hey seb. i can't belive all the terrible replies you have gotten on this thread. people actually think "fvck her get over it" is helpful. i was in a similar situation. i think what we're really talking about here is that you miss her and want her back. DO NOT BECOME AFC ON THIS. dont let her see you upset. dont tell her you miss her. in fact u should be a little pissed she broke up thru texting. same thing happened to me, that is such bs. your prolly worrying that if u dont contact her she'll just forget about you. more likely than not, if you guys had anything at all, she'll contact you. it's def better for her to see you acting strong in this situation. it's prolly better to not call her and try to spin some plates.
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First off, can you give us more info about how the past couple of weeks has been? From your post, other than the non sex thing that one time, I bet everything has been pretty good right?
No more drunk stupid texts? I bet you think it was a one time slip up and have forgiven her and moved on. However I think that would be a huge mistake. Now I'm not like most of the guys on here and I'm not going to suggest that she cheated on you by sleeping with her ex. But I do bet she was branch swinging and she was talking to him about getting together with him.
A women wouldn't start to act the way she did for NO reason. He was in the picture but then he went back to his old ways and kicked her to the curb. The problem with this is, because of the way he acts, she'll always be prepared to drop you for him whenever he comes calling. Next time she might not be as open & honest with you because she NOW knows how it affected your relationship. Next time she'll likely wait till things go further with him before she allows it to affect your relationship.
However I don't see you as having the strength to respect yourself as a man. Your simply going to rationalize about how your trying to gain experience. I stand by my last post
As for this:
But what I really wanted to talk about is a new theory that I've been developing over the past few months. Us guys when it comes to LTR's or FB's, we've come to expect sex on every occasion we spend with them. My new theory is to skip sex every 4th or 5th time with them. There are a multitude of reasons, first is for variety, another is to confuse them, third is to not have them feel like a sex object, like they have to have sex every time with us to be in our presence.
I've got a FB that I've had for about 8 years. I spent the night with her about 2 months ago. I slept over but I didn't have sex with her. I knew it through her for a loop. However she called me 2 nights ago, I sluffed her off, called her back last night, it was her bday so I went and spent the night with her. During the second time I was banging her, she started crying (from joy). This was only the third time I've had a women do this and its powerful.
Even after we were done and she went to the washroom to clean up, I could still here her weaping. Later on she said that she didn't expect this because of the last time I was there, nothing happened.
My point is though, not having sex is a really powerful tool. Many people get so lost in the phsycial joy that they forget about the emotional aspect. I now know that I can get this chick to do whatever I want for at least 6 months just based on the emotion that I created for her last night. Building attraction takes many forms.
With all that being said, I think you've already lost your current g/f. I think she's merely settling with you. She may not have any active branches right now but she's proved to be a branch swinging monkey. I know you got your head stuck so far up her pvssy that you don't see this but maybe after things go sour with her, you'll come back and read this and see that I am right.
Your only 21, your don't need experience having sex in a LTR, you need experience spreading your seed. Your only conditioning yourself now to accept disrespectful behaviour.
No more drunk stupid texts? I bet you think it was a one time slip up and have forgiven her and moved on. However I think that would be a huge mistake. Now I'm not like most of the guys on here and I'm not going to suggest that she cheated on you by sleeping with her ex. But I do bet she was branch swinging and she was talking to him about getting together with him.
A women wouldn't start to act the way she did for NO reason. He was in the picture but then he went back to his old ways and kicked her to the curb. The problem with this is, because of the way he acts, she'll always be prepared to drop you for him whenever he comes calling. Next time she might not be as open & honest with you because she NOW knows how it affected your relationship. Next time she'll likely wait till things go further with him before she allows it to affect your relationship.
However I don't see you as having the strength to respect yourself as a man. Your simply going to rationalize about how your trying to gain experience. I stand by my last post
With that being said, I don't think your doing everything wrong. I think you've made some progress, like coming across as not caring as much when you brought up the break when you leave, but that could also backfire. It might push her to her ex while your gone.MacAvoy said:The only thing your getting experience with right now is ALLOWING women to walk over you and disrespect you for the sake of getting pvssy.
You can get this experience with OTHER women that actually respect you and treat you like a human being. This chick tells you that she'd rather be with her ex than you, and then uses a copout about being drunk.
Don't let women treat you this way. You can get experience from other women. Its not a race, you are in your prime, you should be spending your time with good women that you life and that like you, not in unhealthy relationships.
Can you explain to me what is so special about this women that you think you can't get from other women? Do you honestly think that you can't get another women to replace her to practice your sex with?
As for this:
I wanted to post about this yesterday but I'm glad I was rushed and had to head out. What I was going to say yesterday was that sure its not good that she's using sex as a weapon (by withholding) but its not all bad because it appears she's giving it out most of the time.sebastionay said:Is it good or bad if your gf denies you sex? She does this rarely but says its so that i appreciate it more/look forward to it more next time :S
But what I really wanted to talk about is a new theory that I've been developing over the past few months. Us guys when it comes to LTR's or FB's, we've come to expect sex on every occasion we spend with them. My new theory is to skip sex every 4th or 5th time with them. There are a multitude of reasons, first is for variety, another is to confuse them, third is to not have them feel like a sex object, like they have to have sex every time with us to be in our presence.
I've got a FB that I've had for about 8 years. I spent the night with her about 2 months ago. I slept over but I didn't have sex with her. I knew it through her for a loop. However she called me 2 nights ago, I sluffed her off, called her back last night, it was her bday so I went and spent the night with her. During the second time I was banging her, she started crying (from joy). This was only the third time I've had a women do this and its powerful.
Even after we were done and she went to the washroom to clean up, I could still here her weaping. Later on she said that she didn't expect this because of the last time I was there, nothing happened.
My point is though, not having sex is a really powerful tool. Many people get so lost in the phsycial joy that they forget about the emotional aspect. I now know that I can get this chick to do whatever I want for at least 6 months just based on the emotion that I created for her last night. Building attraction takes many forms.
With all that being said, I think you've already lost your current g/f. I think she's merely settling with you. She may not have any active branches right now but she's proved to be a branch swinging monkey. I know you got your head stuck so far up her pvssy that you don't see this but maybe after things go sour with her, you'll come back and read this and see that I am right.
Your only 21, your don't need experience having sex in a LTR, you need experience spreading your seed. Your only conditioning yourself now to accept disrespectful behaviour.
connor32 said:hey seb. i can't belive all the terrible replies you have gotten on this thread. people actually think "fvck her get over it" is helpful. i was in a similar situation. i think what we're really talking about here is that you miss her and want her back. DO NOT BECOME AFC ON THIS. dont let her see you upset. dont tell her you miss her. in fact u should be a little pissed she broke up thru texting. same thing happened to me, that is such bs. your prolly worrying that if u dont contact her she'll just forget about you. more likely than not, if you guys had anything at all, she'll contact you. it's def better for her to see you acting strong in this situation. it's prolly better to not call her and try to spin some plates.
I dont know how many weeks ago that text thing happened now, i ignored it and she rang up crying and begging the next day, I told her lets just be friends, then got back with her a little while after.
Were still together and its going fine. I go to another country for over a month aswell so ill be able to see other people if i want withought her knowing.
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This is a great post and probably spot on. Although I think Sebastionay was rebound guy, bigtime.Jeffst1980 said:You already said you didn't want to be in a relationship with her in the first place, and I'm sure you acted accordingly around her to begin with.
Suddenly, you flip the script and start acting really into her as a reaction to her falling interest levels.
You had all the power and then you gave it away by agreeing to her terms. You weren't congruent and now she has buyer's remorse.
This has happened to me in the past--I got attached to a girl I didn't even like all that much...just because she went from being high interest to low interest...that stuff will mess you up!
Really, though, it's just ego. Don't contact her, you'll forget about her in a couple of weeks, and she sounds like a wack job. Breaking up over a text message?? what a classy gal.
Ill update things soon saying whats been going on and stuff, Everythings been fine though and she constantly gives displays of affection in public and private, I have other options but im sticking with her atm.
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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
Yeah everything is going fine at the moment, we have a good time and alot of sex... she was at an anne summers part the night before last and got alot of stuff and a book for me with sexual positions lol.
Im just learning alot about sex atm in a relationship which i wanted, and i do want this at this age, ive spread my seed already. I dont want to be a middle aged father with young kids to be honest.
Im just learning alot about sex atm in a relationship which i wanted, and i do want this at this age, ive spread my seed already. I dont want to be a middle aged father with young kids to be honest.
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Why do you keep updating and bumping this pathetic sh!t? You've been given solid advice continually which you ignore, the story on your oneitis does a full 180 all of a sudden and makes as much sense as a David Lynch film.
Your either a troll or a fvckin idiot.
Your either a troll or a fvckin idiot.
"Useful"? A guys time would be better spent sticking matches down the eye of his c@ck.sebastionay said:Found this post useful? If so please add to my reputation by clicking on the scales
MacAvoy said:First off, can you give us more info about how the past couple of weeks has been? From your post, other than the non sex thing that one time, I bet everything has been pretty good right?
No more drunk stupid texts? I bet you think it was a one time slip up and have forgiven her and moved on. However I think that would be a huge mistake. Now I'm not like most of the guys on here and I'm not going to suggest that she cheated on you by sleeping with her ex. But I do bet she was branch swinging and she was talking to him about getting together with him.
A women wouldn't start to act the way she did for NO reason. He was in the picture but then he went back to his old ways and kicked her to the curb. The problem with this is, because of the way he acts, she'll always be prepared to drop you for him whenever he comes calling. Next time she might not be as open & honest with you because she NOW knows how it affected your relationship. Next time she'll likely wait till things go further with him before she allows it to affect your relationship.
However I don't see you as having the strength to respect yourself as a man. Your simply going to rationalize about how your trying to gain experience. I stand by my last post
With that being said, I don't think your doing everything wrong. I think you've made some progress, like coming across as not caring as much when you brought up the break when you leave, but that could also backfire. It might push her to her ex while your gone.
I dont think she is on the lookout for other men or anything like that, I think im in controll.
As for this:
I wanted to post about this yesterday but I'm glad I was rushed and had to head out. What I was going to say yesterday was that sure its not good that she's using sex as a weapon (by withholding) but its not all bad because it appears she's giving it out most of the time.
But what I really wanted to talk about is a new theory that I've been developing over the past few months. Us guys when it comes to LTR's or FB's, we've come to expect sex on every occasion we spend with them. My new theory is to skip sex every 4th or 5th time with them. There are a multitude of reasons, first is for variety, another is to confuse them, third is to not have them feel like a sex object, like they have to have sex every time with us to be in our presence.
I've got a FB that I've had for about 8 years. I spent the night with her about 2 months ago. I slept over but I didn't have sex with her. I knew it through her for a loop. However she called me 2 nights ago, I sluffed her off, called her back last night, it was her bday so I went and spent the night with her. During the second time I was banging her, she started crying (from joy). This was only the third time I've had a women do this and its powerful.
Even after we were done and she went to the washroom to clean up, I could still here her weaping. Later on she said that she didn't expect this because of the last time I was there, nothing happened.
My point is though, not having sex is a really powerful tool. Many people get so lost in the phsycial joy that they forget about the emotional aspect. I now know that I can get this chick to do whatever I want for at least 6 months just based on the emotion that I created for her last night. Building attraction takes many forms.
With all that being said, I think you've already lost your current g/f. I think she's merely settling with you. She may not have any active branches right now but she's proved to be a branch swinging monkey. I know you got your head stuck so far up her pvssy that you don't see this but maybe after things go sour with her, you'll come back and read this and see that I am right.
Your only 21, your don't need experience having sex in a LTR, you need experience spreading your seed. Your only conditioning yourself now to accept disrespectful behaviour.
Well i am gaining alot of experience and I think its the most important thing for me at this stage in my life, and i do want relationship experience, ive played the field in the lead up to this. As for what you said about not having sex once every so often i think its a pretty good idea.
I dont want it to be the first time in my life that ive 'met the parents' and stuff with a girl that i think i could spend the rest of my life with. Because i know ill worry alot more and ruin it.
Although i do think ill probably mess up with this girls parents, she's from a different background to me and a differnet area with a different culture.
I believe going through mistakes on the other hand is when you learn the fastest from experience.
Also i do know what you mean and agree that she wouldnt have written the text for nothing, im leaving it open if she can prove herself and what not but i wouldnt want this to last very long myself, perhaps 6 months or so.
I dont think she is on the lookout for other men or anything like that, I think im in controll.
I hope you take into account that we dont all want the same things out of life, for various reasons such as upbringing,culture,morals and so on we dont all want to be in the same place at 30 and so on. I want to be married at 25 or so im not intrested in having sex with different women as the main staple for the best part of my sexual activity in life.
I simply wanted to have sex with girls of different looks untill i could find the kind i like most so my head wont turn when im with theh right one, Ive done that and im looking for someone that suits all the relationship criteria with those looks now.
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Preamble: I don't know if I'm wasting my breathe here but I feel like I shouldn't abandon you even though your not going to do what I tell you to because your going to have to make your own mistakes.
I'm going to tell you a story about myself to try get you to understand this women that you've fallen for.
Six or seven years ago, I met this great gal Ginger, everything was great between us, we were like peanut butter & jelley, made for each other. Life was bliss, she loved me, I loved her, however life got in the way and forced us apart, and as a result, she needed a break, well being the sex fiend that I am, I found another piece to soothe me while we were on break. Well it turns out that she wanted to discuss things and try work things out after the weekend, she was just too upset to discuss things on the weekend and needed time to calm down.
Well being the nice guy I was, I had to tell her about my weekend. To her that was a betrayal of trust and it wasn't something that she could get over. Around that same time, there just so happened to be a branch around and she chose to go that route instead of wasting her time mending the broken trust with me.
Needless to say I was heartbroken. But being the good looking, fun guy that I am, I moved on. Even though I was heartbroken, I went out under the guise of moving on. I ended up being with dozens of women but it didn't really get me over her.
Finally I met this great girl, her name was Celine. She made me laugh, we had a great time. From the first time I met her and our first interactions, I was in awe, I had a great time. We quickly grew together. She made me realize that I could love again. This girl did everything right, she truly respected me, always did stuff for me, we travelled together. Most importantly she actually clicked with my daughter and spent alot of time with her. I lived 2 hours away and my daughter lived not far from her, she would even spend time with her when I wasn't in town.
Everything was going great, I had this amazing women who loved me, I loved her, her & my daughter got along great, I couldn't ask for anything more. My business was going great, life was as close to perfect as it gets.
Want to know what happened next? Ginger appeared back in my life, the ex that shunned me a little over a year ago. Because I never deal with my feelings for Ginger properly, I still had feelings for her, because I thought we were meant for each other, I went to go and see her. I did this behind Celine's back.
Everything went well with Ginger, we had a good meeting, talked about things and we were going to give it a try, try one time to work things out becuase of how special things were between us.
Now you must be thinking, are you FVCKING CRAZY? Your life is perfect right now, Celine makes you laugh, you love her, your daughter and her get along great, everything in life is grand.
But love is one helluva drug, its such a powerful emotion, its like crack or heroine, once you've gotten high, you just want another hit. So being the good guy that I was, I couldn't lie, I had to tell Celine about Ginger and that I had to follow my heart.
A week later, Ginger didn't have the stones to leave the branch that she left me for and as a result, wasn't able to give us the chance that she said she would. So I was screwed, I just flushed things away with Celine at the chance of being with Ginger.
Because of the bond that we shared, me & Celine were still close but she was heartbroken, I ripped out her heart. We remained friends but she could never give me another chance becuase of the way I broke her heart & trust on a whim.
Now in my story, you are Celine and your g/f is me and your g/f's ex is Ginger.
So basically when she sent you that drunk text, Ginger came back into her life and thats why she sent that text. Now granted, I was more honest and told Celine the complete truth. But your g/f didn't do that.
I tell you something right now, the moral of this story is that YOU WILL ALWAYS BE SECOND FIDDLE TO HER EX. She has stronger feelings for him that she can EVER have for you.
At least Celine respected herself enough to not take me back. However your getting played for a fool. Her ex might not come back in the picture for 8 months or a year but I guarantee when he goes through a slump and needs a piece, he's going to go back to old faithful, Ms good ole reliable, I know its what I do.
And that my friend is why I say you'll end up divorced. I've said this twice before but your not getting it so I'll say it again:
You talk about the social proof that you get from being with your g/f. Think about this though, think about how your going to look in a few months when she dumps you and your heartbroken. You will have no options and you will miss her.
But if you take the action now & break up with her, think about the social proof you will have. They'll say 'look at Seb, he was going out with that hottie and he dumped her, he must have a tonne of options, I want to get in there next'. Use this to your advantage. Once you dump her and everyone sees you with a new girl on your side, they will come flocking to you.
Then you can pick & choose a girl that isn't damaged but wants to be with YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not a women pining over her ex. Make this new women fall madly in love with you because your current g/f isn't madly in love with you. But you can find a new girl and make her fall madly in love with sebastionay!
The way your living your life, you could very well be married by 25 but I'd be willing to bet my house that you'll be divorced by 28 if you continue on your current path.sebastionay said:I want to be married at 25 or so im not intrested in having sex with different women as the main staple for the best part of my sexual activity in life.
I'm going to tell you a story about myself to try get you to understand this women that you've fallen for.
Six or seven years ago, I met this great gal Ginger, everything was great between us, we were like peanut butter & jelley, made for each other. Life was bliss, she loved me, I loved her, however life got in the way and forced us apart, and as a result, she needed a break, well being the sex fiend that I am, I found another piece to soothe me while we were on break. Well it turns out that she wanted to discuss things and try work things out after the weekend, she was just too upset to discuss things on the weekend and needed time to calm down.
Well being the nice guy I was, I had to tell her about my weekend. To her that was a betrayal of trust and it wasn't something that she could get over. Around that same time, there just so happened to be a branch around and she chose to go that route instead of wasting her time mending the broken trust with me.
Needless to say I was heartbroken. But being the good looking, fun guy that I am, I moved on. Even though I was heartbroken, I went out under the guise of moving on. I ended up being with dozens of women but it didn't really get me over her.
Finally I met this great girl, her name was Celine. She made me laugh, we had a great time. From the first time I met her and our first interactions, I was in awe, I had a great time. We quickly grew together. She made me realize that I could love again. This girl did everything right, she truly respected me, always did stuff for me, we travelled together. Most importantly she actually clicked with my daughter and spent alot of time with her. I lived 2 hours away and my daughter lived not far from her, she would even spend time with her when I wasn't in town.
Everything was going great, I had this amazing women who loved me, I loved her, her & my daughter got along great, I couldn't ask for anything more. My business was going great, life was as close to perfect as it gets.
Want to know what happened next? Ginger appeared back in my life, the ex that shunned me a little over a year ago. Because I never deal with my feelings for Ginger properly, I still had feelings for her, because I thought we were meant for each other, I went to go and see her. I did this behind Celine's back.
Everything went well with Ginger, we had a good meeting, talked about things and we were going to give it a try, try one time to work things out becuase of how special things were between us.
Now you must be thinking, are you FVCKING CRAZY? Your life is perfect right now, Celine makes you laugh, you love her, your daughter and her get along great, everything in life is grand.
But love is one helluva drug, its such a powerful emotion, its like crack or heroine, once you've gotten high, you just want another hit. So being the good guy that I was, I couldn't lie, I had to tell Celine about Ginger and that I had to follow my heart.
A week later, Ginger didn't have the stones to leave the branch that she left me for and as a result, wasn't able to give us the chance that she said she would. So I was screwed, I just flushed things away with Celine at the chance of being with Ginger.
Because of the bond that we shared, me & Celine were still close but she was heartbroken, I ripped out her heart. We remained friends but she could never give me another chance becuase of the way I broke her heart & trust on a whim.
Now in my story, you are Celine and your g/f is me and your g/f's ex is Ginger.
So basically when she sent you that drunk text, Ginger came back into her life and thats why she sent that text. Now granted, I was more honest and told Celine the complete truth. But your g/f didn't do that.
I tell you something right now, the moral of this story is that YOU WILL ALWAYS BE SECOND FIDDLE TO HER EX. She has stronger feelings for him that she can EVER have for you.
At least Celine respected herself enough to not take me back. However your getting played for a fool. Her ex might not come back in the picture for 8 months or a year but I guarantee when he goes through a slump and needs a piece, he's going to go back to old faithful, Ms good ole reliable, I know its what I do.
And that my friend is why I say you'll end up divorced. I've said this twice before but your not getting it so I'll say it again:
I've personally seen your situation and I am drawing from my experience. If you doubt that I'm right, look at my last post, didn't I call it right, that everything has gone right since then? I know I'm right but disregard that.MacAvoy said:The only thing your getting experience with right now is ALLOWING women to walk over you and disrespect you for the sake of getting pvssy.
You can get this experience with OTHER women that actually respect you and treat you like a human being. This chick tells you that she'd rather be with her ex than you, and then uses a copout about being drunk.
You talk about the social proof that you get from being with your g/f. Think about this though, think about how your going to look in a few months when she dumps you and your heartbroken. You will have no options and you will miss her.
But if you take the action now & break up with her, think about the social proof you will have. They'll say 'look at Seb, he was going out with that hottie and he dumped her, he must have a tonne of options, I want to get in there next'. Use this to your advantage. Once you dump her and everyone sees you with a new girl on your side, they will come flocking to you.
Then you can pick & choose a girl that isn't damaged but wants to be with YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not a women pining over her ex. Make this new women fall madly in love with you because your current g/f isn't madly in love with you. But you can find a new girl and make her fall madly in love with sebastionay!
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
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1) You spend too much time with her - every day wtf?
2) she had / has other guys interested in her
3) get busy and do your own thing from time to time
4) good work on her getting to an Anne Summers party - now get out those @nal beeds and yank them out like starting an offboard motor !
2) she had / has other guys interested in her
3) get busy and do your own thing from time to time
4) good work on her getting to an Anne Summers party - now get out those @nal beeds and yank them out like starting an offboard motor !
PectoralisMajor said:1) You spend too much time with her - every day wtf?
2) she had / has other guys interested in her
3) get busy and do your own thing from time to time
4) good work on her getting to an Anne Summers party - now get out those @nal beeds and yank them out like starting an offboard motor !
once every 3 to 4 days these days and soon there will be 3 week gaps inbetween the two times we meet.
She knows ive got better looking people intrested in me.
I will, about a week ago i was thinking to be faithful to her, screw that.
Havent used this in a long while now because my situation with women is absoloutely fine, just thought id update this post though as it can be a good guide to other prospective DJ's
Were still together and very happy, She's came down to visit a couple of weeks ago for a few days even though it cost her quite alot of money and takes about 5 hours each way. She's bought another ticket to visit again in a little over 3 weeks to stay down for nearly two weeks.
Weve never had an argument or anything yet, I keep my horizons open and speak to other women with a seperate sim card so that she cant find out.
I got alot of negative reputation from this thread and most people told me to dump her, some said it would only last a few more days, few more weeks and so on.
Just bear in mind guys that alot of the older posters on here have had a long series of unsuccesful relationships that cause them to raise theyre defenses higher and shut out alot of opportunities with women in theyre life.
I just learned through this experience with the help of some excellent posters on here that instead of getting hurt and raising my defences that I should be very open and not invest emotionally in anyone that doesnt care about me.
Ive tested her a few times to see how much she likes me now, she broke down into tears each time, She's always the person that rings me, Always the one that travells to me - never the other way around. I think ive got a pretty perfect relationship in terms of her personality and stuff but im not sure if id like to go very long term with her as in terms of looks she's about 8.5/10 and ive had higher in the past.
Im still not emotionally attached to her, even though im confident she is emotionally attached to me, and had i followed the majority of advice on this thread id probably have been single alot longer.
Id recommend to any aspiring DJ thats at square one at the moment to get a gf that really cares about them, it boosts your confidence, boosts your sex drive, and you wont have fears about meeting the parents,sex and so on when you do come to meet the girl of your dreams because youl have done it all before and everyone is the same deep down. Good luck everyone.
Were still together and very happy, She's came down to visit a couple of weeks ago for a few days even though it cost her quite alot of money and takes about 5 hours each way. She's bought another ticket to visit again in a little over 3 weeks to stay down for nearly two weeks.
Weve never had an argument or anything yet, I keep my horizons open and speak to other women with a seperate sim card so that she cant find out.
I got alot of negative reputation from this thread and most people told me to dump her, some said it would only last a few more days, few more weeks and so on.
Just bear in mind guys that alot of the older posters on here have had a long series of unsuccesful relationships that cause them to raise theyre defenses higher and shut out alot of opportunities with women in theyre life.
I just learned through this experience with the help of some excellent posters on here that instead of getting hurt and raising my defences that I should be very open and not invest emotionally in anyone that doesnt care about me.
Ive tested her a few times to see how much she likes me now, she broke down into tears each time, She's always the person that rings me, Always the one that travells to me - never the other way around. I think ive got a pretty perfect relationship in terms of her personality and stuff but im not sure if id like to go very long term with her as in terms of looks she's about 8.5/10 and ive had higher in the past.
Im still not emotionally attached to her, even though im confident she is emotionally attached to me, and had i followed the majority of advice on this thread id probably have been single alot longer.
Id recommend to any aspiring DJ thats at square one at the moment to get a gf that really cares about them, it boosts your confidence, boosts your sex drive, and you wont have fears about meeting the parents,sex and so on when you do come to meet the girl of your dreams because youl have done it all before and everyone is the same deep down. Good luck everyone.