After month of nofap - keep it longer?

[mrgoodstuff]

You obviously did not read the above post. I don't think it's possible for any woman to excite me to make me hard without herbal assistance.
I don't have the same body like I had when I was 16 years old. Need herbals/viagara now unless proven otherwise.

You might need herbals. I was saying when I had women that their bodies excited me I wasn't caring about porn or jagging off. I could get the same or better at home with my woman .

 

[MatureDJ]

You're just repressing yourself. I think you need to visit Chaturbate.com and get some relief. Your "rig" will send a signal to your brain that you are not "moving the merchandise", and will come up with a very nice nocturnal dream to relieve the situation. Hopefully it will be as glorious as the one I had as a high-school lad that featured Ellie Mae Clampett dripping-wet, buck-naked in my shower stall.

 

[MatureDJ]

A guy should be having sex. So start working on that. When your sex life is right you'll get pvzzy and head on demand. The last thing on your mind will be choking your chicken . Relying on masturbating for our sexual outlet is pathetic.

No, what will happen is that ugly women will start to appear more attractive. Then after you had your release, you will be ashamed for sticking it in such a low-genetic-quality woman.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No, what will happen is that ugly women will start to appear more attractive. Then after you had your release, you will be ashamed for sticking it in such a low-genetic-quality woman.

She can be ugly with a good body, good sex and a good personality . We call those Butter faces .

 

[MatureDJ]

Are you fvcking? It's imperative that s guy here on SS is fvcking consistently. Your cawk needs a home and your hand doesn't count.

Once you have a great sex life the last thing on your mind will be choking your chicken.

I think what is going on here is that he has not been very successful at finding a proper receptacle for his bodily fluids; had he been getting regularly sexed, the need to fap would be completely obviated. The only question is whether nofap somehow makes the man a more attuned sexual hunter. I contend that the only thing it does it make anything with a heart and a hole that says yes look desirable.

 

[MatureDJ]

She can be ugly with a good body, good sex and a good personality . We call those Butter faces .

It's a form of coping, although I can remember a gal whose body was literally like an anime character but whose face was a bit off (yes, I hit it hard). Still, at some point the facial ugliness can overwhelm any amount of figure hotness.

 

[MatureDJ]

For the record, I was married and during the marriage fapping did occur to the same sexually suggestive photos of women I had looked at before I got married. There was still a strong pull towards fapping. It's actually now that I'm divorced and my life is more simple and there is less stress overall, that there is less of pull to be fapping. I think stress and feeling that life is out of control leads to fapping/viewing suggestive photos rather than feeling tranquil. Stress is more likely caused by dealing with women.

Aside from the time when wifey is pregnant or otherwise in not good health, there should be no such thing as "marriage fapping". And even wifey is pregnant, she can always submit the orifice on the other end, or yank out a happy ending.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Aside from the time when wifey is pregnant or otherwise in not good health, there should be no such thing as "marriage fapping". And even wifey is pregnant, she can always submit the orifice on the other end, or yank out a happy ending.

She can hand job, face bang, rear end and even vaginal up to like the last month .

 

[corrector]

Aside from the time when wifey is pregnant or otherwise in not good health, there should be no such thing as "marriage fapping". And even wifey is pregnant, she can always submit the orifice on the other end, or yank out a happy ending.

If you have a happy marriage then I would have to agree with that. If you can't have a happy marriage after your wedding and the whole thing is toxic from the get-go then I'd have to say "whatever". You have annulments in America. You do not have annulments in Canada so if you get screwed you get screwed. In this case I got screwed. My marriage didn't even last for two months. I really do not care if I fapped or not in that marriage in hindsight.

 

[corrector]

Oh yeah, I almost forgot, there is also a risk of going to hell if you fap too much. Bunch of youtube videos out saying people went there because they liked fapping and also thought they were saved (i.e. born-again Christian) too.

 

[MrJack]

It's interesting but no-fap has not made me objectify women less. I know mathematically that a woman's assets (bum and breasts, etc..) are going to be arousing unless she's wearing very loose clothing and a long dress. So, someone with unusually large assets are still going to be noticed. To say that I'm at a level where I'm oblivious to assets it would depend on what the woman is wearing in public. (i.e. if she's wearing tight jeans and happened to bend over in front of me, and you look at that, etc... or if the jeans have strong camel-toe lines), or if you are noticing bikinis, then I find it's hard not to objectify in these situations. However, I think the woman's choice of clothing should be partially to blame for that.

Well yea obviously you aren’t just going to stop noticing women’s assets. If anything nofap makes you notice them MORE and make you MORE attracted to them.

I guess what I meant when saying “objectifying” them was to say that you don’t come off as a creepy porn addict rapist who just wants to fvck them.

You will come off more as a normal alpha man who just wants to fvck them.

Big difference. At least that has been my experience.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Well done on manning up and cutting a pernicious habit out of your life. If fapping is considered the norm today, that doesn't say much about our culture. Reject the norm for the excellent!

in my opinion Nofap is a long term process, which is about changing your 'deep state'. The misery of most people's lives stems from a miserable state where they are split against themselves. In a vicious circle, the passions are at war with reason, and turn into addictions. One goes from a bad state to a worse state. Nofap is the beginning of a virtuous circle, which reinforces itself. It takes time, but one's state improves, which leads to more resilience, which leads to a better state etc. It is this state that women find attractive imo for it puts you in an almost childlike frame where all seems well with the world.

State is something that the 'pick up community' has also picked up on. But that is more like surface state/ mood, that ones needs to pump their mood in order to get into state. It is very temporary, and can lead to mood swings. Deep state is about creating a solid sense of equanimity within yourself. It also creates an attractive vibe for the woman, and usually the right kind of women.

A man who has to get his porn fix every other day is like a baby crying [this is effectively his inner state] because the sugar-coated dummy has fallen from his mouth. It really is quite sad and pathetic. I suspect there is a reason that it is so prevalent now... it keeps men weak.

 

[skinnyguy]

If you have a happy marriage then I would have to agree with that. If you can't have a happy marriage after your wedding and the whole thing is toxic from the get-go then I'd have to say "whatever". You have annulments in America. You do not have annulments in Canada so if you get screwed you get screwed. In this case I got screwed. My marriage didn't even last for two months. I really do not care if I fapped or not in that marriage in hindsight.

Damn why did it end after two months?

 

[corrector]

Damn why did it end after two months?

Her family and friends poisoned her mind against me because she changed from being a simple nice unicorn girl to being a materialistic hor and that killed everything. She asked for a divorce first and I tried to make the marriage work. It's such a bad break-up that we haven't really talked to each other (i.e. apart from anything necessary for the divorce proceedings). It's a classic textbook case that love and loyalty is not enough for a marriage and at the end of the day it's all about money and your overall SMV. The lesson here is that even the best types of women do not care if they screw you after since they can just monkey-branch after you put in a large investment. This is why MGTOW makes allot of sense to avoid scenarios like mine. If the SMV is not there then it's best not to get married or put in any investment in that direction and break-it off before anything looks like it could get that close as it's likely infatuation and nothing real about it. I've gone into bankruptcy because I went into allot of debt co-paying for an expensive wedding. This is what I get for following the Bible's teaching about marriage and avoiding sex before marriage.

 

[skinnyguy]

Her family and friends poisoned her mind against me because she changed from being a simple nice unicorn girl to being a materialistic hor and that killed everything. She asked for a divorce first and I tried to make the marriage work. It's such a bad break-up that we haven't really talked to each other (i.e. apart from anything necessary for the divorce proceedings). It's a classic textbook case that love and loyalty is not enough for a marriage and at the end of the day it's all about money and your overall SMV. The lesson here is that even the best types of women do not care if they screw you after since they can just monkey-branch after you put in a large investment. This is why MGTOW makes allot of sense to avoid scenarios like mine. If the SMV is not there then it's best not to get married or put in any investment in that direction and break-it off before anything looks like it could get that close as it's likely infatuation and nothing real about it. I've gone into bankruptcy because I went into allot of debt co-paying for an expensive wedding. This is what I get for following the Bible's teaching about marriage and avoiding sex before marriage.

Interestingly, if your SMV is TOO high, you shouldn’t get married either.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Interestingly, if your SMV is TOO high, you shouldn’t get married either.

The family won't like that either.

 

[ERB]

You mean ex-wife, Divorced over 4 years ago.

The results are consistent even dealing with the two prostitutes I ever dealt with in my life. I visited a Spanish, from Columbia, prostitute with a THICK body (i.e. my ex-wife had a relatively think frame) that was solid, who even bent over a bed and would have let me do her in the bum, except I could not take it out of my underware and it never got hard. The second Spanish, from Brazil, hooker I dealt with a day later, I used a herbal before seeing her and this time it went hard (i.e. but this time I took it out of the underware and let her suck it while her bum was on my face). Based on these two experiments, it appears that for that to get hard that a herbal was still used on the second prostitute, although I felt the first prostitute had a body type that I really, really , like and still have sex-fantasies sometimes come up based on that 4-year old encounter and feeling 100% satisfied that I dealt with such a body-type lady.

What herbal did you take? I’m at 30 days nofap no porn or masterbaition. I am dating and have issues more often than not.

 

[corrector]

What herbal did you take? I’m at 30 days nofap no porn or masterbaition. I am dating and have issues more often than not.

It's been since 2014 or about 4 years ago, so my memory is foggy. Think it was Max-pro or something like that.

 

[R.U.G.]

Here's a crazy idea, just find a woman to have sex with.

 

[Mike32ct]

Well yea obviously you aren’t just going to stop noticing women’s assets. If anything nofap makes you notice them MORE and make you MORE attracted to them.

I guess what I meant when saying “objectifying” them was to say that you don’t come off as a creepy porn addict rapist who just wants to fvck them.

You will come off more as a normal alpha man who just wants to fvck them.

Big difference. At least that has been my experience.

Bingo.

NoFap makes me more comfortable around attractive women. I can make better eye contact and be much less “distracted” by low cut tops lol.

On the other hand, after a Fap binge, I’m awkward af for a day or two after.