After month of nofap - keep it longer?

[sosousage]

good sides of nofap:
- more testosterone
- more confidene
- less caring about sex


bad sides of nofap:
- i also care more about sex, it sounds retarded yes, but in the same time nofap made me care less about women and care more about them as well. I mean first weeks made me not care about women, but right now it makes me date them so:
- it makes you date women,but tbh these women i get to date are crap regardless my look, i only get hurt/rejected/dissapointed/catfished. i can phuck fat women but i dont want, only slim women i get to date have ego in clouds and just want to play me, not actually **** me, jeez wut. im totally opposite of bigdave, i have almost no requirements except:
- her not being fat
- her not being face deformed
- so technically it makes you date women which is GOOD but if you only date sh****ty women then its BAD because you will experience mainly failures.

im resetting tinder right now but i think only idiot does same thing for next time and expects different results (although im better at all that **** now that i was 2 yrs before, its still bad, because i dont have my own place and im limited to women who will let me fuk them at their place)


anyway you guys should try nofap+cold showers+testosterone exercises(compound ones preferably using your body weight)+keto diet it makes you literally active as fuk


althrough this thread is in complaining form, i do have one chick that i failed to meet in my age (shes 24 i am 23) asking what i do in the evening i assume she wants to meet.
ill give it a go i guess but not gonna lie haha my first dates with slim andbeautiful women are somewhere near trauma level hahaha always rejected but lets do it

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So the slim females are playing games?

Are you more available for them or treating them extra vs the others?

You might have to play more games on the slim ones, lie, flake, be less available . They are used to men pandering to them.

 

[MrJack]

good sides of nofap:
- more testosterone
- more confidene
- less caring about sex


bad sides of nofap:
- i also care more about sex, it sounds retarded yes, but in the same time nofap made me care less about women and care more about them as well. I mean first weeks made me not care about women, but right now it makes me date them so:
- it makes you date women,but tbh these women i get to date are crap regardless my look, i only get hurt/rejected/dissapointed/catfished. i can phuck fat women but i dont want, only slim women i get to date have ego in clouds and just want to play me, not actually **** me, jeez wut. im totally opposite of bigdave, i have almost no requirements except:
- her not being fat
- her not being face deformed
- so technically it makes you date women which is GOOD but if you only date sh****ty women then its BAD because you will experience mainly failures.

im resetting tinder right now but i think only idiot does same thing for next time and expects different results (although im better at all that **** now that i was 2 yrs before, its still bad, because i dont have my own place and im limited to women who will let me fuk them at their place)


anyway you guys should try nofap+cold showers+testosterone exercises(compound ones preferably using your body weight)+keto diet it makes you literally active as fuk


althrough this thread is in complaining form, i do have one chick that i failed to meet in my age (shes 24 i am 23) asking what i do in the evening i assume she wants to meet.
ill give it a go i guess but not gonna lie haha my first dates with slim andbeautiful women are somewhere near trauma level hahaha always rejected but lets do it

Keep going. I just got a reminder on my phone that I just hit day 75. I’m on easy mode which means I can still 0rgasm from women and I can whack it with no p0rn but only whacking it if I’m dying and need to lol.

As of now the last 75 days I’ve only got off with women maybe 3-4 times and have whacked it about 3 times to touch only.

I’ve noticed I feel kind of “bleh” for a couple days after whacking it. After that I’m back to feeling more energy mentally better.

You probs didn’t used to have a heavy problem with too much p0rn though like I did, so I’m actually doing it to recover and “heal” my brain. The benefits have been great but I’m in “flatline” at the moment. Look it up if you don’t know what it is.

According to countless reports and experiences of other nofappers, I am on the cusp of coming out of it and should be feeling extra amazing soon. (Magical 90-120 days).

Whatever happens, I’m never looking at p0rn again because it simply makes me content and destroys my motivation to pursue real life women while heightening my anxiety around people in general.

Nofap does make you care about women more in the way that you don’t COMPLETELY objectify them anymore. When you’re at the level I once was, I think it gives off a slightly creepy vibe.

Ever since a few weeks to a month into stopping it’s like women are more receptive to me, at least initially, which I believe is due to me projecting more confidence having less anxiety and the fact that I’m not mentally drained all the time anymore.

P0rn is a drug folks, releases more dopamine in the brain than drugs that people grow up learning about in health class.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Keep going. I just got a reminder on my phone that I just hit day 75. I’m on easy mode which means I can still 0rgasm from women and I can whack it with no p0rn but only whacking it if I’m dying and need to lol.

As of now the last 75 days I’ve only got off with women maybe 3-4 times and have whacked it about 3 times to touch only.

I’ve noticed I feel kind of “bleh” for a couple days after whacking it. After that I’m back to feeling more energy mentally better.

You probs didn’t used to have a heavy problem with too much p0rn though like I did, so I’m actually doing it to recover and “heal” my brain. The benefits have been great but I’m in “flatline” at the moment. Look it up if you don’t know what it is.

According to countless reports and experiences of other nofappers, I am on the cusp of coming out of it and should be feeling extra amazing soon. (Magical 90-120 days).

Whatever happens, I’m never looking at p0rn again because it simply makes me content and destroys my motivation to pursue real life women while heightening my anxiety around people in general.

Nofap does make you care about women more in the way that you don’t COMPLETELY objectify them anymore. When you’re at the level I once was, I think it gives off a slightly creepy vibe.

Ever since a few weeks to a month into stopping it’s like women are more receptive to me, at least initially, which I believe is due to me projecting more confidence having less anxiety and the fact that I’m not mentally drained all the time anymore.

P0rn is a drug folks, releases more dopamine in the brain than drugs that people grow up learning about in health class.

Are you fvcking these women? Player supreme used to joke that sosuave was filled with detatched from reality incels, jacking off to porn..

 

[The Duke]

You better bust a nut before you explode. better call fat girl back up.

 

[MrJack]

Are you fvcking these women? Player supreme used to joke that sosuave was filled with detatched from reality incels, jacking off to porn..

Twice fvcking the same girl who was my FWB at the time, who I’m not in contact with anymore but whatever. They come and go.

The other time was a ONS blow job at a house party. Everyone drunk af.

I am inclined to believe that player supreme is on to something with that. A lot of people don’t realize how damaging porn can be if you jack off to it all the time. If it becomes an addiction, it will affect your relationships with people and decrease your overall quality of life mentally as well as physically.

I’m not here to preach but I feel like a lot of people that come to sosuave for help with women, can eliminate a lot of those problems by nofapping.

It all starts with your mind. Your mind controls your actions and thoughts.

 

[skinnyguy]

I’m on three weeks NoFap. Somewhat flatlining. Have no desire to watch porn. I’m objectifying women less.

I’m in a better state mentally and want to keep it up (no pun intended) for 90 days. Fapping kills my energy level.

 

[MrJack]

I’m on three weeks NoFap. Somewhat flatlining. Have no desire to watch porn. I’m objectifying women less.

I’m in a better state mentally and want to keep it up (no pun intended) for 90 days. Fapping kills my energy level.

Absolutely kills energy. It’s alot easier to wakeup in the morning now.

Be prepared when the time comes when you feel the urge to watch it again. It will definitely come (no pun intended lulz).

Look up sexual transmutation. I think it goes hand in hand with living a redpill lifestyle.

If you aren’t already aware of the concept, you might be interested and it might keep up your motivation.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Absolutely kills energy. It’s alot easier to wakeup in the morning now.

Be prepared when the time comes when you feel the urge to watch it again. It will definitely come (no pun intended lulz).

Look up sexual transmutation. I think it goes hand in hand with living a redpill lifestyle.

If you aren’t already aware of the concept, you might be interested and it might keep up your motivation.

A guy should be having sex. So start working on that. When your sex life is right you'll get pvzzy and head on demand. The last thing on your mind will be choking your chicken . Relying on masturbating for our sexual outlet is pathetic.

 

[MrJack]

A guy should be having sex. So start working on that. When your sex life is right you'll get pvzzy and head on demand. The last thing on your mind will be choking your chicken . Relying on masturbating for our sexual outlet is pathetic.

Absofugginlutely

 

[zekko]

Look up sexual transmutation. I think it goes hand in hand with living a redpill lifestyle.

I do think there is something to this sexual transmutation idea, that you can draw energy from abstaining sexually. For lack of a better term, I've always called it "conserving my chi".

With regards to the NoFap stuff, I've never quite understood why one orgasm differs from another: Why masturbation is bad, but fvcking is good. Seems to me they would both drain your energy.

 

[corrector]

Have been in no fap for quite a while. The effects so far is that my body feels weird after a while of not doing this. It's like I want to do something and I don't know what it is and feel uncomfortable. So, I'm not sure if it's a psychological void caused by not looking at sexually suggestive photos of women/no fap policy, but the net benefits appear to be okay. I'm less drained out (i.e. even if I don't sleep well it doesn't show vs if I fap I usually look drained afterwards even if I slept). There is more overall energy I think. On the drawback, I feel more disconnected with the opposite sex and just lost interest in woman. At least with fapping there was a mental interest and I felt more of a connection with women I may have interacted with out there. But on the other hand, there is nothing for the mind to create a mental fantasy over and its easier to maintain no-fap. (i.e. sometimes a positive social interaction can morph to a mental sex fantasy).

The solution for no fap has been simple. If I have trouble sleeping, put on the Tablet and watch some youtube videos. Get the mind concentrated on something during the night so that you don't feel the urge to resolve insomnia by fapping to some conjured up fantasy in order to sleep. Occasionally, I may think "I wonder if this thing can still go up or still work", because when there is no activity after a while, you sort of wonder. That is the only temptation left that sometimes leads to viewing sexually suggestive photos of women/fapping.

Other successful manouvers was to wake up at a certain time and just get out of bed, go for a walk, talk a shower, connect with Jesus, and a good morning routine has been helpful making no fap easy to do.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Are you fvcking? It's imperative that s guy here on SS is fvcking consistently. Your cawk needs a home and your hand doesn't count.

Once you have a great sex life the last thing on your mind will be choking your chicken.

 

[corrector]

I’m on three weeks NoFap. Somewhat flatlining. Have no desire to watch porn. I’m objectifying women less.

I’m in a better state mentally and want to keep it up (no pun intended) for 90 days. Fapping kills my energy level.

It's interesting but no-fap has not made me objectify women less. I know mathematically that a woman's assets (bum and breasts, etc..) are going to be arousing unless she's wearing very loose clothing and a long dress. So, someone with unusually large assets are still going to be noticed. To say that I'm at a level where I'm oblivious to assets it would depend on what the woman is wearing in public. (i.e. if she's wearing tight jeans and happened to bend over in front of me, and you look at that, etc... or if the jeans have strong camel-toe lines), or if you are noticing bikinis, then I find it's hard not to objectify in these situations. However, I think the woman's choice of clothing should be partially to blame for that.

 

[corrector]

Once you have a great sex life the last thing on your mind will be choking your chicken.

For the record, I was married and during the marriage fapping did occur to the same sexually suggestive photos of women I had looked at before I got married. There was still a strong pull towards fapping. It's actually now that I'm divorced and my life is more simple and there is less stress overall, that there is less of pull to be fapping. I think stress and feeling that life is out of control leads to fapping/viewing suggestive photos rather than feeling tranquil. Stress is more likely caused by dealing with women.

 

[IKO69]

Nofap is retarded; are you trying to become a friars or a monks or something?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

For the record, I was married and during the marriage fapping did occur to the same sexually suggestive photos of women I had looked at before I got married. There was still a strong pull towards fapping. It's actually now that I'm divorced and my life is more simple and there is less stress overall, that there is less of pull to be fapping. I think stress and feeling that life is out of control leads to fapping/viewing suggestive photos rather than feeling tranquil. Stress is more likely caused by dealing with women.

Did your wife have the type of body your attracted to?

Most of the porn heffers are actually ugly as fvck before getting boob jobs, makeup and their egos Inflated. See some of their early videos. Some with sandwich bag deflated boobs, stress in their face not looking special at all.

 

[corrector]

Did your wife have the type of body your attracted to?

You mean ex-wife, Divorced over 4 years ago.

The results are consistent even dealing with the two prostitutes I ever dealt with in my life. I visited a Spanish, from Columbia, prostitute with a THICK body (i.e. my ex-wife had a relatively think frame) that was solid, who even bent over a bed and would have let me do her in the bum, except I could not take it out of my underware and it never got hard. The second Spanish, from Brazil, hooker I dealt with a day later, I used a herbal before seeing her and this time it went hard (i.e. but this time I took it out of the underware and let her suck it while her bum was on my face). Based on these two experiments, it appears that for that to get hard that a herbal was still used on the second prostitute, although I felt the first prostitute had a body type that I really, really , like and still have sex-fantasies sometimes come up based on that 4-year old encounter and feeling 100% satisfied that I dealt with such a body-type lady.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You mean ex-wife, Divorced over 4 years ago.

The results are consistent even dealing with the two prostitutes I ever dealt with in my life. I visited a Spanish, from Columbia, prostitute with a THICK body (i.e. my ex-wife had a relatively think frame) that was solid, who even bent over a bed and would have let me do her in the bum, except I could not take it out of my underware and it never got hard. The second Spanish, from Brazil, hooker I dealt with a day later, I used a herbal before seeing her and this time it went hard (i.e. but this time I took it out of the underware and let her suck it while her bum was on my face). Based on these two experiments, it appears that for that to get hard that a herbal was still used on the second prostitute, although I felt the first prostitute had a body type that I really, really , like and still have sex-fantasies sometimes come up based on that 4-year old encounter and feeling 100% satisfied that I dealt with such a body-type lady.

So ex wife body type and energy didn't excite you make you hard?

When you like what you have to look at home porn is no big deal.

 

[corrector]

So ex wife body type and energy didn't excite you make you hard?

When you like what you have to look at home porn is no big deal.

You obviously did not read the above post. I don't think it's possible for any woman to excite me to make me hard without herbal assistance.
I don't have the same body like I had when I was 16 years old. Need herbals/viagara now unless proven otherwise.