of a females power is derived from her sexuality if you play into that you will be her slave forever

Remove it from her and she becomes your slave forever
 

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I dont think men were designed ( or evolved ) to be monogamous. If you were an ancient Muslim you would have a couple wives.

If you were a rich man in Bible times you would have concubines and a wife.

In China there is a whole national
holiday called Mistress Day.

I struggle with the same thing.
 

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I’m 47 and I end all my relationships because I get tired/bored of having sex with the same woman. All of the women I’ve been in relationships with, were great. I need new vagina after the honeymoon phase is over every single-time. When will this wear off Lol. Anyone experiencing this at my age?
I am 41 and am the same. Only doing non-monogamy was my answer.

Started as social phobic in youth, nervous to talk to classmates and aunts, getting into pua-material at 15 seeing my female classmates as unreachable supersexy goddesses while i am ugly duckling, first success=gf still only 8 years later at 23, basically my whole life trying to get better socially - to get my pp into more pussies. Laycount around 180.
I am highly functioning, it's not like my work suffers because of sex addiction, i don't watch much porn, i don't do anything that i am ashamed off, perhaps once every 4 months i spend 60eur on a prostitute - it's just that i make ****ing girls a high priority in life.

Whenever i asked myself 'What do i really want in life, what does excite me?' - it always came as clear number one. And other 'goals' were basically just means to that end.

Nothing in the ****ing world feels as exciting to me as being on a Date and have this situation of connection and physicality with this hot woman i am attracted to, and then kissing and sex. By far. Nothing comes close.
I am always newly excited again when i meet some woman and want into her pants, it doesn't get old.
So a date where she is hot and is turned on by me is great, first sex is great, sex where i already know her and we have great sex is great (but new women are more 'exciting', if i wait one or more weeks known girls become more exciting again)

I obviously have rejection trauma, avoidant-anxious attachment style, i get triggered when i get rejected, i built a 'safety net' of ****buddies and 'feel trapped' in monogamy, surely mommy issues and daddy issues, getting high on sexual approval.

I went to 6 psychotherapists in my life, rogers talk therapy, cbt, gestalt therapy, viktor frankl. Did some big programs to feel old emotions, like nervous guy, byron katie, hypnosis. Did a week long seminar 'childhood deconditioning' looking at mum and dad stuff. Did whole sedona method course, emdr, eft, mc2, 'nervous guy' program eliminating beliefs, Julian transformation mastery program going through the past. Also Ajahuasca and low dose mdma.

At this point i think i'll just die with this.

Hm. Bilzerian says that money and ***** are a black hole.. can't never really get enough of it..
 

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I saw those interviews with Bilzerian. The guy was having physical intimacy with 2-9 different women per day for years (or so he claims). He said very few guys hit their hedonic adaptation limit but he did and it ceased to give him any enjoyment, it became just another thing he did during his day like brushing his teeth. It became normalised for him.
Interestingly he’s now back on Instagram with pictures of him being surrounded by women after having a break to reset his desire levels so it seems even he can’t resist it. He did confess to a s*x addiction though.
 

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