H8CourtshipWithAPassion
Senior Don Juan
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- Feb 22, 2024
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i would never have had non-paid sex if i didn't lower my standards for a woman i had a situationship with back in 2017, my mindset mentality is that, since nature and reality is cruel, unfair, i figure, at times, we have to do cruel unfair things to improve our situation, a good analogy i like is that, for men, success with women is like lifting weights, it helps to go for lower calibre-women as practice before moving onto higher calibre women, use them as training wheels.
People and society will argue and say "thats not fair to the women, because that means you are using them, how would you feel if women did that to you?"
My counterargument to that is, well is it fair that men for all time(who knows if it has, its debateable if it has been that way since the dawn of time) and likely for all eternity, men always having to do the approaching and ask the woman out, lead interactions, initiate everything or almost everything, which lots men have the mindset that men have to do all the work in dating.
No, it isn't fair at all, so to sum it up, since nature and reality is cruel and unfair, that means at times we should do cruel and unfair things as long as it benefits our situation.
People and society will argue and say "thats not fair to the women, because that means you are using them, how would you feel if women did that to you?"
My counterargument to that is, well is it fair that men for all time(who knows if it has, its debateable if it has been that way since the dawn of time) and likely for all eternity, men always having to do the approaching and ask the woman out, lead interactions, initiate everything or almost everything, which lots men have the mindset that men have to do all the work in dating.
No, it isn't fair at all, so to sum it up, since nature and reality is cruel and unfair, that means at times we should do cruel and unfair things as long as it benefits our situation.