After a year long dry spell, would you keep waiting to bang a hottie or would you settle with banging a ugly girl?

[Hamurabimbi]

How can you go on a dry spell for a year? I banged at least 7 or 8 hbs only during July and August for example. You guys either ugly or introverted asf .

My longest dry spell was 6 months. Post surgery and waiting for a divorce to finalize. Felt like I was going insane with horniness.

 

[DanGreen]

How can you go on a dry spell for a year? I banged at least 7 or 8 hbs only during July and August for example. You guys either ugly or introverted asf .

How have you been meeting so many girls during social distancing/lockdowns? Has it been real life meetings or all on apps like Tinder?
I used to always meet girls in bars/clubs pre-Covid days, never really liked using dating apps in the past.

 

[Focal core]

This Covid19 situation are already bad down to the core of your emotions, get it worse by banging a fat ugly ducks? Why the F i would do that to myself.. Sheesh its not even an option.

 

[MatureDJ]

At some point, fapping to internet porn at places such as Chaturbate beats (pun NOT intended) sticking it in an ugly woman. Pumping an ugly woman is one of the most depressing thing a man can do.

 

[Lookatu]

At some point, fapping to internet porn at places such as Chaturbate beats (pun NOT intended) sticking it in an ugly woman. Pumping an ugly woman is one of the most depressing thing a man can do.

I'm going to take your point as an argument. Often times, guys think they look better than they really do. So in reality a guy thinking he's a 7 might actually be a 4-5, yet he expects a 2-3 point smv boost from a woman. That's highly unlikely and unrealistic.

Dry spells to me that lasts a long time like a year also signal deficiency in other areas of the guy, like looks, physique, personality, game, etc. If he's not putting in the effort then he'll constantly be stuck with low tier women.

Also playing devil's advocate, if the guy wasn't a loser and lets say he had a good job but maybe genetics weren't so kind to him, he could easily pay for a good looking escort and treat himself once in awhile to get it out of his system rather then slumming it up with a fattie.

 

[NSX-R]

How have you been meeting so many girls during social distancing/lockdowns? Has it been real life meetings or all on apps like Tinder?
I used to always meet girls in bars/clubs pre-Covid days, never really liked using dating apps in the past.

I never used OLD in my life ever . This period of time everything was open and i just did what i man got to do . Other than that women were approaching me on their own and have in mind i rejected quite a lot of them because i didn’t like their looks even though my friends who were on dry spell that time thought i was crazy . What made the deal was good looks , I’m relatively well known in my area plus women are more hornier than men specially after a long lockdown.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I'm currently serenading a woman who, though 17 years younger than me, can't get any guy to date her or she only tries to get ME to date her. She just ran into her favorite high school teacher who asked her if she's dating anyone to which she says "no." I asked her if that's because she never dated anyone in high school 10 years ago and she said yes (lie? cause I know that she looked Very cute back then and she's always been fit or thin, a vegetarian). I'm sure I could have her over this weekend to bang at the snap of my thumb and middle finger. She's that "sold" on me. Now, she's tatted all over (arms/legs), makes NO money practically, and dons nose rings/purple hair (though it does kinda suit her). When we've been out, people endorse us as a couple, they recognize us as together and not father/daughter, of course, she's leaning on my shoulder, whispering in my ear, etc. I think that she sees me as her only way out of this mad world.

Still, I need to be wary of this one. She's pretty psychedelic I'm seeing. Her dog (and only friend really) is about to die. Can you turn a hoe into a housewife? She agrees with almost everything I utter whether it be politics or how I view things, whatever I do, whatever I say. She only hates that I never call her. Imma tell you, her face is almost butter. She's getting more and more wall-slammed just in the course of just one year from 27 to 28. It's the drugs she must've taken or fast band life she once lived dragging her down. Women are to be about self-preservation - something she threw caution to the wind with in her early-to-mid 20s cause pics of her at 18, 19, 20, 21 show her to be very cute with I'm sure many rocker (musician) guy friends.

When we talk weekly, she nods and agrees with Everything I say as if hypnotized. It's very bizarre. She'll tell another guy that what he says is wrong or that she doesn't agree, but when I speak it's like the Bible.

 

[DanGreen]

I never used OLD in my life ever . This period of time everything was open and i just did what i man got to do . Other than that women were approaching me on their own and have in mind i rejected quite a lot of them because i didn’t like their looks even though my friends who were on dry spell that time thought i was crazy . What made the deal was good looks , I’m relatively well known in my area plus women are more hornier than men specially after a long lockdown.

I guess being a good looking guy you have the advantage of as you say, women approaching you as well as you approaching them.
That’s cool you have that natural gift

It would be extremely rare (if ever) for a woman to approach a guy with average looks.

 

[OldComeBacker]

I went through a 7 year dry spell once. So you can probably figure out my strategy. Can't say I recommend it, though.

 

[corrector]

Also playing devil's advocate, if the guy wasn't a loser and lets say he had a good job but maybe genetics weren't so kind to him, he could easily pay for a good looking escort and treat himself once in awhile to get it out of his system rather then slumming it up with a fattie.

You mean like this guy:

 

[bat soup]

Ok so the last time myself and my housemate both hooked up with girls was nearly a year ago at a Christmas house party on Christmas Eve! We hooked up with a couple hotties in Santa girl outfits.

Since then due to Covid and all the social distancing (living in a small town in UK doesn’t help) we haven’t really had the opportunity to go out and meet new girls this year.

My mate had been getting messaged by a girl he knows that is fat and unattractive saying she’s down to **** him this weekend and he asked me for advice whether he should wait it out until he meets a attractive girl to **** or just bang this ugly/fat chick just to destroy his dry spell.

Now I said to him I’m strictly in the mindset of I would rather wait to bang a hottie (despite being insanely horny now) than settle for fat/ugly.

So guys what’s your opinions? If you were going through a nearly year long dry spell would you keep hanging on longer until you can meet/bang a hot girl? Or would you think **** it, I’ll just bang a unattractive chick just to beat the dry spell and then focus on meeting attractive girls again afterwards?

Personally, I'd just move to the Philippines.

 

[bat soup]

I went through a 7 year dry spell once. So you can probably figure out my strategy. Can't say I recommend it, though.

Tell us so that we can have an example of what NOT to do.

 

[bat soup]

One of my mates is on track to be a millionaire. He is wealthy. From wealth. He has garbage game irl. Decent OLD or swipe game. Not bad looking. Fit too. Got the bag. He never learned pickup. He rather get escorts and go making more money. I learned pickup. He is on track to be millionaire. I don't have it in me to behave like him but he broke it down. The ROI is garbage spending hundreds of hours swiping and approaching. He pays. She swallows and they leave. He pays her to go.

I have been in the game for ages. It takes a while. In my life I saw one ten. The girls are cute and the odd stunner. Real talk. I love the game. I have flashes of brilliancy and other times I putter through the pickup particularly when I am not into it.

Get D sucked.

It makes sense to pay if you can afford it. A millionaire can easily bang two 10s every day if he wants. Not that this is a good replacement for a relationship.

 

[JayAce]

Banging a fat or unattractive woman has the potential to make your friend feel even worse about things. I would not advise it.

 

[Romanemp22]

I couldn't do it. I just can't sleep with girls I don't find attractive, ugly ones, fat. Don't ever lower your standards, instead don't be lazy and work on yourself and go after girls you like.

 

[MatureDJ]

I'm going to take your point as an argument. Often times, guys think they look better than they really do. So in reality a guy thinking he's a 7 might actually be a 4-5, yet he expects a 2-3 point smv boost from a woman. That's highly unlikely and unrealistic.

Dry spells to me that lasts a long time like a year also signal deficiency in other areas of the guy, like looks, physique, personality, game, etc. If he's not putting in the effort then he'll constantly be stuck with low tier women.

Also playing devil's advocate, if the guy wasn't a loser and lets say he had a good job but maybe genetics weren't so kind to him, he could easily pay for a good looking escort and treat himself once in awhile to get it out of his system rather then slumming it up with a fattie.

Uh, an EscortCel is not left to the 2 options I had described.

 

[MatureDJ]

You mean like this guy:

I think he is going to be unsuccessful; he has hit the jackpot of the Virginity Trinity:

 

[MatureDJ]

Why the Philippines? (Assuming, of course, that the OP's industry is hiring expats from his country into the Philippines.)

Because the Philippine race is considered quite unattractive, the country is poor and thus a lot of the men work away, and a lot of women there speak English.

 

[Mike32ct]

I went through a 7 year dry spell once. So you can probably figure out my strategy. Can't say I recommend it, though.

Wow. My record was 5 years. You dryspellmogged me.

For super long dry spells, in most cases, I would say it's probably NOT due to the guy being too picky i.e. turning anyone down.

 

[B80]

If I was drunk I'd do it, but not sober.

Getting notches under your belt does help with confidence with women compared to being out of the game for years. At least for me anyway.