advice needed guys. iv been on about 3/4 dates with new girl .I was instantly interested after first .we spent a Friday night together,had dinner and drinks .she stayed over but didn't have sex , we both knew we wanted to but held back .she said she wanted to do something on sat .that went great and hung out all day.the chemistry was there ,she was giving lots and lots of compliments etc .
left her of on sat night.on sunday I decided not to contact her and she text on sunday night . I had a few drinks and prob give away a little too much after chatting to her on the phone.cant remember all I said !
text a bit more yesterday and we arranged to meet up tonight .im on a dating site which she knew about ,anyway she was asking how was that going in a bit of a banter way .I said couldn't tell her that as we weren't in a "relationship".it was all a in a jokey way .
I thought that's were we were going with the date conversation tonight. so I was surpised when after we started chatting she said she wasn't sure what we were doing and if she wanted to call it a relationship or not .I was a bit shocked by this due to the chemistry etc beforehand . i thought that's what she was after .I kind of became a bit withdrawn mentioned I had put of another date from the dating website.she said I should go on it . I said it wasn't really my style. I tried to act like didn't bother me but think she knew it did .I said what does that mean then in terms of what we are doing. she said she wants to see me again and to get to know me a bit better.my gut was saying pull back here and abandon ship . left her of at home and we kissed again passionately .she says she want to meet up again and that she figures I will prob go cold on her and not contact her. my normal reaction would be to do this but should I call her out on what she said and thank her for another nice date and arrange another time or go cold again? is this the brush off?thanks in advance for any advice!
left her of on sat night.on sunday I decided not to contact her and she text on sunday night . I had a few drinks and prob give away a little too much after chatting to her on the phone.cant remember all I said !
text a bit more yesterday and we arranged to meet up tonight .im on a dating site which she knew about ,anyway she was asking how was that going in a bit of a banter way .I said couldn't tell her that as we weren't in a "relationship".it was all a in a jokey way .
I thought that's were we were going with the date conversation tonight. so I was surpised when after we started chatting she said she wasn't sure what we were doing and if she wanted to call it a relationship or not .I was a bit shocked by this due to the chemistry etc beforehand . i thought that's what she was after .I kind of became a bit withdrawn mentioned I had put of another date from the dating website.she said I should go on it . I said it wasn't really my style. I tried to act like didn't bother me but think she knew it did .I said what does that mean then in terms of what we are doing. she said she wants to see me again and to get to know me a bit better.my gut was saying pull back here and abandon ship . left her of at home and we kissed again passionately .she says she want to meet up again and that she figures I will prob go cold on her and not contact her. my normal reaction would be to do this but should I call her out on what she said and thank her for another nice date and arrange another time or go cold again? is this the brush off?thanks in advance for any advice!