Update!!
Haven't been around for awhile due since I've been real busy, but I wanted to stop by and give an update on this thread.
I don't remember when I posted this (October???) but it turns out that after a good month and a half of "knowing" what was going on, this chick finally sends me a message on myspace telling me that she had just updated her myspace page to reflect her new "in a relationship" status showing that she has a boyfriend up north, and didn't want me to hear it from anyone else. She was invited to a party I was having and told me that she was still planning on attending the party, so I just replied something to the effect of "Congrats, hope it works out for you, see you saturday"
We agreed to remain friends, and I see her from time to time socially and business wise. We have mutual friends and lately her best friend has been probing me for info about my social life, which is kind of funny considering she has her own thing going on now. My last correspondence with her was an email where she was getting jealous about the 20 yr old who likes me who is in town visiting. CHICKS!
Anyways, point is, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS FELLAS! It will lead you in the right direction 99.999999% of the time. I wasn't really emotionally invested in this one, so it isn't a big deal, but it's a great feeling to know that you can spot a chick's BS a mile away. Took me a long time to get there, but I honestly feel like I am a better person for having this knowledge.
This chick also expressed how much she "missed me" on her last email, so I wouldn't be surprised if she comes back for more eventually. If I get more pu$$y out of it.so be it, but I'm not holding my breath. Chicks are a dime a dozen. Enjoy them for what they are worth!