location, location, location.
someone suggested that >3m is the money needed to buy this situation. I look at it differently, it's 10x the average local person's wealth. If you have 10x+ the local average then you have a financial position to use that as an attraction point. This can definitely offset age. If you have 10x vs your current environment you would not ask this question I think...
have to remember, that women don't love men, they have different levels of attraction based on different things and it is never about the kind soal of the man. He is sexy looking, sexy acting, wealthy, famous, or some mix of those. It's silly to worry about why a woman likes you but it is useful to know. For one man she likes him because he is pretty.. the other because famous, and others because of money or conversation ability. Remember it's never about the kind soal of the man albeit that is what many women will tell if asked. She gets the tingles from an attraction point.
when you think a woman is lusting for you, sure, that lust can be triggered by ANY of the attraction points and get the behavior you want. It's funny to listen to men shame other men that have something they don't.
the game has many ways to play.
If you are not pretty, and you insist on winning the game from looks, that is going to lead to sadness. If you are not famous but expect to get young cuties based on status, not going to happen. Conversation or money is the ticket.
If you move to a location where your money is 10x+ the average local then you will be a target for all women that see wealth as attractive. My experience is that women in all places like money, even nice higher quality women.
Also, your reasons for wanting to be discreet can affect how you do things.