Afraid of getting pregnant?? I smell a rat....

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Latinoman said:
You are 100% right. I personally ignored her reply.
you mean this one?
penkitten said:
maybe shes involved with someone else while shes away .
that would pretty much make you afraid to get pregnant by another man.
 

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Update!!

Haven't been around for awhile due since I've been real busy, but I wanted to stop by and give an update on this thread.

I don't remember when I posted this (October???) but it turns out that after a good month and a half of "knowing" what was going on, this chick finally sends me a message on myspace telling me that she had just updated her myspace page to reflect her new "in a relationship" status showing that she has a boyfriend up north, and didn't want me to hear it from anyone else. She was invited to a party I was having and told me that she was still planning on attending the party, so I just replied something to the effect of "Congrats, hope it works out for you, see you saturday"

We agreed to remain friends, and I see her from time to time socially and business wise. We have mutual friends and lately her best friend has been probing me for info about my social life, which is kind of funny considering she has her own thing going on now. My last correspondence with her was an email where she was getting jealous about the 20 yr old who likes me who is in town visiting. CHICKS!

Anyways, point is, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS FELLAS! It will lead you in the right direction 99.999999% of the time. I wasn't really emotionally invested in this one, so it isn't a big deal, but it's a great feeling to know that you can spot a chick's BS a mile away. Took me a long time to get there, but I honestly feel like I am a better person for having this knowledge.

This chick also expressed how much she "missed me" on her last email, so I wouldn't be surprised if she comes back for more eventually. If I get more pu$$y out of it.so be it, but I'm not holding my breath. Chicks are a dime a dozen. Enjoy them for what they are worth!
 

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Yo Str8up,


Nice update, bruh. I think it's always important to let the fellas know how your projects (missions) wrap up. I think it helps us all validate the things we've learned here, and/or to discover more nuiances to better ourselves.



March on.
 

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STR8UP said:
Anyways, point is, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS FELLAS! It will lead you in the right direction 99.999999% of the time. I wasn't really emotionally invested in this one, so it isn't a big deal, but it's a great feeling to know that you can spot a chick's BS a mile away. Took me a long time to get there, but I honestly feel like I am a better person for having this knowledge.dozen.
And the other lesson here is that if you're not "walking the line" on........ whatever, dont give away obvious signs like she did. Of course the way to go about accomplishing that would require a dedicated thread, at a minimum.
 
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STR8UP said:
...it seems like she doesn't want to have sex. We still mess around, she gives me head and all, but I sense her having an apprehension to full on sex, so I just kind of go with the flow and not push things. She also rarely wants me to go down on her anymore, which I find strange.
The above should tell you that she is sexing another dude!

Apprehensive about pregnancy because she wants to know who's the baby's daddy without a DNA test!

She don't want you to eat her because she has sperm from another dude in there!!! :rolleyes:
 

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Sex == relationship.

It's that simple. When a woman no longer wants to have sex, she is saying to you that she no longer values her relationship with you. You can try to lay your cards out on the table to the effect that as a precondition to your emotional intimacy, that you require the physical intimacy, and that absent that, you will be on the lookout to get that intimacy elsewhere.

As for the coincidence of going back to her hometown to watch football, how many women are that big of fans of football independently (i.e., not just because their boyfriends are fans)?
 

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MatureDJ said:
As for the coincidence of going back to her hometown to watch football, how many women are that big of fans of football independently (i.e., not just because their boyfriends are fans)?
This one is a football fan with or without a boyfriend, I can tell you that. That's another part of the reason why I would never get involved seriously with her. I like chicks who are into girly things, not watching a bunch of sweaty ass men chasing each other around in the grass.

It's funny cause when we were "seeing" each other she made a comment one time how the fact that I am not into football could be a "problem". HA! It's the other way around woman!

I'm not really the kind of person who likes spending a lot of time with chicks I have sexed/dated in the past, but maybe I can turn a new leaf here and try to keep a friendship without things being awkward. I kinda doubt it will work with this one knowing that she still tries to stay up to date about my business and knowing how she gets insanely jealous over nothing, but we shall see.
 

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STR8UP said:
My last correspondence with her was an email where she was getting jealous about the 20 yr old who likes me who is in town visiting. CHICKS!... Chicks are a dime a dozen. Enjoy them for what they are worth!
:crackup:

I'm sure Chucky enjoys his birds eye view of all the drama and action which passes on through.
 

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Man, when I want to eat a steak, I go for it - if it's right there laid out smoking and juicy right on the table. That's gut, I don't rationalize - it is human it is natural, It's what I WANT. THE GUT DOES NOT LIE!

When I see a pretty hot girl, I wanna hit it right then and there. Girls think the exact same way. They see chocolate cake, ice cream, whatever dessert..They want it. When they see some hot dude, they want him to f*ck her brains out and cook him dinner afterwards so he can stay with her. THE GUT DOES NOT LIE!

However, if a girl were to be sleeping with one guy "out of duty" and was probably doing some other dude... (women think logically, despite myths) she'd probably want to keep track of who she's doing with...Condoms. A girl especially one where you have plenty of sex will allow unprotected sex after a certain time that the both of you have determined that you are clean. Girls want the real k*k, especially from someone they like.

I don't advocate unprotected sex especially for new girls, but girls who are physically attracted to you will want your k0k
 

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Deep Dish said:
:crackup:

I'm sure Chucky enjoys his birds eye view of all the drama and action which passes on through.
If Chucky could talk I'm sure he would have lots of interesting stories to tell. Although he does have his bottle of Absinthe so he might not remember much....

How ya been Dish? Hope all is well.
 
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